Dear God, so much stupidity I don't know where to start
a) you're ignorant if you think it's impossible for someone to be more mature than others their own age. Considering 16 is perfectly legal, and she was a mere month away from becoming 15, do you seriously think that a year will suddenly make a huge difference? Ignorance ignorance ignorance.
b) She was in High school, not middle school.
c) she had a job since she was 11 and she was more responsible than me in many areas.
d) you're all so narrow minded you think relationships are all about sex which says more about you all than about me. Romance does NOT equal sex - intimacy does NOT equal sex. I feel pity for you if that's all you can think about. I'm not going to talk about the details - that's a private matter.
e) Tell me how she couldn't possibly love me when she still does, 7 years later? Are you seriously so ignorant to think it's impossible for someone her age to know what love is, simply because most other girls her age don't?
f) it's not because YOU never met someone several years younger than you who you can't connect with that it's impossible - the world does not revolve around you. Me and her clicked on every level and that's what matters - I don't give a shit about your personal experiences, I know mine.
g) I never pushed myself on her AT ALL so keep your \"creepy\" comments to yourselves, jack ass.
And how the hell could you just go \"oh it's bad for her\" when she admits that I brought much needed stability in her life and that it did her a lot of good. How big a MORON do you need to be to think that? Seriously, the arrogance coming from small and narrow minded people here is baffling - I even saved her fucking life at one moment in time, yet you got the gall to say it was wrong simply because your mind is too primitive to understand?
And yes I will defend this full out, because you're desecrating one of the best moments in my life and you're insulting her to boot with your petty comments.
So how
were those Hannah Montana concerts? Did you pretend to be her dad when you picked her up from school?
Dude, she was 14/15, whatever... It's a taboo to be romantically intimate with an adolescent when you're almost 10 years her senior sex or no sex. It's been mentioned before, you can rant over and over again about how mature she was for her age, but the bottom line is a 15 year old is still maturing, developing, and is a big raging sack of hormones. That's fact for anyone at that age. No matter how much you want to spin it.
Did you ever stop and think that she came from a broken home and you took (maybe unknowingly) advantage of that? Did you ever stop and think that as an adult it was your responsibility to NOT allow that sort of relationship to develop. The stability in her life that you're referring to would have been filled any responsible adult figure. Are you too stupid to see that she had some major daddy issues? You pretty much manipulated a disturbed child. Nothing more.
And no, there is nothing wrong with an adult having an enduring friendship with a young person, but it is that adult's place to know where the line is drawn and not to cross it because a teenage child doesn't.
I'm sure as hell glad she wasn't my kid, because you'd be dead and buried in my backyard. Of course that was the problem to begin with...daddy issues... I'm sure if her parents were all there, you'd have your ass locked away or a shotgun pellet lodged in your ass.
Oh here's an interview with a pedophile, he's pretty much giving out the same rational as you are:
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