While those are the correct responses, maybe we should pick that bar off the ground BEFORE you start patting yourself on the back?
Oh I know I'm not doing anything particularly special, it's just... like... I consider myself a B- husband, one that does the bare minimum of being a husband while occasionally (and sometimes accidentally) going above and beyond, and also occasionally (and accidentally) falling short. And then I hear about guys who don't even reach my level, and I'm all like, "How are you guys failing this hard? Getting the basics right shouldn't be difficult."