JCM said:
Why not implement a Morrowind-like system. You use a sword, you improve your sword skills. You carrymuch stuff, you increase stamina.
This is until today the best and most realistic way of levelling up in RPGs, and makes more sense than "Im suddenly going to increase 3 points in a weapon that I never used!"
That's exactly how Ultima Online MMO played.
As for FFXI? Grab a 2x4 with rusty nails in it and grab some massage oil.
For about 30minutes, massage yourself gently with the oil. Soothe yourself, enjoy and relax.
On the 31st minute, grab the 2x4 and beat yourself mercilessly with it. I mean go to town like you owe yourself money. Do this for 4hrs.
When you regain consciousness, grab the oil and repeat.
It'll cost you less and it's the exact same experience as that MMO.