Rant VII: Now With 25% Less Drama
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While it is an option, it is likely not a good option.
All I can say is if you can trust her enough to stay married to her, you can trust her enough to be alone and away from you for a week. Be honest with your concerns, and if you really want, have her call you at specific times every day to keep communication going.
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Biannoshufu
So how would someone apply for a job with you? `
It's easier to work on a marriage than yourself. Seems counter-intuitive but, if I replace marriage with "Ask girls out", the rest of the thread would be "Nut up!"
man up and get a shrink
Did the shrink thing for 6 months. Found going to the gym was a better use of my time. Which increased the man up side!
As for thinking she'd do it again, I don't think she would. But it's not like trust is an on/off switch. I can only add/subtract from the trust bucket every day.
I described it to the shrink thusly:
The infidelity is visualized in my head like an old Ford Fury. Every now and then I take a piece of it and destroy it. Some days I can take a bigger piece than others - or some bad days I end up adding a piece back on. My goal in the end is to destroy that bloody thing but it's a slow and laborious process. What used to be this massive land yacht is now reduced to a frame and engine. The majority of it is gone, but there are large chunks left behind. Those chunks are proving very difficult to move. In time, maybe they'll rust away but right now, it's this ugly piece of machinery occupying a huge space in my head.
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So yeah, I haven't gotten laid since Halloween. It's freakin killing me. CBC has pretty much cut ties since that night (Oh and btw, got checked, I'm still clean) so my guaranteed sex with a phone call is gone again. It's been nearly 3 weeks and I'm going out of my mind. I haven't had much free time to go out and find someone for a quick fix. Work load tripled this month so it's been office, home, glass/glasses of wine, sleep, repeat.
In the past 5 months, I've completely slacked on my working out, so I've put on vanity weight that's also pissing me off, but obviously not enough to get me back into the gym/supplements/cleanse/eating right but it's getting there.
I'm pushing for a promotion into the department I REALLY want but my current department is so short staffed, especially after losing about 4 people in nearby branches in the past 3 months, lessens that chance even more.
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So yeah, I haven't gotten laid since Halloween. It's freakin killing me. CBC has pretty much cut ties since that night (Oh and btw, got checked, I'm still clean) so my guaranteed sex with a phone call is gone again. It's been nearly 3 weeks and I'm going out of my mind. I haven't had much free time to go out and find someone for a quick fix. Work load tripled this month so it's been office, home, glass/glasses of wine, sleep, repeat.
In the past 5 months, I've completely slacked on my working out, so I've put on vanity weight that's also pissing me off, but obviously not enough to get me back into the gym/supplements/cleanse/eating right but it's getting there.
I'm pushing for a promotion into the department I REALLY want but my current department is so short staffed, especially after losing about 4 people in nearby branches in the past 3 months, lessens that chance even more.
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SeraRelm
I feel as though the first two are tied together somehow. (See what I did there?)
Living here would be a start. Coming in filling out an application is the general norm. I accept bribes however.
Bribes, eh?
Espy, do you take amusing pictures found on the internet?
Espy, do you take amusing pictures found on the internet?
Well, on the upside, you wanted to break it off with her around Halloween anyway, right?
On a more serious note, sorry you're having a rough time, and it doesn't seem like there's any real answer. Sounds like you don't really have the time to work out or go out and meet someone, due to your workload, so I don't see a solution present itself until things slack up at work - which, given the situation you're describing, is probably going to be a while. I wish you luck, however it turns out.
More like there's amusing pictures of him to be found on the internet, amirite?
Boy, DO I!
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makare
That reminds me I love it when I push pause when I'm watching something and the people are all frozen with weird looks on their faces.
Yeah I know I am easy to entertain.
Yeah I know I am easy to entertain.
I remember my parents getting one of the new fangled VCRs that would "freeze" the image in a way that you could actually see it (rather than the flickering mess of old paused vcrs).
We got great at pausing during the funny faces part. I would probably still crack up at the owl's face right before it takes a cork to the noggin' in dumb and dumber.
Hm. Guess some things are better remembered than re-lived.
"whoooOOOOO"
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makare
I am sick of people who only want me around when they need something. They run off and do their own thing until their plans fall through and then they think they can just come back and whine to me and I'll be the main attraction at their pity party.
Hell no.
Hell no.
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makare
bring your own damn snacks. fucking freeloaders.
"Metro, I'll be 10-8 - Civil Matter."
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makare
pepper spray no way... stun gun.
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makare
aw Gusto I am sorry. That really sucks guy.
figmentPez
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Any angry swarms of insects attacking you?
I don't think it's a question of whether or not there's a Romani curse on you. It's a question of how many Romani curses you have.
So Gusto, how many have you pissed off recently?
Have you maybe threatened to throw one or more gypsies into the fire if she or they didn't sleep with you?
So Gusto, how many have you pissed off recently?
Have you maybe threatened to throw one or more gypsies into the fire if she or they didn't sleep with you?
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