Okay. I just picked up Jet from day care. The provider for his group came out to meet me.
"We're having a lot of trouble with him. " She says.
I'm a bit confused. I was talking with the other ladies and the day care owner just Wednesday and asked how he was doing. I was told they rarely had problems with him and he was funny as heck. So I asked what the problem was.
She told me that he is day dreamy and doesn't listen. He doesn't sit sitll during quiet time like the rest of the children and wants to talk and do other things. I listen to this. I understand, Jet is accustomed to a later nap or no nap at all. He's also the kind of kid that need to be engaged on a near constant basis for anyone to have any peace.
He's also being followed by the local children's hospital. He may have aspergers or ADHD. I'll know later in December.
I'm about to explain this to her when she opens her mouth and says, "I think he may be slow or something."
I pause, not quite believing my ears. I then explain him being followed by the hopsital.
"Oh. They'll probably diagnose him with something. It mgiht explain why h won't use the toilet too."
At this point I feel a bubbling in my chest...indignation and a bit of anger. Jet is standing there...and goes down stairs with out me I excuse myself and leave.
Now, am I being over sensitive or does this lady have NO buisness talking so disdainfully about my kid? Especially in front of him.
I've had problems with her before. I get the feeing she just doesn't like either me or Jet. Should I complain?
"We're having a lot of trouble with him. " She says.
I'm a bit confused. I was talking with the other ladies and the day care owner just Wednesday and asked how he was doing. I was told they rarely had problems with him and he was funny as heck. So I asked what the problem was.
She told me that he is day dreamy and doesn't listen. He doesn't sit sitll during quiet time like the rest of the children and wants to talk and do other things. I listen to this. I understand, Jet is accustomed to a later nap or no nap at all. He's also the kind of kid that need to be engaged on a near constant basis for anyone to have any peace.
He's also being followed by the local children's hospital. He may have aspergers or ADHD. I'll know later in December.
I'm about to explain this to her when she opens her mouth and says, "I think he may be slow or something."
I pause, not quite believing my ears. I then explain him being followed by the hopsital.
"Oh. They'll probably diagnose him with something. It mgiht explain why h won't use the toilet too."
At this point I feel a bubbling in my chest...indignation and a bit of anger. Jet is standing there...and goes down stairs with out me I excuse myself and leave.
Now, am I being over sensitive or does this lady have NO buisness talking so disdainfully about my kid? Especially in front of him.
I've had problems with her before. I get the feeing she just doesn't like either me or Jet. Should I complain?