Necronic
Staff member
I have no idea why I am posting this here. I don't know anyone here personally, and for that reason I don't think yall can really add to this or help me with it. I just have to say it somewhere.
Me and an old ex (THE ex, you know what I mean) started chatting on facebook last night. She was drunk but seemed pretty coherent. We started talking about the fact that we both want to marry each other.....
wtf....
I am so fucking confused right now. I think this girl is actually the love of my life. I have thought about her every other day for 5 years, and I always tried to not think about her. Its like all these doors I have been trying in vain to keep shut for all this time finally blew open.
On the other hand...
I just got out of a 3 year relationship like a month ago. It was dead a long time ago though. I haven't thought twice about getting back with her. As a matter of fact my last girlfriend asked me once (@1.5 years) that if this girl showed up at my door and asked me to marry her would I say yes. I told her "maybe". That's how much this girl (THE ex) has fucked me up.
Fuck.
FUCK.
FUCK! I am so happy that this is in the open now, because either I will determine that she is the love of my life and marry her, or it turns out she isn't (or will have nothing to do with me, as I repeatedly screwed her over because I was an immature little shit) and at least I can start to get closure on it. There is a horizon here. But FUCK this is so fucking crazy! I can't believe she told me this. She said "we should do it" and I said "ok"
But I can't hurt her again. I have to know. I mean FUCK, she lives in Chicago, I live in Houston. She's in a relationship. Seems to like the guy. If I'm not serious about this, I can't jeapordize her happiness. Yet, how do I know if I am serious about this? I have to see her. I'll see her at christmas. Its too long. I want to see her now. But that's fucking crazy.
I am loosing my goddamned mind right now.
fuck.
Me and an old ex (THE ex, you know what I mean) started chatting on facebook last night. She was drunk but seemed pretty coherent. We started talking about the fact that we both want to marry each other.....
wtf....
I am so fucking confused right now. I think this girl is actually the love of my life. I have thought about her every other day for 5 years, and I always tried to not think about her. Its like all these doors I have been trying in vain to keep shut for all this time finally blew open.
On the other hand...
I just got out of a 3 year relationship like a month ago. It was dead a long time ago though. I haven't thought twice about getting back with her. As a matter of fact my last girlfriend asked me once (@1.5 years) that if this girl showed up at my door and asked me to marry her would I say yes. I told her "maybe". That's how much this girl (THE ex) has fucked me up.
Fuck.
FUCK.
FUCK! I am so happy that this is in the open now, because either I will determine that she is the love of my life and marry her, or it turns out she isn't (or will have nothing to do with me, as I repeatedly screwed her over because I was an immature little shit) and at least I can start to get closure on it. There is a horizon here. But FUCK this is so fucking crazy! I can't believe she told me this. She said "we should do it" and I said "ok"
But I can't hurt her again. I have to know. I mean FUCK, she lives in Chicago, I live in Houston. She's in a relationship. Seems to like the guy. If I'm not serious about this, I can't jeapordize her happiness. Yet, how do I know if I am serious about this? I have to see her. I'll see her at christmas. Its too long. I want to see her now. But that's fucking crazy.
I am loosing my goddamned mind right now.
fuck.