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Chazwozel

Silver Jelly;421234][QUOTE=tegid;421211][QUOTE=Jay;421076][QUOTE=mr_thehun said:
do you grind your pelvis into your bed or the ground? did you do this when you were a child? This method of masturbation can lead to problems cumming under normal circumstances.
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Why? This intrigues me.[/QUOTE]

Me too! Also, a friend of mine may [STRIKE]or may not[/STRIKE] have this problem.[/QUOTE]

I was going to say this but decided not to, as you are my only known friend on these forums and you already said you sometimes have this problem.
But, while I can't give any advice, I'm also curious!

Illuminate us, mr_thehun![/QUOTE]


I'm pretty sure he just admitted to fucking the bed or the floor? :wtf:
 
tegid

tegid

Who did? I didn't! Nor necessarily thehun. It's just that some people masturbate by rubbing/grinding against some surface like the bed or a cushion. I have this friend who (I think) just doesn't know how to do it with his hand. It just doesn't work for him. A while ago he didn't at least, maybe he's learned.

Coincidentally, he has the very same problem bubble has.
 
Dave

Dave

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I still say go to a doctor. If it's physical then he'll know. If it's not physical, then he'll know!
 
Bubble181

Bubble181

tegid said:
Who did? I didn't! Nor necessarily thehun. It's just that some people masturbate by rubbing/grinding against some surface like the bed or a cushion. I have this friend who (I think) just doesn't know how to do it with his hand. It just doesn't work for him. A while ago he didn't at least, maybe he's learned.

Coincidentally, he has the very same problem bubble has.
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I do kno how to use my hands, thank you very much. :-P
 
Cajungal

Cajungal

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Bubble181;421285][QUOTE=tegid said:
Who did? I didn't! Nor necessarily thehun. It's just that some people masturbate by rubbing/grinding against some surface like the bed or a cushion. I have this friend who (I think) just doesn't know how to do it with his hand. It just doesn't work for him. A while ago he didn't at least, maybe he's learned.

Coincidentally, he has the very same problem bubble has.
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Some guys accidentally do it when they're dreaming, and sleeping on their stomachs, I hear.
 
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Chazwozel

tegid said:
Who did? I didn't! Nor necessarily thehun. It's just that some people masturbate by rubbing/grinding against some surface like the bed or a cushion. I have this friend who (I think) just doesn't know how to do it with his hand. It just doesn't work for him. A while ago he didn't at least, maybe he's learned.

Coincidentally, he has the very same problem bubble has.
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Yeah grinding on an inanimate object while naked = fucking said object. Your friend is fucking his bed.

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Amorous Eyes;421290][QUOTE=Dave said:
I still say go to a doctor. If it's physical then he'll know. If it's not physical, then he'll know!
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This. Just to be sure.

Also chiming in with what some of the others have already said: Stop jerking off. You are very likely conditioning yourself that you can only finish that way. This is not uncommon. This is both a physical and mental condition (mainly mental) but it can be unlearned.

Another side effect, which I guess isn't relevant to your issue, is that a lot of guys just want to finish fast when jerking off which results in coming way too soon when having actual intercourse.

"Resist the temptation, don't give in to masturbation." .. or something.. :p[/QUOTE]

Back in the day, I used to rub out that "easy" one before a date.
 
Jay

Jay

Same here Chaz. Not only did it make me have a face that looked like :smug: for some time but when I went out I was far less anxious and more laid back and in the event that I would score with the honey I'd last a heck of a lot longer than I usually would have. Business was good. :)
 
PatrThom

PatrThom

While you're busy, pull back shallow so that the majority of the stimulation is concentrated on the head rather than the shaft. Remember to dip in occasionally, but concentrating the stimulation on your head might help train you away from the hand*, or at least fix it in your head that there are alternatives to the hand.

Also, you think too much. Excessive thinking will quickly blunt an evening of fun.

--Patrick
*Since hand stimulation tends to be concentrated on the head.
 
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Philosopher B.

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So wait, people are having sex with the floor?


What the hell I don't even
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I read a story about a man who had sex with a table. He stuck his willie right in the pole-hole!

Actually, I think I read that story on HalfPixel.
 
LittleSin

LittleSin

Yeh. Stop jerking. When me and my husband first started having sex it was impossible to get him off. He jerked with a fucking death grip on his junk so he had really desensitized himself. Really. It was like he was afraid it was going to fly away or something.

He had to stop jerking for nearly two months and stop looking at porn too. Finally, it happened. :p

Now I have a baby.




That was a joke. Ha?
 
Officer_Charon

Officer_Charon

I have to add a caveat to the "stop masturbating" advice - a lot of folks in here adding in that too much masturbation kills the urge to come. I think that AmE touched on it with the finishing quickly being the most likely side effect of that...

I do believe that you might be letting your headspace get in between you and the deed. You might honestly be putting too much thought and pressure on yourself... try to relax and let things happen. You'll get there.
 
Frank

Frank

I'll throw this one into the pool too, since this one was a problem I had. Are you on any sort of anti-depressant Bubble? I know 6-7 years ago when I was on Paxil, I couldn't come normally. It required some insane manual stimulation to get any sort of climax whatsoever. One of the many nice side effects of the drug that I suffered (along with intense night sweats and making water taste disgusting). I could get hard no problem, but that's where the fun ended. I tried "faking it" with my girlfriend at the time, but that didn't last long before I became frustrated and so did she. I went off it a few months later and was switched to Zoloft and everything went far better from there.
 
PatrThom

PatrThom

Something that occurred to me yesterday.
Might be time to let her in on one or two of your fetish secrets. If there's anything she can safely fulfill (cake batter, catsuit, extreme tickling, beeswax, dentist chair, whatever), you might try it. You'll be better able to work around any distracting thoughts you might be having if she's dangling a pair of sweaty socks over your blindfolded face, and doing so exactly the way that drives you wild.

--Patrick
 
PatrThom

PatrThom

I consider myself more open-minded than most. I knew of its existence, I just didn't know it had an official name (though I had heard it called 'Splosh' I didn't realize that was just the name of a magazine for WAM fans). Y'know, like 'Bagelheads' or 'Shrimping' or 'Vore.'

--Patrick
 
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