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Adam

Adam

sixpackshaker;449931][QUOTE=Chibibar;449929][QUOTE=sixpackshaker;449908][QUOTE=Chibibar;449901][QUOTE=IronBrig4 said:
I'm sorry, man. Was it a bad date, or did she hit you with that "I had a good time but I'm just not feeling it" line afterward?
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Or "We have such a good time, but I just want to be friends" (I get that a lot)[/QUOTE]

I thought you were married?[/QUOTE]

Before I was married.[/QUOTE]

Good to know you are not still a major player...[/QUOTE]

Better not be playing with minors either...
 
Dave

Dave

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I once got, "I'm used to dating better looking men."

She's the same one who told me, "You're not Tom Cruise...but you're not hideous."


Thanks. Thanks a lot.
 
Hylian

Hylian

Adammon;449936][QUOTE=sixpackshaker;449931][QUOTE=Chibibar;449929][QUOTE=sixpackshaker;449908][QUOTE=Chibibar;449901][QUOTE=IronBrig4 said:
I'm sorry, man. Was it a bad date, or did she hit you with that "I had a good time but I'm just not feeling it" line afterward?
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Or "We have such a good time, but I just want to be friends" (I get that a lot)[/QUOTE]

I thought you were married?[/QUOTE]

Before I was married.[/QUOTE]

Good to know you are not still a major player...[/QUOTE]

Better not be playing with minors either...[/QUOTE]



I laughed harder than I should have at that
 
PatrThom

PatrThom

Time to start spending some time out in the Library, park, shopping malls, etc. Y'know...lose a little of that cloistered geek affect, spend a little time around other people so you get used to their scent again.

Or cocoon yourself away from humanity. I suppose it depends on your ultimate goal.

--Patrick
 
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Element 117

PatrThom said:
Or cocoon yourself away from humanity. I suppose it depends on your ultimate goal.

--Patrick
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This really is dependent on the amount of [STRIKE]cocaine[/STRIKE] patience you have. As well as delivery services on speed dial that will leave the food at the door and know where to find the cash +tip.

Pizza's here, see you guys next week.
 
SpecialKO

SpecialKO

Eh, don't be bummed, man, it happens. You are guaranteed to have dates that don't work out, regardless of how well you seem to get along via email, chat, whatever. No reason to take it badly.
 
M

Matt²

So the "date", for lack of a better term, actually went fairly well... it was a meet and greet and get to know the real person instead of just email and chat. During the course of the evening it was fairly clear that though we have some things in common, in our lives we are both going separate directions. I told her so this morning and she agreed and we went our separate ways.

Meanwhile I am really bummed because there was a strong match for our likes, I think more than I've met before... I turn 38 next month and am feeeling ollllllllllllllllld..especially considering I want (my own) children, and most of those in my graduating class have TEENAGERS now.

arrgghh.
 
Espy

Espy

If you don't mind sharing what were the "separate" ways? I'm guessing it must have been pretty huge, not like you want orange juice in the AM and she wants tomato.
 
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Matt²

Espy said:
If you don't mind sharing what were the "separate" ways? I'm guessing it must have been pretty huge, not like you want orange juice in the AM and she wants tomato.
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I'd rather not share that info, sorry.
 
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Element 117

Horde/Alliance?

She was an atheist?

She's was moving on up with the Jeffersons?
 
C

Chibibar

Matt²;450123][QUOTE=Espy said:
If you don't mind sharing what were the "separate" ways? I'm guessing it must have been pretty huge, not like you want orange juice in the AM and she wants tomato.
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I'd rather not share that info, sorry.[/QUOTE]

no worries mate.

Of course in this period of your life, you have to see what you consider a high priority. You can't have it all. Of course, in the end, it is up to you to decide what you want.
 
strawman

strawman

Matt² said:
though we have some things in common, in our lives we are both going separate directions
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That's a killer, man, sorry. It's easy to find people that have similar interests, but it's hard to fine someone that has compatible (note - not similar, compatible) life goals.

It's always going to be a hard hit when you get close to something you think might actually work out, then fall. Take a breather, but get back out into the ring again soon. This too shall pass.

Kids will come when you find the right person, but don't push yourself into the wrong relationship because you think you are somehow behind or running out of time. The best thing you can do now is get your life in order so when things do work out, you'll be the person you want to have fathering your children.
 
phil

phil

escushion;450213][QUOTE=Dave said:
I once got, "I'm used to dating better looking men."

She's the same one who told me, "You're not Tom Cruise...but you're not hideous."


Thanks. Thanks a lot.
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Crap, I can't decide between "not hideous is generous for that avatar" or quoting "That's mostly from his wife".[/QUOTE]

Oooo! Oooooooooooo! Door #2! Numbah twoooooo!
 
Jay

Jay

Bah, don't understand the point of creating the thread if you don't want to reveal stuff.

But whatever, I guess the subject is closed to respect his privacy.
 
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