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Bad Service? Annoying customer too...

#1

Cajungal

Cajungal

Just a thought before I head to bed... something I witnessed today.

So there is a Community Coffee House right in our school's library. Today there was this new girl with an attitude. She took my order but never gave it to the people who made the stuff (I waited about 20 minutes for a plain coffee and a premade bagel sandwich...). And she wasn't offering people their receipts (seems like you always should).

I didn't care; I didn't need mine. But this one guy asked for his before moving to the bar to wait for his drink.

"You want a receipt... for a cash purchase?" She asked. He nodded and waited there, and she didn't go to reprint it. She just started taking another person's order. He then complained to the manager just like this:

"Hey, uh, this girl won't give me my receipt. I've really been trying to keep a record of what I spend every week and... you know what? Never mind."

And the lady (the manager it turns out) says "No, it'll only take a second, we'll do it for you."

He has this incredibly hurt look on his face... "No, no... I understand if you don't want to... it's just... I really did want one... but no, that's ok... I don't want to make trouble.... but I really would like it for my records... oh, no, no thanks..."

Finally, AFTER the manager printed it out for him and extended it towards him (apologizing for the girl, too) he walked off. All the while the girl is muttering, "Like you need a receipt for a cash purchase..." The manager gives her dagger eyes and I walk away because she's scary.

So, I instantly don't like that new employee... not because she made mistakes, but because her attitude was terrible. She could bitch all she wanted after the guy left, but she was really rude to his face. But the customer annoyed me too. Sure, the girl was rude to him, but the manager tried to make it right, and he started acting like a damn martyr. I wish I could describe it properly... he just kept on going on and on about how much he wanted a receipt and then wouldn't accept it after all that... for whatever dumb reason.

Tl; dr version: Cashier refuses to do simple thing; customer overreacts to simple thing. I mean, if he REALLY didn't want to "trouble them" any more he could have just looked up at the menu, made a note of the drink's price, added the tax, and put that in his record.

Anyway... that was the funny thing that happened near me today. How about y'all?


#2

Allen who is Quiet

Allen, who is Quiet

if she is that much of a dude with a tude, she could probably be a ninja turtle


#3

phil

phil

if she is that much of a dude with a tude, she could probably be a ninja turtle

what?

oh, TUDE


#4

Shawn

Shawn

Must be somebody's daughter/niece/girlfriend.


#5

Gusto

Gusto

How do some people keep jobs?

I'll never understand.


#6



elph

I don't drink coffee, but I would love to just go and hang out there to watch the oncoming train wreck that'll happen when she mouths off to the wrong person, or for the 'last straw' that a manager / co-worker cares to handle.


#7

Gusto

Gusto

Also, it does not surprise me in the slightest that this happened at a coffee place.


#8



Pojodan

Ugh... I hate it when businesses hire people for reasons of 'obligation', which can stem from relationships, family, to the whole 'racial equality' thing.

I went to a local steakhouse for my birthday a few years back and the waitress was obviously the daughter of the owner's girlfriend, or something like that as she rolled her eyes, sighed boredly, and scowled the whole time she serviced us, clearly not wanting to be there with a vengeance. As such our orders were wrong, but I insisted we not do anything about it as what we did get worked well enough, though the steak I had was one of the worst I've ever eaten.

And yes, I do wonder where these bad attitudes come from.


#9

Cajungal

Cajungal

And you know, although the manager tried to handle it well, she doesn't really lead by example. She's not friendly, she looks at you like an idiot if you order something they're out of, and then she turns around and chastises this girl for doing something she might have done if no one was watching.

And yeah, Kev, coffee places are.... complicated. I used to drink just frozen stuff... training wheels I guess.... a long time ago. Now I prefer plain black coffee with a splenda. It's just easier. They pour it, they hand it to you, and you're done. Then there's the barista attitude you get sometimes. It used to be that was just a starbucks thing over here... then it leaked over into my precious local coffee chain. :mad:

This is why I don't go to Community much anymore, though. Highland (the place where they roast their own beans everyday :drool:) is muuuuuch better. The people are friendly and helpful. Plus my brother works there so they know me. ^_^


#10

AshburnerX

AshburnerX

And yes, I do wonder where these bad attitudes come from.
A smug sense of entitlement, instilled in the current generation by overprotective parents who are afraid their kids are going to do what they are currently doing to THEIR parents.


#11

Gusto

Gusto

I can't believe I'm only 23 and complaining about the work ethic of the younger generation.

That was fast.

Digital age, etc.


#12

Cajungal

Cajungal

:rofl:

I notice it too. I'm still trying to whip one of my little cousins into shape. I know we were probably all dicks to our parents when they didn't deserve it, but she can be downright bitchy. Plus she's spoiled, but that's partially my timid aunt's fault. When she goes over the texting limit, she doesn't take the phone away. When she's rude and disrespectful, she lets her go out anyway. It's a mess.

Plus, she has really weird ideas that I don't understand. A couple years back she asked me, "You're 23?! *scoff* And you're not married?!" Then she laughed at me.

:confused:

But then I was kind of a jerk when I was that age too... I think it just gets less clear when I get older. Still, I never mocked my older relatives for being legally single. What the hell is that about?! Where'd she pick that up?


#13

Shannow

Shannow

This thread has potential. Let us see where it goes. :popcorn:


#14

Gusto

Gusto

Git offa mah lawn, Shannow.


#15

Covar

Covar

Every time I get fast food (admittedly not often) and get piss poor lazy service I take comfort in knowing that one day that persons job will be lost to a machine.

The lack of work ethic that you find in the workforce today seems to be growing.


#16

Jake

Jake

If I get bad service I'll just not go back to a place. However, my wife won't tolerate bad service at all. It can be a little embarrassing at times. Mistakes she can tolerate, but if she gets attitude she'll rip them a new one (after the food/beverages are safely out of their reach, of course).


#17

Cajungal

Cajungal

Sounds like my mother. We'll be out and if someone is rude she'll gladly ask, "I'm sorry, am I annoying you by asking you to do your job??? We all work, you know.."


#18

North_Ranger

North_Ranger

Huh. That's strange... I guess I've been lucky since I can't recall a single incident of bad service, and I do frequent pubs and hamburger joints.

Guess I've just been lucky... or I suck at empathy.


#19

Cajungal

Cajungal

Maybe it just occurs less in your neck of the woods.


#20

Gusto

Gusto

*proudly polishes his customer service award*


#21

North_Ranger

North_Ranger

Maybe it just occurs less in your neck of the woods.
Possibly. Finns tend to be damn proud of their work ethic. Shenanigans are frowned upon.


#22

Cajungal

Cajungal

Man. I wanna go to Finland. It would be nice to not feel like I'm asking someone to pull their own teeth out when I order food.


#23

North_Ranger

North_Ranger

Man. I wanna go to Finland. It would be nice to not feel like I'm asking someone to pull their own teeth out when I order food.
I have a couch that folds open into a bed :D


#24

Cajungal

Cajungal

Man. I wanna go to Finland. It would be nice to not feel like I'm asking someone to pull their own teeth out when I order food.
I have a couch that folds open into a bed :D[/QUOTE]

In all honesty, I think it would be fun to meet you. You seem like a fun-loving, good-hearted chap. If I go to Finland before I go to Canada, Gusto will cry.


#25

Gusto

Gusto

Hahaha, Seej, you'd better add one more to your list of Halforumers to visit someday.

...


And yes I absolutely will cry.


#26

Andi

Drachenherz

Man. I wanna go to Finland. It would be nice to not feel like I'm asking someone to pull their own teeth out when I order food.
I have a couch that folds open into a bed :D[/QUOTE]



#27

Gusto

Gusto

:rofl:


#28

Cajungal

Cajungal

:rofl:


#29

North_Ranger

North_Ranger

Curses! My trap has been foiled!

What's that sound...? It sounded like someone threw the table in the living room...

Oh God...

Oh God, it's woken up! And it's hungry!

Nice couch, nice couch, I'll get you something to eat! Heel! Heel!

Wait... wait... Why are you looking at me like that?

No! No, stay back! Stay back, you mauve monster! Stay back!

NOOOOAAAAAARRRRRGGGHHH!!!!

...


#30

Cajungal

Cajungal

Rest in Peace, you nutty Fin. We'll bury you pantsless.


#31

Andi

Drachenherz

... in a sauna!


#32

Cajungal

Cajungal

Everybody get a towel and bow your heads.


#33

North_Ranger

North_Ranger

*sound of explosion, followed by a rain of springs, couch stuffing and mauve cloth*

Huh, found this thing when the couch was chewing on my pancreas.



You never know what get's stuck in your couch...


#34

Covar

Covar

does this mean I can put my pants back on now?


#35

Cajungal

Cajungal

If you must.


#36

Adam

Adammon

:rofl:

I notice it too. I'm still trying to whip one of my little cousins into shape. I know we were probably all dicks to our parents when they didn't deserve it, but she can be downright bitchy. Plus she's spoiled, but that's partially my timid aunt's fault. When she goes over the texting limit, she doesn't take the phone away. When she's rude and disrespectful, she lets her go out anyway. It's a mess.

Plus, she has really weird ideas that I don't understand. A couple years back she asked me, "You're 23?! *scoff* And you're not married?!" Then she laughed at me.

:confused:

But then I was kind of a jerk when I was that age too... I think it just gets less clear when I get older. Still, I never mocked my older relatives for being legally single. What the hell is that about?! Where'd she pick that up?
My 16 old cousin, fully aware of our inability to have kids asked my wife at a friends wedding if we were pregnant yet. Upon the expected answer of no, proceeded to say "Oh, well, I'm pregnant again, ha ha ha." and walked away.

It only took a couple minutes for me to talk my wife into putting down the knife.


#37

D

Dubyamn

Tl; dr version: Cashier refuses to do simple thing; customer overreacts to simple thing. I mean, if he REALLY didn't want to "trouble them" any more he could have just looked up at the menu, made a note of the drink's price, added the tax, and put that in his record
Because the cost of his drink wasn't the issue here. Informing the management that the person representing their company was being a huge tool box was because a complaint swallowed is a complaint that nobody knows about.


#38

Dave

Dave

Tl; dr version: Cashier refuses to do simple thing; customer overreacts to simple thing. I mean, if he REALLY didn't want to "trouble them" any more he could have just looked up at the menu, made a note of the drink's price, added the tax, and put that in his record
Because the cost of his drink wasn't the issue here. Informing the management that the person representing their company was being a huge tool box was because a complaint swallowed is a complaint that nobody knows about.[/QUOTE]

When I'm traveling on business and I want to be reimbursed for my expenses I have to produce receipts.


#39

Cajungal

Cajungal

Tl; dr version: Cashier refuses to do simple thing; customer overreacts to simple thing. I mean, if he REALLY didn't want to "trouble them" any more he could have just looked up at the menu, made a note of the drink's price, added the tax, and put that in his record
Because the cost of his drink wasn't the issue here. Informing the management that the person representing their company was being a huge tool box was because a complaint swallowed is a complaint that nobody knows about.[/QUOTE]

Clearly. I was just annoyed by the way the customer handled it. If you have a problem, I don't think the most effective way to say so is to make a wounded bunny face and then mope off when they try to make it right. I don't think he was wrong for complaining. I don't fault him for being timid either if that's the issue. But if he was acting like a whiny little victim just for the sake of it, then I think that was stupid of him. I can't prove it either way. He just annoyed me, and I'm usually on the customer's side at that location. The employees can be jerks.

But yeah, the real issue is that she started it by being terribly rude.


#40

Adam

Adammon

Looking at mystery shop scores across a wide variety of service industries, I'd have to say that "rude" is actually more common than "not-rude". Pretty typical when your most important employees (front line staff) are also your least paid.


#41

Vytamindi

Vytamindi

God, when I worked at a coffee shop, I had fun! The reason I loved that job was the regular customers. When you see them pull up, you fix the drink and have it ready for them! They loved that! Of course, the occasional asshat walked in (as well as the occasional sex offender, but I was the only girl who worked there who was NOT a twig, so I was ok) and you just had to be respectful while taking care of business.

Man, I miss that job... the worst part working there was the drama caused by employees... the customers kept me sane!


#42

Cajungal

Cajungal

When I'm traveling on business and I want to be reimbursed for my expenses I have to produce receipts.
You'd have hated this girl. She actually started arguing with him at one point for saying he needed a receipt. Even when the manager was there with her, she kept saying under her breath, "it's not even a card purchase..."


#43

Covar

Covar

proper response to her arguement:

"Of course not you stupid bitch, If I wanted to keep track of my card purchases I could simply go online, instead of having to deal with you and your constant reminder that I should have just used the coffee machine at work. Now do the job you are overpaid for and give me my Goddamn receipt like you are supposed to."


#44

Cajungal

Cajungal

EXACTLY! Not running away with your tail between your legs. I guess my point is that irate customers can't be intimidated if they want their complaints to be heard. People will walk all over you if you let them. :\


#45

fade

fade

I don't drink coffee,
Not to start anything, but why is it that everyone who doesn't drink coffee must point it out all the time? Is it a badge of honor or something?

Same thing goes for drinking soda, eating fast food, being a vegetarian, or watching TV.


#46

Andi

Drachenherz

I don't drink coffee,
Not to start anything, but why is it that everyone who doesn't drink coffee must point it out all the time? Is it a badge of honor or something?

Same thing goes for drinking soda, eating fast food, being a vegetarian, or watching TV.[/QUOTE]

I don't watch TV.


#47

Covar

Covar

I can't live without my morning cup.

In all seriousness I have a bad caffeine addiction. It would take me at least a month to be weened off caffeine without having a massive headache constantly.


#48

Cajungal

Cajungal

I don't drink coffee,
Not to start anything, but why is it that everyone who doesn't drink coffee must point it out all the time? Is it a badge of honor or something?

Same thing goes for drinking soda, eating fast food, being a vegetarian, or watching TV.[/QUOTE]

I don't watch TV.[/QUOTE]

I don't fart.
:smug:


#49

Covar

Covar

pfft. I don't breath.


#50

Vytamindi

Vytamindi

I poop heart shaped potpourri scented nuggets.

:smug:


#51

Frank

Frankie Williamson

I drink coffee, but hate every minute of it.


#52

Allen who is Quiet

Allen, who is Quiet

dude should have bought that cashier a cup of coffee and give it to her by dumping it on her.

she can't complain then. he bought her coffee


#53

Gared

Gared

And yes, I do wonder where these bad attitudes come from.
A smug sense of entitlement, instilled in the current generation by overprotective parents who are afraid their kids are going to do what they are currently doing to THEIR parents.[/QUOTE]

Don't forget school systems that value self esteem and personal feelings above actual accomplishments and true learning.

I'm not saying all schools and teachers are this way, mine certainly weren't (something for which I am eternally thankful, btw); but there are schools here locally who have stopped giving failing grades or stopped giving lower than C grades at all, because they don't want kids who are failing to feel badly later in life.

As a former hiring manager I say "Fuck that! Give me kids who can become adults who at least know how to speak their native tongue*, can add 2 and 2 without the need of a calculator (or without arguing with the calculator that the answer really is 4), and who can write a damn email without sounding like a moron!"

*I'm talking white, third or fourth generation kids of non-Hispanic descent here. People who've spent their entire lives in the U.S., whose parents spent their entire lives in the U.S., and whose grandparents or great-grandparents immigrated in the late 1800s.


#54

AshburnerX

AshburnerX

English is always evolving, or devolving as the case may be. I somehow doubt that the English my parents spoke is the same as the one my grandparents or great grandparents spoke. That being said, people need to stop using net shorthand in actual conversations. It makes you sound like an idiot.


#55

Gared

Gared

English is always evolving, or devolving as the case may be. I somehow doubt that the English my parents spoke is the same as the one my grandparents or great grandparents spoke. That being said, people need to stop using net shorthand in actual conversations. It makes you sound like an idiot.
Undoubtedly. Lord knows we Americans don't speak the Queen's English, let alone use the same terms and words used in our own country as recently as 100 years ago (less, frequently). But I'm just talking about the ability to string a few sentences together into a coherent paragraph, let alone net speak.


#56

Rob King

Rob King

And yes, I do wonder where these bad attitudes come from.
A smug sense of entitlement, instilled in the current generation by overprotective parents who are afraid their kids are going to do what they are currently doing to THEIR parents.[/QUOTE]

Don't forget school systems that value self esteem and personal feelings above actual accomplishments and true learning.[/QUOTE]

I just learned something about the education system in my province. I had a meeting with the parent of the child I will be hanging out with. It came up in conversation that the education system will not fail anybody more than once between grades one and nine.

So if you're a complete moron in grade 2, and you fail, even if you are a complete moron the next year, you will not fail a second time. Same with if you are a moron in grades three, four, five, six ... etc.

And my teacher friend wonders why I complain about the education system so frequently. In high school I coasted by with about 2-3 hours of study in 3 years. I could have been challenged, and made to work, and actually learned something beyond the curriculum, or even learned the curriculum more in-depth. I registered for the advanced math class in grade 11, but they canceled it because only 4 of 150 students signed up.

When I ended up in the academic class, I spent most of my time doodling even though I genuinely enjoyed the math, because rather than challenging me, and giving me something to work at, the teacher would give us a page number and a list of questions and spend the rest of her time dealing with idiots and problem students who shouldn't have been in that class in the first place.

I don't drink coffee,
Not to start anything, but why is it that everyone who doesn't drink coffee must point it out all the time? Is it a badge of honor or something?

Same thing goes for drinking soda, eating fast food, being a vegetarian, or watching TV.[/QUOTE]

I don't watch TV.[/QUOTE]

A philosophy professor I once had got angry at a student in class for saying this. He said he didn't watch TV, and she said "Oh? So you haven't seen either of these?" and she listed off a series of current TV shows. He said "Yeah, but I watch them on DVD, or online." To which she responded "That's the same goddamn thing!"

Oh, that prof was a bitch. But her lectures were more amusing than a night at the movies.

Also, I have a group of friends who pretend like they're some sort of revolutionaries because they don't have cellphones.

Maybe it just occurs less in your neck of the woods.
Possibly. Finns tend to be damn proud of their work ethic. Shenanigans are frowned upon.[/QUOTE]

This was Newfoundland. One of my managers at Staples, when I worked there, was from Ontario, and he said that when he started with management many years ago, if somebody mentioned that they came from Newfoundland (or, if their accent betrayed them) he would inevitably hire them, because the Newfoundland work ethic was hardcore.

In recent years that has gone straight down the tubes, with the collapse of our main industry, and the fact that a huge segment of my generation was raised entirely on social assistance.


#57

LittleSin

LittleSin

Rob, you beat me to to it. You covered the education thing I was going to talk about and the work ethic thing.

I also don't have able or satellite hooked up...because I can just download my shit when I want it or go but the DVD sets if they're out.

I think it saves me money.


#58

Gusto

Gusto

I don't fart.
:smug:

I, like, actually don't fart.

I'll break wind like twice a year (unless I get a stomach flu or something) and it is both silent and odorless.

I have very efficient bowels.

:smug:


#59

Frank

Frankie Williamson

Farting is awesome.

I fart when I eat or drink dairy products, meat, fats of any kind, vegetables, some fruits, most grains (like after a bowl of honey nut cheerios...hooo-wee) and mother fucker can they be stinkers. It's a good thing a good portion of each night during night shifts is spent trying to see who can fart the sickest fart at our female member of our watch or else I might not have any reason to fart so much.


#60

LittleSin

LittleSin

Farting is awesome.

I fart when I eat or drink dairy products, meat, fats of any kind, vegetables, some fruits, most grains (like after a bowl of honey nut cheerios...hooo-wee) and mother fucker can they be stinkers. It's a good thing a good portion of each night during night shifts is spent trying to see who can fart the sickest fart at our female member of our watch or else I might not have any reason to fart so much.
Jesus Christ.


#61

Frank

Frankie Williamson

It's actually not as bad as all that, well not always.


#62

Cajungal

Cajungal

I've mentioned before that my school is almost like an extension of my old high school-- same kind of people, mostly upper middle class, never taught to take care of themselves or to earn for themselves. They follow their parents' example of looking down their nose at everyone or handing out sly little insults because of who they know or how expensive their house is. My folks were very down to earth. Even though I grew up with a lot of blessings, they were never shy about putting me in my place when I acted spoiled. That was probably the greatest gift they gave me, but it also causes a lot of aggravation on days like yesterday. :eek:rly:

On the other hand, there are also great people there who are friendly and have a great work ethic. The Southern friendliness down here can make for GREAT work ethic, because a lot of people just want to makes others feel as happy as they do. I encounter them as well, but that's not who this thread is about.


#63

North_Ranger

North_Ranger

Farting is awesome.

I fart when I eat or drink dairy products, meat, fats of any kind, vegetables, some fruits, most grains (like after a bowl of honey nut cheerios...hooo-wee) and mother fucker can they be stinkers. It's a good thing a good portion of each night during night shifts is spent trying to see who can fart the sickest fart at our female member of our watch or else I might not have any reason to fart so much.
Start with pea soup (with or without chopped onion and mustard)...



... followed by rye bread...



...and top it all off with strawberry rahka, a Finnish desert and most yummy.



THEN try an' fart.


#64

Bubble181

Bubble181

Belgium used to be known for having amongst the best work ethics in the world (and the second most productive labourers after Japan), but it's really gone downhill in recent years. That aside, I don't tolerate bad service.

Thing is though, you see abuse on both sides. More and more, people just start up and complaining, making a huge stink, so that the manager comes out, and in the end, they walk out with free stuff. I've seen people pull this off too often - make enough of an annoyance of yourself (without really breaking rules, of course) and management will do next to anything to get you out of their store. -_-


#65

CynicismKills

CynicismKills

Dark beer farts.

There is nothing worse.


#66

D

Dubyamn

Clearly. I was just annoyed by the way the customer handled it. If you have a problem, I don't think the most effective way to say so is to make a wounded bunny face and then mope off when they try to make it right. I don't think he was wrong for complaining. I don't fault him for being timid either if that's the issue. But if he was acting like a whiny little victim just for the sake of it, then I think that was stupid of him. I can't prove it either way. He just annoyed me, and I'm usually on the customer's side at that location. The employees can be jerks.

But yeah, the real issue is that she started it by being terribly rude.
Actually I think he was embarrassed that the manager had to come over and ring up his order again. I mean he's making a stink over a receipt for a what $5 purchase and her the manager is ringing it up in front of everybody.

Hell I've been in situations where it isn't even anybodies fault like when the cashier at the grocery store had to send a person back to do a price check and there is a long line behind me and I've been terribly embarrassed.


#67

Cajungal

Cajungal

That's the thing, though. He didn't just walk off... he just hovered there and actually held up the line going back and forth. (It would be so much easier if y'all had been there with me, lol). He eventually just cowered and walked away, but he just stood there complaining, all the while insisting he didn't actually need the receipt... THEN saying he really did want it... I should make a video and act it out.

I've been in the same boat. It kinda sucks to complain when there are people waiting, but if you need something fixed, you need it fixed.


#68

fade

fade

I've said it before. One of the worst problems with the US right now is a complete lack of devotion to a job. A job used to be something. It was the productive thing you did. But now it's just that 5-day impediment between weekends. I see so many people who just don't care about their work, and that fundamentally bothers me. I mean, you have to work, so why not work well? Is it really that much easier to do it half assed?


#69

AshburnerX

AshburnerX

I've said it before. One of the worst problems with the US right now is a complete lack of devotion to a job. A job used to be something. It was the productive thing you did. But now it's just that 5-day impediment between weekends. I see so many people who just don't care about their work, and that fundamentally bothers me. I mean, you have to work, so why not work well? Is it really that much easier to do it half assed?
Let me counter with this: What's the point of caring about your job when your company is going to forever see you as replaceable, refuse to give you a living wage or adequate health benefits, and yet treat you like you owe them for the meager incentives they do offer? The reason nobody gives a fuck about their jobs is because the people they are working for don't give a fuck about them ether. They have become so beholden to their shareholders and themselves that they refuse to pass along the successes of the company to the people who need it most and ultimately do the most for the company: The Front line workers.


#70

Cajungal

Cajungal

I definitely see your point there. Older people who need the job could probably do with more incentive than they get. When I say these things, I think more of younger people who probably don't need to work; they're being made to or they just got one because they figured they should. They think it's going to be easy, but it isn't. They didn't realize that your first job is usually a sucky one, and they don't even try.

I had 16-year-olds quit by just never showing up again at the pizza place where I used to work. One of them, after receiving a call from the manager, said he wasn't coming back because they "didn't appreciate him enough." He's been there a FUCKING WEEK, and he was late for 3 of his shifts. :confused:

Most of my problems, I encounter with people like that. I'm generally more understanding of older adults who are stuck in a crappy job with a crappy boss who probably hates his/her crappy job too.


#71

Rob King

Rob King

I have a friend who is sick 3 days out of the average week. No joke. If she ever starts telling me about how sick she feels, I try to sound uninterested, hoping that she takes the hint. If she doesn't, I change the subject.

It's not that I don't think she's sick. It just that I don't think she cares about school, or work, or anything else enough to muscle through a bit of stomach acid. Seriously, if that girl was always as sick as she makes it sound, she would have been dead at 12 years old.

When I was younger, if I wasn't feeling well, I was dragged out of bed and on to school, unless I had thrown up during the night, or was otherwise obviously ill (my mother was a nurse). After getting up and on the go, I would most times feel better. If I called home sick at some point during the day, then, my parents would know it was something to take seriously, but not after a lengthy interview, just to be sure.

And now I'm at the point that I've called in sick like ... three times in the last year, and only one of those times did I cancel the whole shift.


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