Today begins the first day of a week-long* vacation from my job.
I am not going back.
Instead, when my vacation ends, I will be transferring to a different location, one which is closer to my wife and child. Some of you may know that we recently celebrated our 1-yr anniversary apart** and this means we get to be together as a family again. Why is this not in the EWT? Well, to be blunt, it's because I'm terrified.
In order to pull this off, I need to uproot and move more or less immediately, which means a hasty half-assed move and I leave behind an empty house that I will still have to maintain and make payments on until some sort of solution can be found. My commute will increase by approximately 40mi/day (round trip-that's about an extra tank a week) which will be a drain on time and money. Due to the timing of the transfer, I will have to give up my chance at a raise this year. Kati will also lose her daddy-doesn't-live-with-us benefits, which means she will have to get at least a PT job to make up for this loss. Things are going to be tighter than they are right now, if that's possible. Hence, terror.
However, we will finally get to be a family again, and instead of only talking to my wife and kid for 2-3hrs a night via Skype, we will get to pillow fight/glare/laugh/eat with one another in person. So the net result is most definitely positive, even though it's nowhere near as high above the x-axis as I would prefer.
Also if I'm scarce for the next couple weeks, y'all will know why.
--Patrick
*9-day (2+5+2)
**Aug 23rd, and it was done solely for logistical reasons. No relationship issues, no drama. No worries.