I've been around Star Wars longer than you have Nick (just a matter of being older, not talking down to you on this... but jeez Jedi was your first in theater...but I digress (I'm just playing around there, don't be so serious)) and I've always made the decision to only partake of what *I* want to partake of. I liked some of the early EU novels (Zahn in particular), but didn't read most as I didn't find the ideas very appealing, I enjoyed some of the comic series, mostly depended on the art/story combination. I liked to goof off with X-Wing/Tie Fighter, but really enjoyed the Lego series that have come out in the past few years (I mean really, Lego pieces all over the place and didn't have to worry about stepping on them) but never cared to get into the Jedi games or Knights. I can understand why so many are upset about the Prequels (we all had our own vision for it, and Lucas can't write dialog to save his life) but at the same time there was no possibility to have any type of suspense in the series, WE KNEW HOW IT WAS GOING TO END, and were really just wanting to see the visuals of the places we knew had to be there. I really enjoyed the Clone Wars cartoon series because it actually expanded on the characterization of Kenobi and Skywalker (things that Lucas didn't do in the Prequels, or Star Wars 4, but other directors did in Empire and Jedi).
What Disney has in store, I'm looking forward to it. I think that they can bring back some of the wonder and joy by giving us stories that we don't know the eventual outcome of everyone. But again, I'll only partake in what *I* want to do with it. We, as older fans, have to remember that to keep this rolling along we have to recruit new fans to the franchise. That means there will be things that I won't like or care about (cartoons, comics, books, games...) and won't personally take part in, but be sure that if one of my young cousins (or eventually grandchild... that actually scares me a little right now) I'll get them things to help grow their love of Star Wars (and other sci-fi) to have another generation to keep it alive.
Let me use an analogy here for "fandom." Baseball cards. When I was a kid, long after Dave was born, baseball cards (even of the Star Wars variety) were all over the place. We'd stick them in the spokes of our manually propelled transports and trade them and shoot them with BB rifles and generally enjoy the hell out of them. As I grew older, the card companies started catering to an older audience, fancier sets, signature cards, game used memorabilia cards and on and on and on.... and the cost of a pack of cards went from 25 cents... to 75 cents... to $1... and up and up and up. When I left the card business (I ran a card and comic shop for 7 years) the average pack of cards was approaching $5 a pack, and kids couldn't afford them anymore. Since then, the sports card market has completely collapsed, because everyone lost sight of keeping a younger generation interested in the hobby because they were focusing on the adult collector (and their $$$$ ) instead of keeping the hobby spread across multiple generations. We face the same thing with Star Wars overall, if we don't get a younger generation interested, it will all go away and 50 years from now we'll have documentaries talking about the "rise and fall" of a sci-fi empire.
TL: DR
Focus on what you like, don't worry about the other stuff.