And it was!
Well, it was almost a disaster, but it ended up going really well.
So, the friend I've been hanging out a lot with that I mentioned in another thread called me up today and told me that she was bringing meat over and that I'm going to grill it for us. Ok, cool. I've been getting weird mixed signals and I'm completely confused about where our relationship is, if we're just friends or if something is progressing beyond that (our history is weird and muddled and at this point I just considered her a good friend). Sometimes she keeps wanting to get closer, sometimes she seems like she's pushing at me away and sometimes she flirts then gets really distant and I have no fucking clue what's going on. But grilling steaks, that's something I get, so right on, come over. I'll grill some meat and veggies.
So, she comes over at around 6 and I getagrillin'. We eat and we're chilling on my back patio just talking. Normal shit. She tells me it's a little hot outside and we should go in and watch TV or something. This is normal for her because she has lupus and has a hard time dealing with heat. So, we're watching True Blood and she lets me know that she's way too warm and that it's really beginning to mess with her (it was fuckin' hot today, like 30 C). I'm worried since lupus flare ups are no joke. She asks if she can take a shower, since that helps. I say sure, go ahead. She gets up, walks to my hallway, looks back at me and asks if I'm going to join her.
Well, that signal is not mixed.