Oh god this.In my experience, females don't have much experience with sexual rejection, and take it super personally.
Can I come too? I mean, I've calmed down a lot since the 1990s. I kind of like talking with friends, having a drink and some nice snacks, watching movies, playing games and so on. I make a really good buffalo chicken dip...Guys, don't be jealous, we can hang out too. Just not in a random sex lottery kind of way.
Not out of fear. She reminds me someone I once knew. I don't want to risk putting up with that again.I was referring more to the couple of guys who expressed the opinion that they wouldn't sign up if shego did, out of fear. I would assume that if she did sign up, it would be because she wanted to swing that way.
But when I'm getting it on the regular, there have been times I've turned down sex simply for not being in the mood. In my experience, females don't have much experience with sexual rejection, and take it super personally. In the past (though not with my current wife), this has led to some pretty big fights. At which point, I feel compelled to remind my partner that if I acted that way when they weren't in the mood, I'd be considered a misogynistic asshole at best, and potential rapist at worst for trying to browbeat a woman into having sex with me when she didn't want to.