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The kid's screwed. Let's hope justice is served, here.
I suggest sending Shego after him.
I suggest sending Shego after him.
C
Chibibar
That is a good question.
I wonder if rough sex show "false positive" (I am with Emrys. I have no idea what it test)
Dave
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You know, I'm not sure. To Wikipedia!!
As to the rest, I have no more information. I don't think this was even remotely consensual and I'm not about to ascribe any sort of motive to it. I do know that he spent a fair amount of time alone with my daughter and that's kinda frightening.
Dave
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Although a rape kit's contents may vary by location, it may include:
- Instructions
- Bags and sheets for evidence collection
- Swabs for collecting fluids from the lips, cheeks, thighs, vagina, anus, and buttocks
- Blood collection devices
- Comb used to collect hair and fiber from the victim’s body
- Clear glass slides
- Envelopes for preserving the victim’s clothes, head hair, pubic hair, and blood samples
- Nail pick for scraping debris from beneath the nails
- White sheets to catch physical evidence stripped from the body
- Documentation forms
- Labels
Dave
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For the record now that there's evidence, I'm totally in the corner of Victim (no longer Accuser). I know I seemed to be reserving judgment before as it wouldn't have been fair to brand either one, but now that we know more Victim deserves all the help and support she can get.
Attacker needs help as well, but if his life is ruined he can't blame anyone else. Victim wasn't given that choice.
Attacker needs help as well, but if his life is ruined he can't blame anyone else. Victim wasn't given that choice.
Dave
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No, I don't think so. I think it's going to be, "She said this. He denied it. Now we have proof that something happened." She has been physically and mentally attacked and traumatized. He was acting like nothing was particularly amiss.
C
Chibibar
Ah. Well, until you get more info (i.e. both side of the stories) it will be hard to say if it is rough sex (I met some people who are into that) or it is rape (which is equally bad)
Okay, I'm not a law enforcement officer, but based on that Wikipedia list it doesn't necessarily prove it was rape. The rape kit appears to be able to prove intercourse occurred, but how does it show it was non-consensual? For example, the guy's skin cells underneath her fingernails, there are lots of ways they could have ended up there, either during intercourse or simply during horseplay between cousins.
Edit: Just did my own research. It says it takes 5-10 days for results to come back on a DNA test...and that's at the minimum.
Dave
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That's really a good question. The alleged incident took place within the last few days. Not sure exactly when. By the way, know that I'm going completely off information given to me by others so I can't 100% confirm its veracity.
The rape kit also looks for the, uh, angle of penetration. Apparently is the vagina isn't receptive to sexual activity and it is forced anyway there can be substantial damage done and the angle changes.
That is what a family member with some very unfortunate first hand experience has told me.
C
Chibibar
It is unfortunate event
all parties need help badly, but if it is anything like Texas Law, the guy's life is F-up for the rest of his life if it goes to trial and convicted.I did not know that. Thanks for the info.
Also, sorry for your family member. Wouldn't wish anything like this on anyone.
I didn't find out about it know about it until a few years ago when her daughter faked being raped. It really was a shock.
The bigger shock came to me when Dad informed me that her daughter..well..she is the daughter of the result of the incident. I really wish I didn't know these facts.
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Chibibar
There are times I wish there was a "flashy thing" from MIB that could erase some memory.
Dave
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Since she told someone and went to the hospital quickly she was able to be given Plan B as well as what they called the "Rape Cocktail" which is a variety of medicines to protect against various and several STDs.
And I found out there is no DNA but there is a lot of physical evidence and nobody else had access.
For those not in the "know", 16 year old nephew raped 15 year old niece (different parents - they were cousins, not siblings).
C
Chibibar
2nd cousins since the 1st cousin was the parents.
Dave
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They are direct cousins. Her mom is his dad's sister.
C
Chibibar
Oh. I got confuse then cause initially I thought it was your wife's cousin's daughter and another cousin's son.
I'm so confuse.
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makare
that's what I got too.
I missed something
Yikes. Sorry to hear that man. Hope they both get the help they need.
Added at: 14:32
Added at: 14:32
Look 4 posts above yours.
C
Chibibar
Well, I feel sorry for the guy in more ways than one. In most states, stuff like this the guy is pretty much screwed (I double check some places you get on the list even when you are NOT convicted)
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