I'd say Maryland was actually incredibly nerd friendly. Or at least it was 25-30 years ago. Colorado actually seemed less so. And I can vouch for Texas not being nerd friendly, at least not in K-12. When my family moved from Silver Spring, MD, to El Paso, TX, I was in 5th grade, but placed ahead into 8th grade math. The EPISD put me back in my own grade because they didn't have policy in place to deal with advanced placement students, I stopped studying, and the rest is history. NM is very nerd-friendly, though, I can verify.