I'm sorry for the length...I have a bit of time on my hands
Let me start off by saying that I'm "Biggest Loser" big, and that's compared to recent seasons, not the first few. The only normal clothing I can buy from the stores I like include boxers and socks. In the past three years, I've put on around 70 pounds. Until recently, I was eating four meals a day, one of which was fast food. I am fat...no, I am morbidly obese. While I couldn't care less about going grocery shopping or walking around the mall, I am embarrassed to meet new people that I have to interact with. And it's all my fault.
About a month ago, my wife (who's also overweight) and I decided that we were going to make a lifestyle change. I can't call it a diet because we are making permanent changes. We downloaded the Lose It app for our iPhones and turned on the optional trackers for fat/saturated fat, cholesterol, carbs, sodium, fiber, sugar, and protein. As most of the products we buy are not listed, we've had to manually enter a lot of our foods. This has helped us get into the habit of looking at labels. We haven't made it far enough to start paying attention to ingredients, but that's an eventual goal. While I know the Lose It app isn't 100% accurate, my doctor agreed with the approximate amount of calories it had budgeted for my current weight. I always aim to be under, but it's good to know it's relatively accurate.
The one thing we noticed above everything else was the amount of sodium that I was taking in. Since one of my meals was invariably fast food (McDouble and a chicken nugget Happy or Mighty Kids Meal from McDonalds, for example) and we ate a lot of boxed/packaged meals, my sodium intake averaged around 5500mg a day. That's over 2x the daily recommended allowance. No wonder my blood pressure had been hovering in the 140s/high 90s. So many diets ignore sodium. For example, Weight Watchers (my mother-in-law is an employee) offers their points slider that factors in calories, fat, and fiber. DWLZ.com, a great WW related website, recently started including information about carbohydrates in a lot of their listings and sodium in a few others.
We've changed our breakfast habits from having bacon, eggs (fried or scrambled with cheese), and hashbrowns to egg beater omelets with spinach, mushrooms, shredded cheese, etc. We've incorporated more fruit and/or homemade smoothies (frozen fruit and orange juice instead of yogurt) with a fiber supplement. I try to eat a bowl of cereal from time to time, ranging from Lucky Charms (my weakspot) to Kashi Go-Lean Crunch. I've been drinking 1% milk for quite some time (I can't do skim) and I stick to the standard serving of 1/2 cup, as I've never used a lot of milk for my cereal. At work, I get an egg white omelet with double mushrooms, baby spinach, and some freshly made salsa. Calorie count on it? Approximately 60 calories because the café downstairs cooks it with cooking spray.
For lunch, we've moved away from sandwiches and frozen lunches. Most packaged sandwhich meat has a buttload of sodium. We would even get the reduced sodium Hillshire Farms meat and still have over 400mg for 2oz of thin sliced chicken, turkey, or ham. That's not a lot of meat. I love sandwhiches. Now, we load up the chicken/fish with garlic, cracked pepper, a slight amount of sea salt, paprika, a touch of cayenne pepper and cook it on our griddle with some generic brand Pam. The brown rice, even for a half cup of it, is still 150 calories (we use the boil-in-a-bag stuff), but it's filling. We buy the Steamfresh veggies (green beans, sweet corn, or broccoli/cauliflower). Two boiled bags of rice and two types of the veggies generally lasts my wife and I the whole week (4-5 days for her, 3-4 for me). The café here at work that has buffalo chicken on Wednesday and I get the baked chicken over lettuce for a salad instead of a monster wrap. This includes some cheddar cheese, ranch, and a little extra buffalo sauce.
Dinner has been another big adjustment. I grew up eating and learned to cook southern food. This includes chicken nuggets, chicken fried steak, cheeseburgers, teriyaki-glazed chicken, etc. I also hated fish. Now, we bake, broil, and grill quite a bit of fish and chicken. My favorite, so far, has been the yellowfin tuna steaks cooked on our griddle with a little bit of olive oil and fresh lemon juice. We also like broiled mahi-mahi with some pepper, garlic, and a hint of salt. Nice and plain. We try to keep our dinners to around 500 calories.
A second big change we made was to start making big salads, having either a caesar salad or homestyle salad . Caesar Salad? Ken's Lite Creamy Caesar has been our go-to choice, retaining quite a bit of flavor without the nasty aftertaste that most diet dressings have. We actually make a big salad and use the normal serving of two tablespoons between us. We shake the salad in a plastic bowl so that the dressing coats the entire salad. We then use a little bit of fresh parmesan cheese and a few croutons (Texas Toast Garlic and Butter). This ends up costing us approximately 75 calories. We do the same thing for homestyle salads, but cheat a little by having normal ranch, but still keeping it to the two tablespoon serving split between us. We slice up cucumbers and carrots and don't add cheese. This brings it to around 100 calories (due to the ranch). A big salad has worked wonders as a good filler.
Yes, I still want the stuff I've given up or I'm working on giving up...yes the adjustment has been incredibly tough. But over the last two and a half weeks that we've been doing this seriously (the first week was a bit of a failure) I have dropped almost 11.5 lbs. It's a small part of what I want to lose, but for the first time in over a decade I have sustained weight loss, sustained a "diet", and I actually feel physically better for it.
We exercise three times a week, we go bowling, walk, play Wii Sports during off days, etc. Our apartment gym sucks, so we are going to get a membership at one of the local gyms that also has a pool so that I can swim. I'm not trying to build muscle at this time, rather I'm doing more reps with a smaller weight. I love to row (machine weight). While I don't work out hard (I burn approximately 300-450 calories per 20 minute work out), I'm building my endurance. If I join a gym, I want to be able to work out for an hour...not just 20 or 30 minutes. I want to get to the point where I'm working out an hour a day, swimming a portion of that, 4-6 times a week. My wife has been a great accountability partner who pushes me when I want to plod along. It's hard to break decade old habits of being lazy, but she's there to encourage me and to keep me from falling down.
We still eat treats. My doctor even agrees that having a night to splurge (within a little bit of reason) is good. We can go to the Macaroni Grill and get some Penne Rustica and have the yummy bread with that olive oil and pepper dip. We can still go to Red Lobster and have a couple of cheese biscuits. But, it's about being smart about it...portion control (my last trip to Red Lobster resulted in a massive failure of this...fortunately, I had calories that day to spare).
Sorry this got so long...as I said at the beginning, I had time to sit down and type. This stuff has become my recent focus. But diets aren't the answer...it's truly about a lifestyle change. If I don't make that kind of change, I am not only going to set myself up for failure, but I'm going to doom my future children to a lifestyle of fatty failure.