Headed Towards Monogamy?

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Officer_Charon

Officer_Charon

Were it me, I'd do like Morphine suggested, but go for a walk, instead. If y'all's weather has been anything like ours the last two days, temperatures should be down enough that this is even a viable option, instead of both of you dying of heat exhaustion.

There's nothing for it but to tell the truth. Period. Point. Blank. Anything else is just going to make it worse.
 
CynicismKills

CynicismKills

Sorry man, but as someone who's had to do the same thing, I promise you it's better to have done it now rather than after she'd gotten even more attached to you and the idea of being with you. It likely doesn't mean much, but you did the right thing.
 
Bubble181

Bubble181

Hugs, dude. Damn, reading tihs whole thread in one go sucks. Starts off cool and awesome and slowly descends into sad :-(
Now I didn't even get to make the jokes about staying together for all the kinky stuff you can't do on a one night stand! Damn it!

But, seriously, it sucks to be there, sorry to hear it :-/
 
Sparhawk

Sparhawk

I know it was tough Calleja, but you did the right thing. Tears on your part are okay too, she might even understand that this was hard for you too.
 
Officer_Charon

Officer_Charon

No platitudes from over here, simply because that I know you don't wanna hear them, no matter how well-intentioned.

Just support, and respect for doing what is/will ultimately be the best thing you could do in your circumstances...
 
Espy

Espy

Yeah, big respect from the baby. I know its tough man. You didn't take the cowards way out though, and that counts for something.
 
Calleja

Calleja

Thanks guys. Really.

I've been in sort of a zombie haze today, not much work to do so I'm distracting my self by playing Pokemon with an emulator. She sent an SMS at 1:30am, with a corny phrase that still got to me and I won't share, and her telling me thanks for everything and that she (spanish word that's more than like but less than love, querer) me and... damn, that got me right in the gut again.

What really gets to me is that she was so... awesome. There was a point in the conversation where she must have noticed how awful it was for me and SHE tried to put on a brave face for MY sake. I was breaking up with her and she was still worried about how *I* felt. Every time I remember that I just feel worse, like human scum.

Don't worry, I got her to open up and say everything that was on her mind, we cried together, brainstormed for solutions together... and just said goodbye with a hug that neither of us wanted to break.
 
Calleja

Calleja

Is it weird that every single one of amy's posts in this thread have actually made me smile? More for the intention than the content, perhaps... but still.

Thanks. Really.
 
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Calleja said:
Is it weird that every single one of amy's posts in this thread have actually made me smile? More for the intention than the content, perhaps... but still.

Thanks. Really.
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And you repped me down for this, too.

 
Calleja

Calleja

What? No, I POS repped you.

I'm pretty sure.

Did I really misclick? I meant to rep you up, the comment was a smiley face!
 
Calleja

Calleja

Can someone pos rep Amy in my name? Two people, actually, cause we need to correct my mistake and THEN pos rep her up to what I originally intended.
 
Morphine

Morphine

I've wanted to rep a lot of people today but I'm having issues with the interface, the rep square appears below the post square, it sucks, it won't let me do anything.
so sorry, Calle, I was going to.
 
Morphine

Morphine

IE, I'm at work.
windows XP professional.

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uish, I didn't come because you scolded me, Calle. Uish uish uish u_u

and yes, I do break the internets ; _ ;
 
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