I've been considering posting this for a while now but now that it seems like it is 100% for real happening I guess I will so that I can get some ideas. My and my wife got back together a while ago and things are going good (thatdowsnt have anything to do with this but hey).
Here we go
I apologize in advance for my bad grammar but I'm posting off my phone at work.
So I'm just wondering what to expect here and I have a huge backstory here.
There are three people inthe story me my wife and her aunt. Me and my wife live in Texas while her aunt lives in wisonsin but we make trips up there to visit her side of the family every few years when we can afford it. This all started when her aunt was delivering her 7th(?) child while she was in the hospital after delivering her the house she was staying in with her mom burnt down killing two of her children they couldn't get the children out because they are hordera and there was too much junk in the house to this day she still partially blames the baby for her other two kids deaths because she wasn't there to save them. Cps wasn't involved yet.
After they moved into a new house because the fire destroyed the other one my wifes uncle (who is a child molester) started living with them with my wifes complaints. My wife tried to tell them what he was because he molested her as a child but it was ne'er reported because her grandma who she lived with didn't believe her. Lo and behold he started molesting her aunts kids and she took them to the doctor after they started complaining. This is where cps got involved.
After cps came to the house and saw the living conditions they were still hoarding and all slept on one bed they removed her other 4 children this was almost 3 years ago and the youngest have been in foster care since while the oldest are with her aunt as they kept running away from their foster homes to live with her aunt.
My wife hot in contact with the case worker who wouldn't confirm the case against her aunt because she didn't sign a disclosure agreement. After all this time the cps worker brought her the paperwork and basically said if she didn't sign it her kids would probably be adopted out and she would never see them again so she did.
We got the paperwork on Friday to start the process of fostering to adopt (aunt doesn't know that we will probably adopt) and Wisconsin CPA plans on terminating her rights and filing a restraining order against her aunt. Wisconsin cps has talked to the foster family up there (an Amish family) an they agree it's in the childrens best intrest to be places with us because the kids seem depressed after visits with their mom because of the living environment. We were told we should expect a surprise visit from Texas cps shortly so theycan evaluate our home but the Wisconsin cps is going to push for them to come here and they are once all this happens are going to terminate her parental rights and file a restraining order against her but she doesn't know any of this yet.
Once all this happens most of my wifes family will more than likely disown her and start a bunch of drama an I'm just trying to figure out what I should do in order to prepare for all of this.
Here we go
I apologize in advance for my bad grammar but I'm posting off my phone at work.
So I'm just wondering what to expect here and I have a huge backstory here.
There are three people inthe story me my wife and her aunt. Me and my wife live in Texas while her aunt lives in wisonsin but we make trips up there to visit her side of the family every few years when we can afford it. This all started when her aunt was delivering her 7th(?) child while she was in the hospital after delivering her the house she was staying in with her mom burnt down killing two of her children they couldn't get the children out because they are hordera and there was too much junk in the house to this day she still partially blames the baby for her other two kids deaths because she wasn't there to save them. Cps wasn't involved yet.
After they moved into a new house because the fire destroyed the other one my wifes uncle (who is a child molester) started living with them with my wifes complaints. My wife tried to tell them what he was because he molested her as a child but it was ne'er reported because her grandma who she lived with didn't believe her. Lo and behold he started molesting her aunts kids and she took them to the doctor after they started complaining. This is where cps got involved.
After cps came to the house and saw the living conditions they were still hoarding and all slept on one bed they removed her other 4 children this was almost 3 years ago and the youngest have been in foster care since while the oldest are with her aunt as they kept running away from their foster homes to live with her aunt.
My wife hot in contact with the case worker who wouldn't confirm the case against her aunt because she didn't sign a disclosure agreement. After all this time the cps worker brought her the paperwork and basically said if she didn't sign it her kids would probably be adopted out and she would never see them again so she did.
We got the paperwork on Friday to start the process of fostering to adopt (aunt doesn't know that we will probably adopt) and Wisconsin CPA plans on terminating her rights and filing a restraining order against her aunt. Wisconsin cps has talked to the foster family up there (an Amish family) an they agree it's in the childrens best intrest to be places with us because the kids seem depressed after visits with their mom because of the living environment. We were told we should expect a surprise visit from Texas cps shortly so theycan evaluate our home but the Wisconsin cps is going to push for them to come here and they are once all this happens are going to terminate her parental rights and file a restraining order against her but she doesn't know any of this yet.
Once all this happens most of my wifes family will more than likely disown her and start a bunch of drama an I'm just trying to figure out what I should do in order to prepare for all of this.