A lot of women are just being themselves and then get surprised when guys get on them with "leading" and "flirting". A close friend of mine has to deal with it a bit. I know her personality; I see these jackasses think she's in love with them or some stupid shit because she texts them or watches a movie with them. Then they get upset when the group is at a bar/club and she's dancing or making out with the one guy she's actually interested in, and they pull her aside from everyone later, demanding an explanation and how could she do this to them, and she had no idea they saw her that way or they thought she saw them that way, and wouldn't have hung out with them so casually had she known they were going to get all lovesick and jealous when they have no place being that way.
Not saying either of you does that, but it's really fucking annoying to watch guys hover around a friend like asteroids with a superiority complex who then crash when they realize, no, she didn't feel that way about them, never did, never will, otherwise she would've made it actually fucking obvious instead of "oh, she's throwing out hints and signs because we talk on the phone or have dinner at her place sometimes like she does with every friend, male, female, straight, gay, whatever" followed by "She's with another guy, doing exactly like she does with me, except she kisses him and he spends the night having sex with her BETRAYAL!!!!"