Damn it! I had Facebook meme gold, and the person erased it.
Essentially someone on my Facebook feed was utterly confused why Paula Deen was fired. To paraphrase: "You can't have a big plantation style wedding without black men as servers. People can't just forget slavery did exist, and that's what a plantation wedding was like."
I tried to explain that racism is defined as one race thinking it's superior to another, and having "black houseboys" at a wedding is an extension of that very thing. It's wrong. Period.
She then goes on about why it would be ok for a white person to have a Mexican themed wedding fiesta, but not a plantation style wedding as she described it.
Uh...because you're not showcasing Mexicans tending your landscaping which would be analogous to having black slave servants at your plantation wedding.
She also made another attempt at a weak analogy comparing the Paula Deen's wedding idea to actors portraying slaves in Williamsburg, VA reenactments. There's a difference, I said, those actors are doing so for educational perpose; they're raising awareness about their people's plight. Having black servants exclusively as houseboy type servants for entertainment of white people - making them tapdance and serve you - is a form of degradation. It essentially makes fun of a horrible thing.
I was unfriended after that. WHAT THE FUCK!??!