Single Again.
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I was 12 and only understood about 50% of what they where saying (it was in italian) and i remember it being kinda obvious from the get go... especially with Uranus being confused for a guy by Usagi. They where also the only thing (well ok, Pluto too) about the seasons past 1 that i liked even back then (i used to be way less forginving of time travel back then).
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Shego; You can at least fake it for a few days.
Well I'm going to try and keep things as civil as possible. I'm going to have to stay in the same house with her (I think, she's still living there right now and I have nowherelse to go in that area, though she may have someone she can stay with) then we're going to be going room by room, splitting up all the belongings, going to alot of different "paperwork" places, like the bank and utilities etc, and spending alot of time figuring out how to "split" everything before we find out what/where she's going to do/go.
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Chibibar
you can do it girl. Just take the high road and be civil and all will be well (in terms of getting all this stuff in order)
Well she's moving out first, as the house is being "technically" rented by me. After all is said and done, she's fully moved out and gone, I'll be returning the place to the landlord and moving up here with my brother.
You should hire a male escort to stay with you and try to prove to her that she was so horrible that she turned you off of women forever
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Crimson, you excel at useless ideas. Go run for office: Shego: Buck up. Steely eyed and all that. Ice it over, get things done, and don't let her mindshit mess with you. You excel at this, right?
The thing that is REALLY bothering me is:
A friend of mine went over to pick up a book I had ordered and mailed there before I came up with my brother. He told me that NONE of her stuff was packed (though he only went as far as the living room). He said he also got the vibe that she's "waiting for me to go back, possibly to reconsile".
Now I don't believe that for a few reasons:
1: The split, in the end, was her idea. She wanted things to be over because she said she didn't feel "that kind of love" for me anymore, possibly never did. She was "sorry it went on so long, but the inkling was always there". She was never sure why she loved me, it was an argument we always had over the years, she just "knew she did".
2: While we both agreed, that this entire month that I was going to be gone, she agreed that we shouldn't talk/email/text/contact each other at all, to try and help the moving on process, if she still wanted to reconsile, I'd imagine that she'd have sent me something, at some point.
3: I'm very sure she's "over this" and ready to get on with her life sans me.
A friend of mine went over to pick up a book I had ordered and mailed there before I came up with my brother. He told me that NONE of her stuff was packed (though he only went as far as the living room). He said he also got the vibe that she's "waiting for me to go back, possibly to reconsile".
Now I don't believe that for a few reasons:
1: The split, in the end, was her idea. She wanted things to be over because she said she didn't feel "that kind of love" for me anymore, possibly never did. She was "sorry it went on so long, but the inkling was always there". She was never sure why she loved me, it was an argument we always had over the years, she just "knew she did".
2: While we both agreed, that this entire month that I was going to be gone, she agreed that we shouldn't talk/email/text/contact each other at all, to try and help the moving on process, if she still wanted to reconsile, I'd imagine that she'd have sent me something, at some point.
3: I'm very sure she's "over this" and ready to get on with her life sans me.
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Chibibar
Well... I don't think you should let your mind think too much on this. Focus on the task at hand and see where it goes.
When is she suppose to be gone by?
When I get back, it'll just be a matter of settling all the issues at hand with the house and the paperwork. Shortly after it'll be the moveout process. I'm not estimating more than 2 weeks to get it all done.
As for "thinking about it too much", I highly doubt there's anyway I would try and be in a relationship with her again, I've seen what it can be like to date someone with at least SOME similar interests and it's WORLD'S different and better in every way. I'd rather work at making things go smoother with "new girl" than try and reconsile a relationship with my ex. If not new girl, someonelse with a taste for my interests.
As for "thinking about it too much", I highly doubt there's anyway I would try and be in a relationship with her again, I've seen what it can be like to date someone with at least SOME similar interests and it's WORLD'S different and better in every way. I'd rather work at making things go smoother with "new girl" than try and reconsile a relationship with my ex. If not new girl, someonelse with a taste for my interests.
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Keep that in mind when going with this
you are a strong person (at least what what we have seen here) you should not have any problem resolving this
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make sure to bring a shovel and a trash can just in case she's unmotivated to move her stuff/ abandons it
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Do you have a new job lined up, or apply for college/financial aid?
Cause I would totally hire you for web cam porn. $100hr. Haha
Cause I would totally hire you for web cam porn. $100hr. Haha
lagging behind on the conversation a bit but,
Neither soulgeek or gk2gk had girls even near my own town, last I checked. Plentyoffish was good on numbers, but most of the girls on it seemed to be pretty right-winged conservatives who didn't seem like I would get along with very well. Plus a few hardcore goths/emos that scared me off after one look at their profile.
Neither soulgeek or gk2gk had girls even near my own town, last I checked. Plentyoffish was good on numbers, but most of the girls on it seemed to be pretty right-winged conservatives who didn't seem like I would get along with very well. Plus a few hardcore goths/emos that scared me off after one look at their profile.
Commit yourself to the idea of being apart. You are "Me" again, not "Us." Living alone (even for a short time) is scary and difficult, yes...but you've done it before and can do it until you are ready to again expose yourself to another. Spend a little time, relearn who you are and what you bring, because the next "Us" you make will be different. This is normal and to be expected. The flutters in your stomach will pass, to be replaced at a later date by flutters a bit higher up, then still later by flutters a bit lower down.
--Patrick
--Patrick
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By definition can emos be hardcore?
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Chibibar
sounds like oxymoron to me.
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