Meagan Marie continues to impress me, not just with her artistic talent, but with her poise and intelligence. Check out
this blog post of hers. (I disagree with her about reading the article she's commenting on. I thought that bit of dreck from "Dr. Nerdlove" was horrible, even if it does bring up important points.)
Some choice quotes:
"The truth is that while I enjoy garnering attention for my hard work on a costume (be it sexy or badass) I much prefer accolades for my professional work or other artistic endeavors. At
Game Informer I was routinely disappointed when my long-lead editorial pieces flew under the radar, but a single snap of myself in costume circulated the Internet. Nowadays I’m ecstatic to spy a magazine feature for one of my SDCC ensembles, but
thrive off feedback from the Tomb Raider community stating they appreciate my efforts."
"...it’s always a breath of fresh air when someone compliments my craftsmanship rather than my cleavage, because it’s easy to respond with genuine appreciation."
"Funny enough, this pedestal placement has increased my insecurities rather than bolstered my confidence. I honestly fear meeting fans in person and being greeted with disappointment when they realize I’m not perfect. I’m not a fabled and rare creature – a unicorn. I’m just me"
" What I’m getting at is that not all nerd girls want to be treated special for simply sharing common interests. Perhaps we’d rather be given accolades for the sum of our parts, rather than what you can gather at a glace."
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That is why I want this thread to have comments made respectfully, it is what I hear cosplayers asking for. Megan Marie is definitely not the only one I've heard say this, she just happened to make an excellent post about it at the right time.
Another reason is this tweet from a cosplayer:
"I have gotten harassed by guys on the street every day this week. :|
#seriouslyjustleavemealone"
That's what some girls put up with on a regular basis in their real life. If I can do something to stop that type of harassment from happening here, I will.