Personal Dealbreakers

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Dave

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He's gotten infraction points. He has not been banned. Unless he continues. then he'll get some time to think it over.
 

Cajungal

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I've seen racism as a dealbreaker in here. If I'm talking to a potential friend and they sound really bigoted, that's usually time for me to say "so long." But I can deal with the learned behaviors of family and friends. If they know they can't get away with it around me, they'll keep their mouths shut.

Neediness is another big thing. If someone is really clingy, that relationship isn't going to last. I've never been lied about that I know of, but that would be a big problem. I feel uncomfortable around religious people who try and get me to read their scripture and join their congregation and stuff. If they mention it once and then move on, that's fine by me. I might have done the same back when I was religious, but then I'd drop it if I knew they weren't interested.
 
Ugh... I can't think of any because I am the WORST friend ever...

My best friend lives an hour away from me... and the last time I saw her before this past weekend was almost a year. I never call, I hardly text, but when we finally get together we start right back where we left off.

She's a great friend because she realizes how busy we both are and how important it is to us to live our own independent lives. I've always been kind of a loner, and she is accepting of that.

And I also stood up for her in college when no one else did. She's my best pal!!!
 

Cajungal

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^I'm a bad friend too!!! We should be friends. That would be the perfect relationship.

"Sorry I didn't call you."

"Sokay, I wasn't gonna call you either."
 
The biggest personal dealbreaker for me, I suppose, is someone being non-genuine. It's hard to describe (and especially hard to determine through a message board...), but it just annoys me to no end when a person is being fake. I can't stand my brother many times because he does it all the time. The problem is, his "fake" is being a smug, arrogant douche. He says it's not how he really is, but to me, that just makes it worse.
 
I tried to find a train wreck smiley to express how I feel about this thread...cause there's a smiley for everything, right? All I found were pictures of pot.
 
I have a buddy who is DEEP into 9/11 conspiracies. It's not a total dealbreaker, he knows everyone thinks he's nuts but... it bothers me when we hang out.
 
So, hey, we found a deal breaker for another forum member.

so far we've had.. pedophilia, racism... what's next?
 
I think bigotry has to be a deal breaker for me. Right around Halloween I was at an improv show and I was in a group of friends (some who did the show) and this guy comes up and says "I'd like to talk to you and make connections ya know? Its better than being a fucking queer." Two of my friends immediately turned to walk off while I was standing mouth agape and then the guy says "I bet they also voted for that atheist *** Obama."
I'm glad he got it out there early so I didnt have to waste time talking to him but how can you think that'd be a good introduction?
 
If there had been a homosexual friend of mine near enough to hear that, I'd have gotten in that guy's face telling him to apologize or get his teeth pushed down his own throat.
 
creampies are only for trusting relationships where there's non-condom methods of contraceptives or you're working on getting pregnant, people!
 
creampies are only for trusting relationships where there's non-condom methods of contraceptives or you're working on getting pregnant, people!
or if you're proficient with a FALCON PUNCH....[/QUOTE]
Hahahaha! One of the sweetest things my boyfriend has ever said was that he would push me down the stairs if I gave him the go-ahead.

Man... true love right there!:D
 
If you're ok with it why would you need him to push you down? You could just DIVE down... belly flop down the stairs, wooo!
 
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