Dave
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Okay, so the oncology (cancer) doctor came in last night to speak with the family. What will follow will be a paraphrasing of what he told us. I want to hear your thoughts as my sister just does not get it!
My father had Stage 3A (even though none of the biopsied lymph nodes showed cancerous, which I thought was a prereq for Stage 3) colon cancer. In effect the cancer had started to eat through the lining but had not yet penetrated. Essentially the fall which broke his hip also saved his life as they discovered this cancer which was nearly through the wall and into the lymph nodes.
In these cases the percentages break down as follows:
30-35% return in 5 years cancer free.
50% never return for various reasons unrelated to the diagnosis of cancer.
15-20% return in 5 years with a recurrence of the cancer.
There are treatments - chemotherapy - that can fight this recurrence. There is oral medication, IV infusion or a mix of both oral medicine and IV infusion. But since this is chemotherapy, how healthy he is will determine the aggressiveness of the treatments we choose, if any.
Okay, so here's where my sister and I differ.
She says: There's a 15-20% chance of the cancer coming back. That's not high enough to worry about. Even if he's healthy enough for the treatments we should probably stay away from the aggressive one as it has detrimental effects.
I say: There's a 30-40% chance of the cancer coming back within 5 years. If he's healthy enough we should certainly look into the more aggressive treatments, if that's what dad wants.
Am I wrong?
My father had Stage 3A (even though none of the biopsied lymph nodes showed cancerous, which I thought was a prereq for Stage 3) colon cancer. In effect the cancer had started to eat through the lining but had not yet penetrated. Essentially the fall which broke his hip also saved his life as they discovered this cancer which was nearly through the wall and into the lymph nodes.
In these cases the percentages break down as follows:
30-35% return in 5 years cancer free.
50% never return for various reasons unrelated to the diagnosis of cancer.
15-20% return in 5 years with a recurrence of the cancer.
There are treatments - chemotherapy - that can fight this recurrence. There is oral medication, IV infusion or a mix of both oral medicine and IV infusion. But since this is chemotherapy, how healthy he is will determine the aggressiveness of the treatments we choose, if any.
Okay, so here's where my sister and I differ.
She says: There's a 15-20% chance of the cancer coming back. That's not high enough to worry about. Even if he's healthy enough for the treatments we should probably stay away from the aggressive one as it has detrimental effects.
I say: There's a 30-40% chance of the cancer coming back within 5 years. If he's healthy enough we should certainly look into the more aggressive treatments, if that's what dad wants.
Am I wrong?