New Relationships, Too Fast?

[Null]

If multiple people aren't answering the question "right" - ie, the way you want - maybe it wasn't very clearly asked.

The other thing is, other people's experiences aren't going to be of any use to you, because they aren't you and their relationships aren't your relationships. With something as personal and intimate as a romantic relationship, trying to figure out "where you should be" or "how long should it take" is pointless. Especially since not everyone even has the same goals in a relationship.

 

[Gusto]

Troof.

Things seem to be going excellently for you, so I'd enjoy it guilt-free until something comes up to make you think UR DOING IT WRONG.

 

[Jiarn]

If multiple people aren't answering the question "right" - ie, the way you want - maybe it wasn't very clearly asked.

The other thing is, other people's experiences aren't going to be of any use to you, because they aren't you and their relationships aren't your relationships. With something as personal and intimate as a romantic relationship, trying to figure out "where you should be" or "how long should it take" is pointless. Especially since not everyone even has the same goals in a relationship.

You really don't get it. I wasn't asking that AT ALL, for crying out loud. I wasn't comparing or deciding on how to run my relationship. I was just bloody curious on how other people here or people they knew did their relationship "pace" and the reasons why they did it. It was a curiosity.

Is that REALLY that hard to understand? This wasn't a "baw" or "help me" thread. Really, you need to get that.