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Mar 16, 2011#1

rathkor

I considered posting this anonamously. But I decided it was best to man up and just seek the advice I need.

As boring and cliche as it sounds, there is a girl I like, but I am terrible with girls. I really like this girl. We always have a lot of fun hanging out together. We have a lot in common, she is exceptionally smart, and extremely beautiful, with eyes that shine and a smile that lights up a room. Seeing her can turn a bad day into a great day.

The problem is, I have no idea how to bring my feelings for her, or if I even should. I'm not too worried about compramising our friendship, as she is not the type to let such things in the way of a good friendship. I just simply do not know what I should do. I have no luck with girls at all. My last date was way back when Tila Tequila was popular.

As I said, I know this one is fairly boring and straightforward, and very cliche, but what can I do to maximize my chances of getting a yes from asking her out?

Mar 16, 2011#2

Math242

have you known her for a long time ? How far are you in the friend zone?

The thing is the longer you wait, the harder it'll be to ask her out.

So invite her to a fancy yet casual place where she can be comfortable and tell her that you want more. Don't be shy and don't be apologetic about how you feel when you tell her. You have to look confident about it.

Mar 16, 2011#3

rathkor

I first met her back in October of 2009, but I only really started hanging out with her last October. As far as how far into the friend zone, I dont know, although me, her, and a couple other friends once discussed the downside of being in the friend zone, and she was the only one in the group to express her belief that the friend zone doesn't really exist. So take that however you will.

Mar 16, 2011#4

phil

Text her "so when are you going to let me tap that?"

I'm semi serious.

Honestly just ask her out and let her know how you feel. Worst thing that can happen is she says no and you're still the same.

Mar 16, 2011#5

Math242

rathkor said:
I first met her back in October of 2009, but I only really started hanging out with her last October. As far as how far into the friend zone, I dont know, although me, her, and a couple other friends once discussed the downside of being in the friend zone, and she was the only one in the group to express her belief that the friend zone doesn't really exist. So take that however you will.

Just go ahead and ask her out. let her know subtly that it is a date.

or buy roofies

Mar 16, 2011#6

Docseverin

Be up front, clear, and honest. Some times you gotta gamble man. There are plenty of fish in the sea, but you're in the desert.....alone. If all else fails give her 2.5 mg of Midazolam IM then "date her", she won't remember a thing.

Mar 16, 2011#7

Chibibar

Do you hang out one on one (just you two?) or you usually hang out with a group of friends? If you hang out one on one, then it shouldn't be too hard. You should ask her out for a nice dinner and see how it goes.

Mar 16, 2011#8

drawn_inward

Go for it.

Don't be all blubbering and nervous. Avoid being obsequious at all costs. Man up and tell her that you would like to take her out to dinner and a show or an art gallery -- somewhere that allows you to talk to her. Look her in the eyes the entire time you ask her. Don't look at your feet, and fumble with your hands. Be confident, and don't act like it's a big deal to you, but don't act too casual either.

If she says no, big flipping deal. Don't make a big deal out of it, and just say it was worth a shot, and go on being friends.

Mar 16, 2011#9

Ravenpoe

That thing you said about the shining eyes and light up smile? Yeah, don't mention those. Other than that, you have all the advice you need in this thread.

Mar 16, 2011#10

Dave

Because the really good stuff has already been said...

Learn how to do "The Helicopter" move with your penis. Yell, "Hey! Look what I can do!"

Chicks dig that.

Mar 16, 2011#11

Baerdog

Dave said:
Because the really good stuff has already been said...

Learn how to do "The Helicopter" move with your penis. Yell, "Hey! Look what I can do!"

Chicks dig that.

This. This one right here.

Mar 16, 2011#12

Null

Next time you're hanging out with her one-on-one, just ask her out. Movies, dinner, just coffee, doesn't matter. Just make it clear that you're asking her out on date.

Mar 16, 2011#13

Jay

Here's my advice to you.

Setting up a date with a girl after a very long dry spell can be somewhat intimidating and stressful. Especially when the internet didn't exist back then. Rather than putting yourself into a bad state of mind about the bad things as you tend to do, think positively.

First, have a plan of action when setting up a date with the girl so that the pressure is not on her. It is important not to ask her where she wants to go. Since she's your friend, you should already know about what she likes to a certain degree. Do you have a few places in mind? Plan ahead! You'll get a lot of brownie points if she knows that you have something special already in mind.

Set up a date somewhere casual so that you can discuss life in general and walk around at the same time. Yeah exercise sucks but girls like walking and nature. Fun social activities like bowling... etc can be a good idea but honestly. Whatever she likes. Just no restos or cinemas. There is no pressure to embarrass yourself in front of your date by spilling your food or watching eachother eat awkwardly. Nor is going to the movies on the first date much fun since you're silently sitting beside eachother instead of talking and getting to know eachother.

Tell her that you want to set up a rendez vous date at a specific location on a specific day. Casually tell her that you would enjoy her company and would be excited to see her there. Don't forget to smile when you set up your first date with the girl. She can see how excited you are to get to know her better.

Don't get high expectations, tell her you want to get to know her better, if she wants to spend more time with you and that you enjoy her company, tell her how she makes you feel in a general sense "when you're around, my day tends to more enjoyable" "I enjoy talking to you, you understand me" "are you trying hard to be cute? or does it always come so easily?"

Make sure you don't pressure her to do anything.

And if things don't work out, there's always redtube.

Mar 16, 2011#14

rathkor

Dave said:
Because the really good stuff has already been said...

Learn how to do "The Helicopter" move with your penis. Yell, "Hey! Look what I can do!"

Chicks dig that.

Baerdog said:
This. This one right here.

I thought he meant the Dick Slang dance from Tosh.0 that one just seems like it could lead to some serious pain.

but yeah, shes not that kinda girl. there's no rushing to the bedroom here.

Mar 16, 2011#15

Dave

I actually was talking about that or something like meatspin (WARNING: Do NOT go to meatspin!) but his was pretty cool, too.

Mar 16, 2011#16

Baerdog

It's makare's favorite.

Mar 16, 2011#17

SpecialKO

If you think your friendship is on solid enough ground, just man up and ask her out, along the lines of what Jay is suggesting.

If you don't think your friendship is solid enough to survive, then you need to ask yourself how close a friendship can you have if it won't survive you asking for one date? Then man up, and ask her out.

Mar 22, 2011#18

rathkor

Those hoping for any sort of follow up or closure: I must disappoint. I'm still dragging my feet on this, like the snivling little coward I can be in these areas. Not that the presidence i've set in the past really gives me much to hope for.

though there is some update: while attempting to ask, but coming nowhere near it, we did watch The Princess Bride (am awesome flick, seriously). dunno if that eans anything, but we both had a great time. a glance was exchanged during one of the romantic scenes, but for the risk of reading too uch into it, i dont think it meant anything at all.

take that as you will.

Mar 22, 2011#19

Math242

don't be a pussy

Mar 22, 2011#20

Docseverin

You! Man the fuck up, be the GODDAMNED DRAGON MASTER you claim to be and ask her out. The worst thing that can happen is she says no and stops talking to you, if that's the case...was it really that bad? If she says no, she didn't deserve you.

You were the fastest sperm, you are destined for greatness!

Now look yourself in the mirror, say "I am a man", and start being the awesome motherfucker you know you are.

Mar 22, 2011#21

Dave

Docseverin said:
You were the fastest sperm, you are destined for greatness!

My new favoritest quote ever!

Mar 22, 2011#22

Docseverin

I stole it and didn't even quote it right, but fucking whatever. Rock on Dave!

Mar 22, 2011#23

rathkor

It should also be known that my mom was on the pill AND my dad wore a condom, and I'm still here.

Mar 22, 2011#24

TheBrew

rathkor said:
It should also be known that my mom was on the pill AND my dad wore a condom, and I'm still here.

Now THAT'S determination!

Mar 22, 2011#25

sixpackshaker

rathkor said:
It should also be known that my mom was on the pill AND my dad wore a condom, and I'm still here.

Why would a parent tell a child that.

Or do you just remember?

Mar 22, 2011#26

Silver Jelly

TheBrew said:
Now THAT'S determination!

Also, pretty scary.

Mar 22, 2011#27

rathkor

My family has told me waaaay too much. i was also apparently concieved at a comic book convention, so i was just born to be a geek.

Mar 22, 2011#28

Chibibar

rathkor said:
Those hoping for any sort of follow up or closure: I must disappoint. I'm still dragging my feet on this, like the snivling little coward I can be in these areas. Not that the presidence i've set in the past really gives me much to hope for.

though there is some update: while attempting to ask, but coming nowhere near it, we did watch The Princess Bride (am awesome flick, seriously). dunno if that eans anything, but we both had a great time. a glance was exchanged during one of the romantic scenes, but for the risk of reading too uch into it, i dont think it meant anything at all.

take that as you will.

Aw nuts! you miss a kissing moment!!! how could you?

well. Better man up and go for it.

Mar 22, 2011#29

SpecialKO

Chibibar said:
Aw nuts! you miss a kissing moment!!! how could you?

Chibi's got point - she might think you don't like her now.

Mar 22, 2011#30

Chibibar

SpecialKO said:
Chibi's got point - she might think you don't like her now.

Lets not scare the guy

I know my wife and I (before we got married) usually watch a bunch of chick flick (I like them) and we always identify "kissing moments" couple of my friends use them and it works for them.

Mar 22, 2011#31

phil

Where was she sitting during the movie? Opposite side of the couch? Right next to you?

If there are other places to sit, but she's deciding to sit specifically next to you, then just go for it next time.

If she doesn't sit next to you, invite her to.

Otherwise just up and ask her out.

Mar 22, 2011#32

rathkor

she was sitting next to me.

Mar 22, 2011#33

phil

rathkor said:
she was sitting next to me.

hmmm. Well, I got nothing. Perhaps my friend Sebastian has a suggestion?

interesting take on things 'Bastian. Thanks for the help.

Mar 22, 2011#34

rathkor

i mean, there's complications. shes not really... i mean, she's 19 and has never been on a date, never kissed a guy, and as far as i can tell has never had a single dirty thought in her life. I think if she ever did go out with a guy, it would be a slow progression sort of thing. she's old fashioned, and thats okay with me. i dont see a guy trying to kiss her on what could at BEST be a kinda-sorta-date really flying with her, is what i'm saying. and that is even if that was a kinda-sorta-date, which it could easily not have been, soo...

Mar 22, 2011#35

phil

you're not like, creepily older than her, right?

Mar 22, 2011#36

rathkor

im 21, shes 19, so no

Mar 22, 2011#37

phil

In that case:

Mar 22, 2011#38

rathkor

Mar 22, 2011#39

phil

Ok, let me be a bit more serious for just a moment.

Basically at this point it sounds like excuses not to do anything. She's never had a boyfriend or anything, but she will one day. Whatever qualities you see in her, someone else does too, or will at some point. The longer you do nothing the longer you allow someone else to become the guy you want to be.

You assume she's old fashioned and would be turned off by a spontaneous act of romance. What makes you say that? Has someone else tried and it didn't work for them? Is she shooting down guys left and right because they don't court her properly? Or does no one ask her out because they all assume that she's too old fashioned to actually want to go out?

She's your friend now, but she won't always be. One day she's going to move, or get a job that takes up all her time, or not want to hang out because she's too busy having the kinkiest sex you'd ever imagine with a guy who swept her off her feet with a spontaneous gesture. You honestly have nothing to lose if you just call her up and see if she'd be interested in doing something.

Mar 22, 2011#40

HCGLNS

Buy her a set of chick polyhedral dice.

If she looks at you like a freak, move on to a new girl.
If she says "thank you how sweet", ask her out.
If she hits you and goes on to explain how the manufacturing process of said dice reduces randomness, marry her.

Mar 22, 2011#41

rathkor

phil said:
You assume she's old fashioned and would be turned off by a spontaneous act of romance. What makes you say that? Has someone else tried and it didn't work for them? Is she shooting down guys left and right because they don't court her properly? Or does no one ask her out because they all assume that she's too old fashioned to actually want to go out?

no, she has discussed her distaste for guys hitting on her in the less subtle ways college guys are known for, and has expessed hollywood romance as unrealistic. she likes Princess Bride as a story, but she only really likes the typical romance of it because te typical romantic kiss isnt from two people who just met on this adventure, but because it was between two people whos romance was already established, was described to have developed slowly over time, and the final kiss was the result of a reunion, unlike other typical romance stories.

thats why even if that glance meant more than just two people looking over at the same time, i doubt that was an invitation to a kiss, based on our previous discussions of The Princess Bride and other romantic movies.

As for the kinky sex you mentioned, she has flat out stated her distaste of guys who are sex obsessed and has stated she will not be having sex beore marriage. Hell, she even once cosplayed as the girl trainer from Pokemon Black and White, and liked the costume, but stated that that was just right at her comfort level of "skankiness," to which i had a nice chuckle.

Mar 22, 2011#42

Null

Stop making excuses. Ask her out or move on. She isn't going to get more available.

Mar 22, 2011#43

Baerdog

Null's got it about right. Either make your move or forget about her. Just remember that if you don't make your move you forfeit any rights to complain about not being with her.

Mar 22, 2011#44

Gusto

Here's the best part:

Once you ask out a girl the first time, even if it doesn't go the way you want, it will ALWAYS be easier to ask out girls from then on.

Seriously, get to work.

Mar 22, 2011#45

rathkor

Ive asked out girls before. hence the reason im so pessimistic now. When people say the worst tha can happen in a "no", i can safely say from experience that no, it can in fact, get much worse than that.

Mar 22, 2011#46

SpecialKO

Let me get this straight:

1) You have a friend you've known a while and are close with, and you really want to ask her out.
2) You've had long discussions with her about what she considers actually romantic.
3) She's specifically talked about how she considers "hollywood romances" unrealistic and likes the Princess Bride because the romance develops slowly over time between two people who got to know one another over that time.
4) You guys watched the movie together. Not any movie, but the specifically the Princess Bride. Alone. While she sat next to you.

And you did nothing. At all.
....
....
....
Dude. I know you're young and everything, but...dude.

Mar 22, 2011#47

Gusto

I've had worse than a no before but you can't let these things get you down. Either I'm an idiot, an incurable optimist, or a glutton for punishment, or maybe something about being an artist that has me ready to accept any and all rejection and get over it pretty immediately, but it's important to keep fuckin' trying.

Mar 22, 2011#48

rathkor

i'd guess a glutton for punishment myself. i might try and bring it up next time i see her, if i get the chance.

Mar 22, 2011#49

Chibibar

Then you know what? if she likes old fashion, then do it the "old fashion" way. Ask her if she like to accompany you to an outing that you both like. Talk with her and spend time with her. Tell her you would be honored if she would go out with you. If she said no, then so be it. If she said, yes. yay!!!

Mar 23, 2011#50

Null

rathkor said:
Ive asked out girls before. hence the reason im so pessimistic now. When people say the worst tha can happen in a "no", i can safely say from experience that no, it can in fact, get much worse than that.

Okay, we'll make a deal. If she literally castrates you, you hereby have the right to say "I told you so." That seems fair.

Mar 23, 2011#51

Docseverin

I figure that I have slept with/dated about 1 in 20 girls I hit on/ask out with my number being in the mid double digits area, that's a lot of rejection...am I pessimistic? No, you don't know the answer to a question you never ask. So last time, stop getting on the express excuse train to lonelyville, and fucking go for it. If she takes your balls I will give you mine and take the I told you so, but I am pretty sure the worst case scenario for this is a no and maybe being ignored.

Like I said this is my last post, you can't help someone who doesn't want to be helped, you've been given the advice, if you don't act on it you have no one to blame but yourself.

Mar 23, 2011#52

rathkor

woah, its not like im dragging my feet. i havent seen her since making the post. thats all.

Mar 23, 2011#53

David

I'm in basically the same boat, I like a girl I've known for the last 6 months and want to be more than friends with, but there's a difference that she just a couple months ago got out of a relationship that sounds like it ended on a sour note and I'm worried about being "too soon." I ordinarily don't have too much trouble announcing my feelings to a girl, and we heavily flirt with eachother jokingly (half-jokingly on my part), we spent all day hanging out together on Sunday and I had a great time with her, but a couple of my friends are telling me I should hold off a while longer before telling her how I seriously feel.

My emotions right now are going... "Fuck those friends, tell the girl already."

Mar 23, 2011#54

Null

David said:
I'm in basically the same boat, I like a girl I've known for the last 6 months and want to be more than friends with, but there's a difference that she just a couple months ago got out of a relationship that sounds like it ended on a sour note and I'm worried about being "too soon." I ordinarily don't have too much trouble announcing my feelings to a girl, and we heavily flirt with eachother jokingly (half-jokingly on my part), we spent all day hanging out together on Sunday and I had a great time with her, but a couple of my friends are telling me I should hold off a while longer before telling her how I seriously feel.

My emotions right now are going... "Fuck those friends, tell the girl already."

It's been a couple months? Go for it. If she says, "I'm not ready to get into a relationship again just yet" then at least you tried.

Mar 23, 2011#55

Silver Jelly

The girl I epically failed with, as chronicled on this forums, started dating a guy DAYS before I told her I liked her.

he's a guy she had described to me, as a friend, like somebody I would probably like because "He is very very similar to me".

And, you know, he is. I know him, and I can tell you, he's a lot like a more straightforward version of me.

Don't let that happen to you.

Mar 23, 2011#56

Null

If only there had been a large group of semi-anonymous people scattered around the world, suggesting you get the lead out...

Mar 23, 2011#57

Silver Jelly

Null said:
If only there had been a large group of semi-anonymous people scattered around the world, suggesting you get the lead out...

Are you talking to him or to me? Because I sure as hell learned my lesson without any need for people saying "I told you so", thank you.

Mar 24, 2011#58

rathkor

well, i will be seeing her at a video game game night friday, so if i get the chance to, and if i can muster up the courage, ill ask her.

Mar 24, 2011#59

Math242

Silver Jelly said:
Are you talking to him or to me? Because I sure as hell learned my lesson without any need for people saying "I told you so", thank you.

still, they did tell you so

Mar 24, 2011#60

Silver Jelly

let's try to focus on what rathkor can learn from my stupidity instead of pointing it out, please.

Mar 24, 2011#61

sixpackshaker

But it is easy to kick people when they are down.

Mar 24, 2011#62

Chibibar

Silver Jelly said:
let's try to focus on what rathkor can learn from my stupidity instead of pointing it out, please.

for the record: I don't think it was stupidity. It was just an opportunity. We miss A LOT of opportunities that life throws our way either because, we didn't see it, we didn't know know it, or totally oblivious to it. The main trick is that we learn from it and able to spot it better next time

Mar 24, 2011#63

Null

And when you have a dozen spotters pointing the opportunity out to you, well, you don't have anyone else to blame.

Mar 24, 2011#64

SpecialKO

rathkor said:
well, i will be seeing her at a video game game night friday, so if i get the chance to, and if i can muster up the courage, ill ask her.

Just remember, if she asks you over to bake cookies, that's not what she actually wants.

No one is telling you to get your McLuvin' on (which sounds like a bad idea, in this case), just ask her out.

Mar 25, 2011#65

Math242

FFS.

Grab your phone, invite her to do something, put your god damn arm around her shouulders and see what the fuck happens.

n

Mar 25, 2011#66

ThatNickGuy

It's real simple.

You drop trou and say "So, how about it?"

Mar 25, 2011#67

Math242

no no no no

how about it BITCH!

Mar 25, 2011#68

@Li3n

rathkor said:
no, she has discussed her distaste for guys hitting on her in the less subtle ways college guys are known for, and has expessed hollywood romance as unrealistic. she likes Princess Bride as a story, but she only really likes the typical romance of it because te typical romantic kiss isnt from two people who just met on this adventure, but because it was between two people whos romance was already established, was described to have developed slowly over time, and the final kiss was the result of a reunion, unlike other typical romance stories.

thats why even if that glance meant more than just two people looking over at the same time, i doubt that was an invitation to a kiss, based on our previous discussions of The Princess Bride and other romantic movies.

You still missed your chance to test the waters by touching her hand or something...
Added at: 20:16

rathkor said:
and as far as i can tell has never had a single dirty thought in her life.

You should check for USB ports then, she might be some sort of robot from the future...

Mar 25, 2011#69

Gusto

Yeah I call horseshit on the "never had a dirty thought" thing.

Mar 25, 2011#70

Jay

Gusto said:
Yeah I call horseshit on the "never had a dirty thought" thing.

Pretty much this.

You always have such a thought, about everything, anytime.

Heck, I'm pretty much mind fucked all of you posters on this forum. Only Silver Jelly offered a reach around because he's a gentleman.

Mar 26, 2011#71

rathkor

Well, I did it. It wasnt easy, because two of my friends were busy playing cock blocker on me. but she asked me to walk her home, since it was late and she was afraid to go alone. along the way, we talked about it. The answer I got was that she wasnt really looking to date anyone right now, and she looked genuinly hurt to have to turn me down. She did tell me I might have a shot when she does decide to start dating.

genuine or a polite fuck you? take that as you will. i sure as hell don't know. but i guess at least i did it.

Mar 26, 2011#72

Silver Jelly

Even if the results weren't great, well done, man!

Mar 26, 2011#73

Ravenpoe

Unfortunate, but you did it! Be proud.

Mar 26, 2011#74

SpecialKO

Good job, man. It may not have been the result you wanted, but you won't have to wonder. And hey, who knows what the future will bring?

Just don't drown your sorrows with someone else. I'm sure you know that, but some things are worth saying explicitly, and it sounds like you really like her a lot. When you're down, a rebound can disguise itself as moving on.

Mar 26, 2011#75

Math242

it'll be easier next time

Mar 26, 2011#76

Null

Good job.

Mar 28, 2011#77

rathkor

so whens this feeling of satisfation supposed to kick in? cuz right now im just bummed about the rejection and simultaneously taking solace in the fact that she said it wasnt totally hopeless and planning my next move, adding stress and worry to the emotional concoction.

Mar 28, 2011#78

rathkor

except asking someone else out would only repeat the cycle. always seems to happen. just sayin

Mar 28, 2011#79

MindDetective

It's not a cycle, though. It's probability. Keep trying and eventually you roll a natural 20.

Mar 28, 2011#80

@Li3n

MindDetective said:
It's not a cycle, though. It's probability. Keep trying and eventually you roll a natural 20.

And if you don't i'm sure you can find some scientists to pay to study why you're such an impossible anomaly.
Added at: 13:19

rathkor said:
She did tell me I might have a shot when she does decide to start dating.

ROBOT.FROM.THE.FUTURE!!!!

Mar 28, 2011#81

Chibibar

This is how I see it.
She said you might have a shot when she does want to start dating. That is pretty good. So she is not ready to date right now (it does happen) You can still be her friend like always, but also don't let it bum you out.
That is the whole point of dating. To find a person to match you. It is not an easy quest. It can be long and hard, but that is what life is all about. I say, try to not let it bum you. It is a probability. It is like winning a lottery except when you do find your someone, it is worth it

trust me.
I had at least dozen (if not more) heart broken before I found my wife.
If I gave up from the 1st heart break, I would not have found my wife

Mar 28, 2011#82

Null

rathkor said:
except asking someone else out would only repeat the cycle. always seems to happen. just sayin

If you're going to have the attitude of a loser, why would anyone want to date you? Either pick yourself up and move on, or give up and shut up. Either way, whining isn't going to win you any dates.

Mar 28, 2011#83

Tress

Null is right. You may not realize it now, but you are wiser and stronger for having done this. Sure, it didn't work out... this time. Eventually it will, though. Don't set yourself up for defeat beforehand and you'll be fine.

"Far better is it to dare mighty things, to win glorious triumphs, even though checkered by failure... than to rank with those poor spirits who neither enjoy nor suffer much, because they live in a gray twilight that knows not victory nor defeat."
- Thoedore Roosevelt

Mar 29, 2011#84

@Li3n

Why the fuck does travelling is counted among drug use, smoking and what i'm hoping is unprotected sex which led to some sort of disease (otherwise it shouldn't be there either).

Mar 29, 2011#85

Baerdog

Reminds me of a quote I heard recently:

"I am less interested in living as long as I can as I am in living as well as I can." -JM Lust

Mar 29, 2011#86

@Li3n

mr_thehun said:
These are the same people that worry I'm going to be executed on the street because I live in China and think that he got cancer because he isn't Christian. I dislike this side of my family.

So as expected... idiots.

Baerdog said:
Reminds me of a quote I heard recently:

"I am less interested in living as long as I can as I am in living as well as I can." -JM Lust

I bet he'd be singing a different tune if he was immortal...

Mar 29, 2011#87

Null

He'd be too busy just outliving the hell out of everything to be singing.

Mar 29, 2011#88

Gusto

MindDetective said:
It's not a cycle, though. It's probability. Keep trying and eventually you roll a natural 20.

Clearly you haven't been the victim of a Blazing Starfall. :awesome:

Mar 29, 2011#89

Necronic

@Li3n said:
I bet he'd be singing a different tune if he was immortal...

Who said he wasn't? Too bad there can be only one....

HERE WE ARE! WE'RE THE MASTERS OF THE UNIVERSE!

....

Anywho....

Yeah, dude, sucks to get shot down but nut up or STFU. You walked up to the plate, and you may have struck out but at least you went to the plate. Now you now how well you swung. Learn from it and do it again. And again. And again.

Mar 29, 2011#90

Gusto

IT WILL NEVER END.

Except when it does.

Mar 29, 2011#91

SpecialKO

Necronic said:
You walked up to the plate, and you may have struck out but at least you went to the plate. Now you now how well you swung. Learn from it and do it again. And again. And again.

This is a surprisingly apt analogy. Nice one, Necro.

Mar 29, 2011#92

rathkor

Gusto said:
Clearly you haven't been the victim of a Blazing Starfall.

^what he said. seriously, probability is not my friend. i am a statistical anomoly magnet.

Mar 29, 2011#93

Gusto

You'll just have to rely on your charm and devil may care attitude.

Mar 30, 2011#94

rathkor

my....charm? i'm screwed. lol got plenty of devil may care attitude though. hmm...

Mar 30, 2011#95

Gusto

Dragonman may care.

Mar 30, 2011#96

Null

rathkor said:
^what he said. seriously, probability is not my friend. i am a statistical anomoly magnet.

Oh, shut up. You got shot down - very, very gently, at that. Get the fuck over it.

Mar 30, 2011#97

sixpackshaker

You will ask out more women than you will ever date. Don't get emotionally invested in a person until after you have been on a couple of dates. If you go to ask out a girl after you have already picked out your china patterns before you ever talk to her, you will have no chance.

Just keep running on that old treadmill until you can find the woman that wants to be with you, and that you want to be with.

Mar 30, 2011#98

Chibibar

sixpackshaker said:
You will ask out more women than you will ever date. Don't get emotionally invested in a person until after you have been on a couple of dates. If you go to ask out a girl after you have already picked out your china patterns before you ever talk to her, you will have no chance.

Just keep running on that old treadmill until you can find the woman that wants to be with you, and that you want to be with.

AGREE! Do you know why some people have a hard time finding a mate? cause they place restriction on themselves!! (that is what I believe) Who cares if you think you don't have a shot asking a girl out. Ask her! if she said no, then move on and ask someone else! Never think anyone is out of your league. You be surprise on who might date you. something you just have to come out and ask!

Mar 30, 2011#99

Ravenpoe

Chibibar said:
AGREE! Do you know why some people have a hard time finding a mate? cause they place restriction on themselves!! (that is what I believe) Who cares if you think you don't have a shot asking a girl out. Ask her! if she said no, then move on and ask someone else! Never think anyone is out of your league. You be surprise on who might date you. something you just have to come out and ask!

This is why Shakira has a restraining order against me.

Mar 30, 2011#100

Null

No, she has a restraining order against you because she found you jacking off in her tour bus.

Mar 30, 2011#101

Terrik

But at least he still made it to her tour bus.

Mar 30, 2011#102

Jay

What was the start of all this? When did the cogs of fate begin to turn? Perhaps it is impossible to grasp that answer now, from deep within the flow of time.

But, for a certainty, back then, we loved so many, yet hated so much, we hurt others and were hurt ourselves. Yet even then, we ran like the wind, whilst our laughter echoed, under cerulean skies.

Mar 30, 2011#103

rathkor

when did what start?

Mar 31, 2011#104

Hailey Knight

Chrono Cross music in game, Chrono Cross quote. What have you been doing, Jay?

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