doomdragon6
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> Maintained absolutely no contact with my ex for about a month
> She e-mails me the other night asking if there will be "any problems" at our friends' wedding that we're both a part of
> Take offense, feel much better about moving on
> Don't respond yet
> Less than a full day later she sends another e-mail asking somewhat desperately if I got her last one
> Bwa ha ha. She's still desperate and thinking about me. All her meanness in the past is a mask!
> Respond. We go back and forth a bit. I start nice, but end up being a little cold and cut the conversation short.
> Feel bad and send a longer explanation and say that I think we probably shouldn't try to be super good friends just yet and that while we're healing, our wounds are still a bit fresh.
> She takes even more offense and says "I don't entirely understand. But ok. Whatever you want. See ya. Sorry."
> Feel worse because I thought my message was less dickish.
Well, I guess I effectively let her know I can't have her in my life right now, but I still feel like the bad guy here.
I would guess that despite everything she says, I'm still on her mind a lot. She doesn't seem to regret getting with her new guy, but she seems upset when I say chatting might not be a good idea? I dunno. Last time we talked I was still very much depressed and focused on her. Maybe she doesn't like not having me wrapped around her finger anymore?
Well anyway. I don't expect she'll e-mail me again anytime soon. But now I just feel bad. Feel like I hurt her more. Bah.
> She e-mails me the other night asking if there will be "any problems" at our friends' wedding that we're both a part of
> Take offense, feel much better about moving on
> Don't respond yet
> Less than a full day later she sends another e-mail asking somewhat desperately if I got her last one
> Bwa ha ha. She's still desperate and thinking about me. All her meanness in the past is a mask!
> Respond. We go back and forth a bit. I start nice, but end up being a little cold and cut the conversation short.
> Feel bad and send a longer explanation and say that I think we probably shouldn't try to be super good friends just yet and that while we're healing, our wounds are still a bit fresh.
> She takes even more offense and says "I don't entirely understand. But ok. Whatever you want. See ya. Sorry."
> Feel worse because I thought my message was less dickish.
Well, I guess I effectively let her know I can't have her in my life right now, but I still feel like the bad guy here.
I would guess that despite everything she says, I'm still on her mind a lot. She doesn't seem to regret getting with her new guy, but she seems upset when I say chatting might not be a good idea? I dunno. Last time we talked I was still very much depressed and focused on her. Maybe she doesn't like not having me wrapped around her finger anymore?
Well anyway. I don't expect she'll e-mail me again anytime soon. But now I just feel bad. Feel like I hurt her more. Bah.
