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I believe that he should have met with her in person, but I don't think the guy should be punish for it. To me, S&M can be as scarring like rape. I mean I am not much of being tied up and beaten (fantasy or not)This is one of those situations where the idiot was so jacked up with the idea of getting in a rape fantasy that he didn't think to confirm it was just a fantasy. He should have told "her" that he would not consider it unless he spoke with "her" in person, to realize that this is what she wanted. Even the phone can be forged because the marine would have just gotten another woman to do it, you have to meet the woman to know that you are consenting and it is just fantasy.
They fact he took the whole thing as it was, means he needs to get punished. He made a huge mistake, but that mistake physically and mentally scarred someone. That deserves punishment.
I disagree about the guy who actually did the deed. That you commit a heinous crime "accidentally" most often does not absolve you of your crime. Perhaps he should have a somewhat reduced prison sentence, but he raped a woman. He didn't have the common sense to verify the situation before he raped someone because he thought she had e-mailed him that it was OK. This was a failure of due diligence of Brobdingnagian proportions, and he should go down for it. The last thing we need is another technicality to get off genuine criminals.If the guy who actually committed the rape has the documentation (I.E. chat logs with the "woman", emails, the original ad saved somewhere) then he can probably prove he acted in good faith and he should probably get off with probation, counseling, restitution of some sort, and probably a hefty dose of community service. I'd also keep him off the sex offender list: "deviancy" has been punished for far too long and all it's doing is pushing people further and further into the fringes. However... if he didn't have the foresight to save the information he had been given, then I really don't have any pity for this guy. It was his duty to prove that this was legit and he clearly didn't go far enough to do it.
The guy who set him up, however, should be punished to the full extent of the law. He's ruined two lives here and he should pay for it.
There's not knowing better, and then there's thinking that an uninvestigated e-mail makes rape OK. This guy didn't accidentally back over somebody he didn't know was behind his car.Basically, punish the guy for not knowing better?
I could get behind that, I guess. Drunk driving is pretty stupid too, and we punish people for that.
Depends on the person. I have no issues with the more violent natures of sex, I can't even get into what my wife and I do, but the fact is that she didn't consent, and in those situations you need consent, you need to know the other person really wants it. The act of rape is when one party forces sex onto another without consent, regardless of how the rapists was considering it.I believe that he should have met with her in person, but I don't think the guy should be punish for it. To me, S&M can be as scarring like rape. I mean I am not much of being tied up and beaten (fantasy or not)
ummm, guys, I don't think Dave would like y'all organizing a gang rape here.Yeah, count me in for rapeslaughter, too, Charlie.
The Marine should be charged for rape and for fraud as he portrayed himself as someone else. Once he serves his time he should be charged with conduct unbecoming a Marine and slammed in military court also. Let him do additional time in Leavenworth.
As to the guy who did it....He should also be charged with rape and here's why. Even though he thought it was consensual he still WANTED to commit the act of violence against a woman. It turns out he had a fantasy of tying and raping a woman and proved he was not above acting on these fantasies. Granted, he may not have ever acted on it without this virtual impetus, but he did in this case.
If MY WIFE wanted me to do this I don't think I could. If she talked me into it and she fought me like this woman must have fought him, I would have stopped immediately because I would have known something was seriously wrong. This guy not only wanted to do the act but showed he was willing to act it out even when he MUST have at some point realized that something was wrong.
ummm, guys, I don't think Dave would like y'all organizing a gang rape here.[/QUOTE]Yeah, count me in for rapeslaughter, too, Charlie.
This is going to be the big factor. There is a point even a fantasy deviant is going to realize something is wrong when she is doing nothing but kicking and screaming at him. Many deviants of that nature probably prefer reluctance scenarios, the stuff you would find in hentai, and in real rape you don't get those outcomes of seeming acceptance. It would be much more violent. He really has no excuse for it. He needs to get something more then a slap on the wrist.If MY WIFE wanted me to do this I don't think I could. If she talked me into it and she fought me like this woman must have fought him, I would have stopped immediately because I would have known something was seriously wrong. This guy not only wanted to do the act but showed he was willing to act it out even when he MUST have at some point realized that something was wrong.
Pretty much my position as well. I like the "manslaughter" idea though, however, from reading another report it sounds like he was... BRUTAL. So really, I agree with Dave, at a certain point he had to have known something was wrong but he did not relent. So in the end I don't care if he goes down for the whole thing but I think the Marine should as well.While it's a shame he's gonna go to jail for this, he only has himself to blame.
What is the safety word is something "Blathering Blatherskite"? She'd never say it and if she did, he'd get his winky pinched off anyways when all the armor assembled.They're called safety words. The ex boyfriend and his unwitting accomplice should be charged with rape.
I was hoping you would jump in. It's a shame they can't charge him with anything else... I think he's just as much or more to blame for this.There was a case, in Britain I think, where this guy is hanging in a bar and meets like 2 or 3 other men. He invites them over to his house to have sex with his wife, saying that if she fights that's the way she likes it. So they do. In that case, which was years ago, the husband was actually there and still didn't get convicted of rape or attempted rape.
There was another case where a man did something like this but with personals in a magazine I think. He was charged with something but it wasn't rape.
I don't know how the marine guy could be charged with attempt to have forcible sex with someone because he didn't make that attempt. He set up the circumstances for it to happen. It's really unfair but I don't know what he can be charged with.
Totally agree with Dave.The Marine should be charged for rape and for fraud as he portrayed himself as someone else. Once he serves his time he should be charged with conduct unbecoming a Marine and slammed in military court also. Let him do additional time in Leavenworth.
As to the guy who did it....He should also be charged with rape and here's why. Even though he thought it was consensual he still WANTED to commit the act of violence against a woman. It turns out he had a fantasy of tying and raping a woman and proved he was not above acting on these fantasies. Granted, he may not have ever acted on it without this virtual impetus, but he did in this case.
If MY WIFE wanted me to do this I don't think I could. If she talked me into it and she fought me like this woman must have fought him, I would have stopped immediately because I would have known something was seriously wrong. This guy not only wanted to do the act but showed he was willing to act it out even when he MUST have at some point realized that something was wrong.
Your article says he's been charged with being an accomplice. I have no idea what that means specifically, though - is it "accomplice to rape" or some vaguer, more broad crime of "accomplice in wrongdoing of any sort"So there is nothing he can be charged with since he didn't commit the actual crime?
Your article says he's been charged with being an accomplice. I have no idea what that means specifically, though - is it "accomplice to rape" or some vaguer, more broad crime of "accomplice in wrongdoing of any sort"[/QUOTE]So there is nothing he can be charged with since he didn't commit the actual crime?
That looks like the accused would have to use force, though. I know you're reading it as "she was forced, so all involved are guilty of forcing her into a sexual act" but I don't think it reads like that.The marine can still be charged with rape under the UCMJ.
Rape by using force:
"That the accused caused another person, who is of any age, to engage in a sexual act by using force against that other person. "
It doesn't say he has to do the penetrative act. Only that he has to have caused it to happen.
There may not be need to charge him with more. This vague "accomplice" charge, whatever it is may carry enough weight for decent punishment. And who knows, maybe he's been charged with several things anyway, and the article just encompassed it all with that vague "accomplice" thing.Yeah, sorry, I meant "something more".
From the way Mak makes it sound ("What I'm saying is if he has any kind of competent legal representation he might even get out of the conspiracy charge.") it doesn't sound that way but I sure hope you are right. I don't see why he shouldn't got to jail for just as long as the other guy if not longer.[/COLOR]Man, I'm being nitpicky here.
There may not be need to charge him with more. This vague "accomplice" charge, whatever it is may carry enough weight for decent punishment. And who knows, maybe he's been charged with several things anyway, and the article just encompassed it all with that vague "accomplice" thing.Yeah, sorry, I meant "something more".
I believe she's in law school.what expert knowledge does makare have here? I thought Wolfodin's our sole legal eagle.
That looks like the accused would have to use force, though. I know you're reading it as "she was forced, so all involved are guilty of forcing her into a sexual act" but I don't think it reads like that.[/QUOTE]The marine can still be charged with rape under the UCMJ.
Rape by using force:
"That the accused caused another person, who is of any age, to engage in a sexual act by using force against that other person. "
It doesn't say he has to do the penetrative act. Only that he has to have caused it to happen.
True, I mean, if he was simply ignorant and manipulated then I feel bad for him sure. I think that that's just how the cookie crumbles sometimes though.You can't get away from the fact that the guy WAS manipulated on some level. It still doesn't excuse him from not finding out more information. With just a little more info he could have stopped this before it started.
Reminds me of the short story "Rape Fantasies." The main character says something close to that.Lesson learned:
If a stranger asks you to rape them, get them to sign a contract first that they're not going to call the cops afterwards. And even if you did sign a contract, you would still go to jail if they called the cops. So don't 'rape' strangers!
Because rape is illegal. There's no such thing as consensual rape. A rape fantasy is a bit of an oxymoron because it implies participation and consent. Rape has neither. What is considered a 'rape fantasy' is more 'pushing the line on rough sex'.
While it's a shame he's gonna go to jail for this, he only has himself to blame.
I don't know what the laws are.Stien, do you think the Marine should be charged as much as the other man or should get lesser charges (not what he WILL get but what you think he should get)?
Wait, i'm pretty sure that if you can prove that it was consensual pressing charges after won't hold up. I recall seeing somewhere something about how a big percentage of reported rapes here where actually prostitutes charging clients that didn't pay after.Those who claim that the BDSM community proves that some acts are not criminal if performed with consent - that is only true if all parties to the act decide, before, during and after, that the act is consensual. They can change their mind at any time and press charges, even if at the time of the act it was consensual. The only thing protecting their partners is their own social contract, which is not in any way shape or form legally enforceable.
That's totally incorrect around these parts. In Texas, the assaultive charges specifically have a codified defense for consent.Those who claim that the BDSM community proves that some acts are not criminal if performed with consent - that is only true if all parties to the act decide, before, during and after, that the act is consensual. They can change their mind at any time and press charges, even if at the time of the act it was consensual. The only thing protecting their partners is their own social contract, which is not in any way shape or form legally enforceable.
In Texas, the assaultive charges specifically have a codified defense for consent.Those who claim that the BDSM community proves that some acts are not criminal if performed with consent - that is only true if all parties to the act decide, before, during and after, that the act is consensual. They can change their mind at any time and press charges, even if at the time of the act it was consensual. The only thing protecting their partners is their own social contract, which is not in any way shape or form legally enforceable.
The last part of that sentence made me chuckle. :laugh: Is that wrong of me?If you let someone spank your ass, and then try to get them arrested later, and it can be shown to a jury's satisfaction that you consented, that guy will get off.
Reminds me of the short story "Rape Fantasies." The main character says something close to that.[/QUOTE]Lesson learned:
If a stranger asks you to rape them, get them to sign a contract first that they're not going to call the cops afterwards. And even if you did sign a contract, you would still go to jail if they called the cops. So don't 'rape' strangers!
Because rape is illegal. There's no such thing as consensual rape. A rape fantasy is a bit of an oxymoron because it implies participation and consent. Rape has neither. What is considered a 'rape fantasy' is more 'pushing the line on rough sex'.
While it's a shame he's gonna go to jail for this, he only has himself to blame.
But that's why it's a fantasy. It's not real. This dude should have attempted to meet beforehand etc... Any kind of BDSM role-play stuff usually involves safety words so the other person stops if things are getting too rough. He should go to jail, if only because he's a dipshit.Lesson learned:
If a stranger asks you to rape them, get them to sign a contract first that they're not going to call the cops afterwards. And even if you did sign a contract, you would still go to jail if they called the cops. So don't 'rape' strangers!
Because rape is illegal. There's no such thing as consensual rape. A rape fantasy is a bit of an oxymoron because it implies participation and consent. Rape has neither. What is considered a 'rape fantasy' is more 'pushing the line on rough sex'.
While it's a shame he's gonna go to jail for this, he only has himself to blame.
... so you don't accidentally rape them?... :wtf:This is why I have a policy in place for meeting someone in public, first
... so you don't accidentally rape them?... :wtf:[/QUOTE]This is why I have a policy in place for meeting someone in public, first
... so you don't accidentally rape them?... :wtf:[/QUOTE]This is why I have a policy in place for meeting someone in public, first
... so you don't accidentally rape them?... :wtf:[/QUOTE]This is why I have a policy in place for meeting someone in public, first
... so you don't accidentally rape them?... :wtf:[/QUOTE]This is why I have a policy in place for meeting someone in public, first
... so you don't accidentally rape them?... :wtf:[/QUOTE]This is why I have a policy in place for meeting someone in public, first
... so you don't accidentally rape them?... :wtf:[/QUOTE]This is why I have a policy in place for meeting someone in public, first
... so you don't accidentally rape them?... :wtf:[/QUOTE]This is why I have a policy in place for meeting someone in public, first
... so you don't accidentally rape them?... :wtf:[/QUOTE]This is why I have a policy in place for meeting someone in public, first
... so you don't accidentally rape them?... :wtf:[/QUOTE]This is why I have a policy in place for meeting someone in public, first
Oh, I saw that, but I couldn't resist the wisecrack. So it goes.You guys are missing the key part of what he said
he did not say the girlfriend of THE marine he said girlfriend of A marine. as in a marine's girlfriend would be expected to own a gun. That was what I was asking about.
This chick needed a gun AND restraining order and possibly the guts to make a preemptive strike on that douchebag.
He meant that Marines are usually gun nuts and therefore own guns therefore their significant others also share this same interest. I will post that my cousin, a former Marine and someone who's quite knowledgeable about modern weapons, does not own a gun himself. I have a friend who's the ex wife of a marine; she does not own a gun. My wife's cousin's current girlfriend is the ex wife of a Marine. She does not own a gun. I've got two buddies and an ex girlfriend in the Air Force, none of them own guns. Being enlisted does not equal having to own a gun by some weird arbitrary logic.You guys are missing the key part of what he said
he did not say the girlfriend of THE marine he said girlfriend of A marine. as in a marine's girlfriend would be expected to own a gun. That was what I was asking about.
This chick needed a gun AND restraining order and possibly the guts to make a preemptive strike on that douchebag.
....Alright then.Hi, just to add something, not sure if it wasn't posted before.
I think the \\"actual rapist\\" should be charged with rape, even if at a lesser degree, I also think that the Marine should be charged with rape of his ex at highest degree possible (Wouldn't mind that much if it was bigger than the actual rapist).
Now this a new angle: The marine should be charged with \\"rape\\" of the actual rapist think about this, as far he is telling us, the guy never agreed with actually raping someone, so the marine tricked him in to commit a sex act without his consent, might not be the most common variation of rape, but still is a damn evil act, \\"actual rapist\\" life is now ruined because the marine manipulated him so. I am not, by any means, saying that the rapist is innocent, I am just saying that he can also considered a victim.
I am mostly telling this, because I really would like to see the marine to be sentenced as if he has raped both.
>.<
I am the female law student.....Alright then.
The thing is, the marine did not physical rape the woman in question. He cannot be charged with Rape in the First Degree. That requires him to have physically have done the act. As of the current statute, by causing Rape in the Third Person, the Marine would be liable to a fine of an unlimited amount, as well as a maximum sentence of 10 years in prison.
Now, obviously he is guilty of conspiracy to commit a criminal act as well, which as of United States V Shabani, adopts the common law principal wherein the fact that a conspiracy alone is proof of a criminal act, further compounded with the harm and damages done by the act in and of itself.
http://caselaw.lp.findlaw.com/scripts/getcase.pl?navby=case&court=us&vol=513&page=10
I'll get back to you on the specifics of the fines and terms of imprisonment associated with Conspiracy to commit a criminal act.
Also, with the idea of precedent...yes, going very lenient or letting off the hook the manipulated party could in fact create a viable defense for new defendants to argue the same. Difficult, but doable with a good lawyer and a scapegoat with a bad past/connections to the defendant. It's a shitty thing, but there are obvious cues as to when someone doesn't want a thing to continue or at all. Sexual arousal does not excuse that and is not grounds for incompetence. If he's charged with Rape in the First, that's again, an unlimited fine as well as a sentence of possible life imprisonment
...And yes, I am a 2nd year law student...AND A MALE. HOW THE HELL DID YOU THINK I WAS WOMAN?!
Like i said it is a kitchen sink charge, used when nothing else fits right. But frankly, charge him with whatever, charge him with it all! See what a jury can do with it. Nothing really just is going to happen in this situation, might as well do whatever can be done.Ah, sorry misread the earlier post :O
Honestly makare, I am going to assume conspiracy is going to be put on to the marine's charges to lengthen punishment, not the poor sap who raped the girl though. Prosecutors now a days have a habit of tossing what they can and seeing what sticks, at least in the stuff I've been forced to read (admittedly not as widespread as that statement may seem).
Would you be more comfortable slapping the marine with a variant of fraud?
I'm not talking about her, I'm talking about him. If he had set up a meeting, or wouldn't do it unless meeting somewhere first, then this wouldn't have happened because she wouldn't have shown up. It sure as hell would've helped HER case if he set up a meeting beforehand instead of just jumping right into it.While a good idea, unfortunately even if the woman in question here also had that policy, it wouldn't have helped her in this case.
of course I hear stories that sometimes a woman did "give it up" but later call "rape" cause she didn't like it.Give the most that you can to the both of them under the law. Peroid. One raped a woman, whether he thought it was a fantasy or not. The other set it up. whatever the law states these two fuckers can get, give it to them.