The funny thing is, my friend, that they are not the power behind the forums. Were that the case there would be several people gone...probably myself included. I listen to everyone but the very best way for me to not do what you want is to send me a nastygram telling me I have no guts, etc. Which has happened several times by various members.
But if it makes for interesting discussion, everyone can think people other than myself had a hand in it.