Weird question but do you think there is any... mm respect differences between the branches? In terms of one being lesser than the rest (not that it is a factor just curious).Air Force unless you want to be on the ground in a war zone. Air Force is easier and has better food/housing.
Being married should only effect you joining if your spouse doesn't want you to join or doesn't think she could handle the lifestyle changes (like deployments, not being able to put your family first, etc.).3) I am married how does this effect (affect?), me joining, if at all?
A> Do they get to travel when I am deployed somewhere else, IE is there a housing fund or something?
Ah, I just wasn't sure how everything factored in and was curious as to what would happen if I was stationed out of state or deployed to another country or what not. How much is the BAH, such as does it easily cover rent if you do 'live in town'?Being married should only effect you joining if your spouse doesn't want you to join or doesn't think she could handle the lifestyle changes (like deployments, not being able to put your family first, etc.).3) I am married how does this effect (affect?), me joining, if at all?
A> Do they get to travel when I am deployed somewhere else, IE is there a housing fund or something?
I'm not sure what you mean about your family traveling if you are deployed elsewhere. Your family would be able to live in housing on or near the base where you're stationed. You get a basic allowance for housing (BAH) in your pay. If you're in military housing, it gets taken right out of your check to pay for your rent, water/sewage, garbage pick up, and electricity. It's like you really don't get the money, though there are some housing areas that charge less than BAH so you do get some of it back. You could also opt to live off base or "out in town". You still get the housing allowance, but you're totally in charge of paying your own rent and utilities. Both have their advantages and disadvantages. We lived in housing when we first came to San Diego, but moved out to a regular rental after a couple of years because we had shitty neighbors.
When you're deployed, you would still be stationed wherever your command is based out of and your family would still live there. For instance, if you were stationed at a base in Texas then got deployed to the Gulf your family wouldn't have to move away because you're deployed. You're still stationed in Texas until you get orders to go to a different base (and then your family would normally go with you). Some spouses choose to go "home" while their husbands are deployed, though, so they can be closer to family. I'm not sure if the housing management has to be notified that they would be gone or if it varies from branch to branch. When my husband deployed when we were first married, I went to visit with my parents for 2 weeks and came back to CA. After that I decided it wasn't worth the hassle (my parents are never home, so I spent most of the time alone in their house rather than alone in my own house).
It would be just me and my wife, so not many bedrooms are needed, thanks for the tips .He's Navy. He's been in for 15 years, but we've been married for 6 years.
The BAH amount depends on your rank and whether or not you have dependents (your wife counts). The dependent amount of BAH is the same if you have just 1 dependent or if you have 10 dependents. You should be able to look up the BAH chart online to get an idea of the amount. That is in addition to your base pay. You should be able to find a base pay chart online, too. The highest rank you could start off as is an E-3 (and this might have changed, so just use it as an estimate of the highest pay you could make). Whether or not you're going to find something affordable if you choose to go with a regular rental is going to depend on where you live and how big of a place you're going to need. I know in Navy housing, they only have up to 4 bedrooms, so if you have more than 3 kids you may need to look into renting in town. We got lucky and found a townhouse for rent that is less than our BAH. There is a site (AHRN.com) that deals specifically with military friendly rentals and has a search feature for rentals within your BAH amount. I found it helpful when I was looking to get us out of housing.
This is becoming less true with all of the Mideast stuff we're doing these days. When Calli's son joined the air force, I was surprised to learn that like 65% of recruits are for security forces to do base guard duty and stuff.The army tends to be a bit more blue collar than the air force. The air force doesn't usually get too dirty and tends to blow shit up from a distance.
The army, though...Digging ditches builds character.
There is a saying among military spouses and SOs that I learned even before Mr. Wasabi and I were married - "Plan in pencil". You cannot make definite plans because they are guaranteed to be ruined by the military.The hardest thing for the spouse to get used to, is a lack of control they feel over their own lives because of their spouse's job/career. Uncle Sugar says go, and the spouse is gone, forget whatever plans you may have whether it's for a family get together, vacation, or a career move to a nearby town-they are suddenly having to deal with it alone with their best friend gone and in harms way.
Yes, the only reason I "got" out was that I got caught in a three-way (get your mind out of the gutter) bad luck situation, changing job code (basic job was changing around the Air Force and less people needed to run it), base closure act (my base was in the second round...) and at the end of my first enlistment. Three strikes, I went home.One more thing for the people who have served. Would you recommend it, and would you do it again?
Yes, the only reason I "got" out was that I got caught in a three-way (get your mind out of the gutter) bad luck situation, changing job code (basic job was changing around the Air Force and less people needed to run it), base closure act (my base was in the second round...) and at the end of my first enlistment. Three strikes, I went home.[/QUOTE]One more thing for the people who have served. Would you recommend it, and would you do it again?
Basically couldn't re-enlists due to the changes and that my position was considered expendable. I also, since I was being forced out, negotiated that I wouldn't serve any time in the reserves, since if I did get called back up it would be open season on being placed ANYWHERE that they needed a body and I wasn't taking chances of being in a real shitty job and stuck in the desert during Operation Desert Shield/Enduring Freedom.You couldn't reenlist or you just didn't feel like it because of all those factors combining?Sparhawk;395730 said:Yes, the only reason I "got" out was that I got caught in a three-way (get your mind out of the gutter) bad luck situation, changing job code (basic job was changing around the Air Force and less people needed to run it), base closure act (my base was in the second round...) and at the end of my first enlistment. Three strikes, I went home.One more thing for the people who have served. Would you recommend it, and would you do it again?
Like what has been said before, your attitudes and thinking will change. So don't expect to be unchanged. I personally think that more people in the military are of a more conservative bend because you are dealing more directly with the basic notion of this country, freedom, and being willing to follow legal orders to uphold that freedom.Also I'm not sure if there is a certain mentality or maybe general type of people in the military but would i fit in well as a fairly liberal agnostic/atheist(strange statement i know).
Yes, this is correct, the military is the dictatorship that protects the freedoms. They will tell you and show you in the contracts where this can and may happen. These are not hidden things. Anyone who says it is did not pay any attention during their first two weeks in training.Also, it should be clear that almost any branch involves you giving up your freedom, and they can do anything with you that they choose no matter what they may tell you. If you sign up to be some technician behind lines, you could be in a desert anytime they choose. And as far as time spent, I have heard lots of people getting their tours of duty extended beyond what they signed up for. Just in a nutshell, if you join the military, you're handing your ass over to an institution that will use you as a piece on their chessboard.
You will become more comfortable with using weapons and force in general, due to the training that shows you not only how to use it properly, but also tells you when and how it is legal to do so. I never had any issues, No one ever forced anything on me, and I am quite agnostic. I was liberal because I was a huge SF fan, and my way of thinking became more libertarian.Also I'm not sure if there is a certain mentality or maybe general type of people in the military but would i fit in well as a fairly liberal agnostic/atheist(strange statement i know).
Yes.One more thing for the people who have served. Would you recommend it, and would you do it again?
A couple things, I have been warned that recruiters can be slightly unscrupulous in their recruiting, being that their job is to fill their quota so saying things that aren't completely true isn't that huge of a deal to them. Is this true, and if so what should I do to combat that?I'm Air Force and your experience really depends on the job you choose.
Intel for example is mostly "in an office"...now that office will often be with an Aircraft squadron or it could be in the DC area at Ft Meade.
KNOW THIS FOR A FACT. No matter which Service you join YOU WILL DEPLOY somewhere, sometime...it could be a year in Korea, Qatar, Afghanistan or MacDill AFB, FL..it will be time away from your wife/family.
The job you choose should be tied to what you REALLY want to do... you like computers, there are sys adm type jobs. You like guns...Security Forces. Mechanical..Aircraft or vehicle or ICBM maintenance.
Talk to the recruiter...then come back here and let us know what they said/promised.
Forgot to mention housing...most bases have some, you might have to wait a few months until a spot opens up but you get a "housing allowance" that is added to your base pay. You get the "housing allowance..or BAH" if you live off base. If you live on-base the goverment keeps that allowance since you live ON-BASE.
For your wife, if you do deploy there is MANY support entities on base that are designed to help her out...in addition to the folks/family of your unit.
Would I do it again...yes..even if it meant coming back to the pentagon again.
1. Know what you want to do, guide him toward that goal. If you and he have a similar goal, that will make it easier for both of you. If you go in with 'I Dunno, whad ya wanna do' attitude, he will smell blood in the water and drop you in something he needs numbers of folks in for his bonus. The more you know directly about your chosen job choice, the better for you. You can try getting in touch with former members of your field via Veterans groups, such as online groups, or your local Veterans of Foreign Wars.A couple things, I have been warned that recruiters can be slightly unscrupulous in their recruiting, being that their job is to fill their quota so saying things that aren't completely true isn't that huge of a deal to them. Is this true, and if so what should I do to combat that?
Gotcha, ya thats why I went here first to see how much info I could be provided with because I knew a lot of you have been in the military before and I was hoping to have some light shed upon the things I was thinking about. Thanks for the advice though .1. Know what you want to do, guide him toward that goal. If you and he have a similar goal, that will make it easier for both of you. If you go in with 'I Dunno, whad ya wanna do' attitude, he will smell blood in the water and drop you in something he needs numbers of folks in for his bonus. The more you know directly about your chosen job choice, the better for you. You can try getting in touch with former members of your field via Veterans groups, such as online groups, or your local Veterans of Foreign Wars.A couple things, I have been warned that recruiters can be slightly unscrupulous in their recruiting, being that their job is to fill their quota so saying things that aren't completely true isn't that huge of a deal to them. Is this true, and if so what should I do to combat that?
2. Get ANY PROMISE or any ASSURANCE in writing on your contract. Especially if it is a deal breaker for you, or affects the location of yourself from your family. He's not out to cheat you specifically, but if he can get another notch on his quota and look good to the boss, he will.
A recruiter is like any other salesman, he has a product, he wants to have you take that product and make his quota. Just because he can't fully lie, he may not tell the full truth either. He's there to make his nut, and get you in uniform. Also be aware, there may be some things he simply cannot promise, he may indeed be able to put in a back channel request, but if it's not in your contract don't expect it to happen. If you go in "prepare for the worst, hope for the best" will become a very comforting phrase.
So what you are saying is get out of their housing and move into our own with the BAH they provide?With regards to housing, I've seen it in all the major services (although, admittedly, on in limited amounts for the Army). It goes in descending order of quality, without question: Air Force, Navy, Army, Marine Corps. Marine barracks suck ass, and family housing ain't much better. I hear a lot of junior Airmen griping about the quality of their "dorms" (the fact that they call them "dorms" gives you an idea of their relative quality), and I want to laugh. Then I tell them about how at French Creek, in Camp LeJeune, NC, Marines were getting reimbursed for living in the barracks there, because they started detecting toxins in the water supply.
I love my Marine Corps, but they can pinch a couple pennies together tight enough to make Abraham Lincoln a siamese twin...
A couple things, I have been warned that recruiters can be slightly unscrupulous in their recruiting, being that their job is to fill their quota so saying things that aren't completely true isn't that huge of a deal to them. Is this true, and if so what should I do to combat that?I'm Air Force and your experience really depends on the job you choose.
Intel for example is mostly "in an office"...now that office will often be with an Aircraft squadron or it could be in the DC area at Ft Meade.
KNOW THIS FOR A FACT. No matter which Service you join YOU WILL DEPLOY somewhere, sometime...it could be a year in Korea, Qatar, Afghanistan or MacDill AFB, FL..it will be time away from your wife/family.
The job you choose should be tied to what you REALLY want to do... you like computers, there are sys adm type jobs. You like guns...Security Forces. Mechanical..Aircraft or vehicle or ICBM maintenance.
Talk to the recruiter...then come back here and let us know what they said/promised.
Forgot to mention housing...most bases have some, you might have to wait a few months until a spot opens up but you get a "housing allowance" that is added to your base pay. You get the "housing allowance..or BAH" if you live off base. If you live on-base the goverment keeps that allowance since you live ON-BASE.
For your wife, if you do deploy there is MANY support entities on base that are designed to help her out...in addition to the folks/family of your unit.
Would I do it again...yes..even if it meant coming back to the pentagon again.
Recruiters CANNOT lie, if they do and get caught they could easily be brought up on charges....that doesn't mean they will TELL you everything either.*SNIP*
Air force height weight chart: http://usmilitary.about.com/od/airforcejoin/a/afmaxweight.htm
Army: http://usmilitary.about.com/od/army/l/blmaleweight.htm
Don't know how old they are, or how official. The army one looks right for when I was in though around the 69 inch height range. The Army will compensate for body fat though, if it is lower than a stated amount.
22%, I get taped every time I take the APFT. To the best of my knowledge the only difference between someone who is under the maximum weight for their height, and someone over who has a low body fat percentage, is the person under will not have to constantly get a tape test.Air force height weight chart: http://usmilitary.about.com/od/airforcejoin/a/afmaxweight.htm
Army: http://usmilitary.about.com/od/army/l/blmaleweight.htm
Don't know how old they are, or how official. The army one looks right for when I was in though around the 69 inch height range. The Army will compensate for body fat though, if it is lower than a stated amount.
So what you are saying is make sure when I talk to a recruiter that a subcat doesn't include 'toilet engineer' or something?My MOS when I was in was Administrative - Financial Accounting. When I got to my first duty station, I found out the subcategory of my job also included such "accounting" things as inventory. I ended up in the storeroom of a chow hall giving food to cooks. The only good thing about it was that I had the keys to everything and could go in anytime I want & make myself a steak.
I figured, I got a wife currently, so I don't think a super demanding field such as that is for me. The money and the possibility for life outside of it seemed decent but not really my cup of tea. Were you in the navy as well Tin?
I got an associates in Criminal Justice (doesn't really mean shit), but I like the socio/psychological sorta analysis sorta stuff, so that's why I figured it would be intresting. I'm not as huge on the techincal side, although worst case I could be Network Intel, which could probably translate to a Network job, or Network Security job in the civilian world. Also maybe at worst I could go into one of the 3 letter organizations, and I would already have security clearance (not sure how rare or hard it is to have).Being a nuke is not for everyone. It is a highly technical field, requiring you to be apart from your family for up to 6 months at a time, if not longer as necessary. It's good that you can make the assessment of what you're after now, rather than later on and be regretting it.
Intel is a good field to get in, but is highly deployable, depending on your specialty, and has limited applications in the civilian world. May I suggest something of a more technical nature, giving you skillsets that can be applied in a civilian engineering position? (assuming, of course, that that's what you want to get into... *chuckle*)
I figured, I got a wife currently, so I don't think a super demanding field such as that is for me. The money and the possibility for life outside of it seemed decent but not really my cup of tea. Were you in the navy as well Tin?
How did you enjoy being a nuke. I think the navy is the same way now? I am not really sure next time I talk with my recruiter I will have to ask if you pick specific jobs or just the semi general field.EMN (electronics mate nuclear), pic was taken almost 20 years ago.
When I went in, you didn't get to choose your career path in nuke...you were randomly assigned to ET, EM or MM. Most folks got MM (like 65%) and only 10% got the coveted electronics tech job.
The real question is would you recommend someone to join?honestly, I hated the military. I wasn't big on following other people's rules. I've become a lot less of a wild child as I've gotten older. I've also come to recognize that I got some good value, character-wise, out of my time there. I kind of wish I'd have stayed in longer.
How was your time on a boat, it seems like being on a boat would be interesting as you travel the world, but the sleeping arrangements are terrible.I would
Well, I know from mine (that I've managed to keep) that the US was just a few questions that were basically, "Has anyone solicited you to provide information? Meet in person? Provide access to facilities?" type stuff.Yeah... enjoy your clearance check.
... fuck... just realised if I get another one, I've got to tell them about my foreign friends here... *eyeroll*
Get the letter, keep it in your personal records just in case they ask about it. The SSBI is basically an investigation where they go and talk to your neighbors (scared the crap out of a little old lady that I lived next to, she was scared that I had done something wrong when the agent identified himself) and recent employers to find out if you have any history that needs to be looked into more. Basically you don't want to be going through this and a smart-ass former boss or friend pop off with something like "He used to sell drugs to make money" or "He was always trying to borrow money for more whiskey each day."Anyone else have any comments as well? I figure with Intelligence job or Nuke job I am going to be at least possible for the SSBI, and I have no idea if it would find it.
The recruiter stated that since it has been so long it shouldn't matter but I am unsure if the military wants to know if i am still taking it, if I should still be taking it (ie suffering from what it cures (ADD or ADHD)), or if they just care that I took it period.
Get the letter, keep it in your personal records just in case they ask about it. The SSBI is basically an investigation where they go and talk to your neighbors (scared the crap out of a little old lady that I lived next to, she was scared that I had done something wrong when the agent identified himself) and recent employers to find out if you have any history that needs to be looked into more. Basically you don't want to be going through this and a smart-ass former boss or friend pop off with something like "He used to sell drugs to make money" or "He was always trying to borrow money for more whiskey each day."[/QUOTE]Anyone else have any comments as well? I figure with Intelligence job or Nuke job I am going to be at least possible for the SSBI, and I have no idea if it would find it.
The recruiter stated that since it has been so long it shouldn't matter but I am unsure if the military wants to know if i am still taking it, if I should still be taking it (ie suffering from what it cures (ADD or ADHD)), or if they just care that I took it period.
This - it's why I don't qualify for a clearance right now, because my credit history is fookin' shot. *chuckles* They want to check to make sure someone doesn't have leverage to use against you. Integrity is the biggest thing you can use, and it's a guaranteed killer if they find out that you actively lied on something.I think you'll be fine, just be honest and truthful. They are looking for things that would make you vulnerable to being blackmailed or bribed and therefor a risk to having access to information or sensitive equipment.
When I signed up, I signed a contract guaranteeing my job(provided I didn't flunk out or otherwise disqualify myself) and giving me a sign-on bonus for the position.[/QUOTE]What you sign up for and what you get are two totally different things.
When I went through Army Basic we did PT for about an hour every morning and would generally get smoked an average of once an hour for doing something wrong.Roger thanks for all the help tin, I am currently actually looking into network intel as well to regular intelligence and just kind of deciding.
Interesting look at how boot camp is, how many hours a day were you doing PT? 5-6?
Also how did you deal with the separation, did time just fly by or were there any specific ways, just curious.
Ooh, NICE one.... I'ma add that one to my tool box.The one that sticks out in my mind is having to lunge race around the barracks in what our Drill Sergeants called the Carolina Speedway. The losers got smoked, and the winner got to take a victory lap.