for headsets that are wired, most are rated shit and those who aren't have various issues reported by many users.
Surround sound headsets have a variety of issues that make them difficult to do well in every category.
In order to fit several speakers in a reasonable can, and position them so they actually produce a small but discernible surround stage, each speaker is small, and thus loses out in terms of frequency range, power, and audio quality.
So you will never see a surround sound headset with great audio quality. You can either have surround sound, or great audio, but not both in a headset. That's a fundamental tradeoff you're going to have to make, and many people who care about both have two or more headsets and switch between them as needed. Surround sound headsets aren't terrible - but they simply can't compete with a good stereo headset in terms of sound quality due to physical constraints.
The kicker is that even then you'll never have great surround either because the sound stage is too small. It's better than nothing - you can tell the difference, and that's important for games where you have to know where the sound is coming from, but it simply can't compete with even a cheap 5.1 speaker setup that covers the room. You choose gaming headsets when you can't have a lot of external noise, or when you do have a lot of external noise and can't crank your speakers up enough to drown out external noise. Otherwise reals speakers set up in the room will almost always beat headsets.
Further, the surround sound headsets have many, many more wires than stereo headsets, and as such there are a
lot more points of failure. This also leads to thicker, stiffer cords - and the thinner the cord, the more likely it is to break.
So you will
always find a variety of issues once you choose surround sound headsets. It just comes with the territory. They are a compromise, and you need to decide what you're going to settle for.
If you go read amazon reviews and other suggestions keeping these tradeoffs in mind, I think you'll find one or two that stand out for you.