This is why I hate this whole thing now. There are some of us that didn't give a shit that Zoe is a woman, and actually did care about all the unethical journalism bullshit, censorship, and politics that swarmed the beginning of this whole thing. We fucking yelled for the assholes giving out addresses and sending threats to stop being fucking retards.
I can't talk about it anymore though, because the minute I try I get called a sexist bigot with a agenda of preventing "inclusiveness", and then get lumped into jokes about rape and murder. Like I personally sent Zoe death threats, or support those that do.
But that's what you get when the whole thing is co-opted by the worst slime on both sides of the fence that now just want to sling poop at each other all day.
It really does suck to have your voice marginilized or co-opted by crazy people. Not having a strong voice in a community you care about, especially if there are problems that you feel hurt you (or the community), like the ethical problems you pointed out. And to stand up, as a marginalized voice, only to be unfairly compared to a rapist/murderer is even worse.
That really sucks, truly. No sarcasm.
However, do you know what sucks worse than being marginilized and compared to a rapist for having a voice? Being marginilized and threatened with rape or murder. And this is what the women are having to deal with, and have had to deal with far longer than us.
This isn't a point on victim Olympics, this is about recognizing and using a learning moment for men. Take your feelings of marginalization and voicelessness and use that to create an empathic template for understanding women in this situation.
Also, recognize how being marginilized makes you angry. It makes me angry. It makes anyone angry. And if I am marginilized hard enough, long enough, maybe I am more willing to listen to a less than reasonable voice defending my position. Maybe, if I've been pushed around enough, I start preferring the Malcom X to the MLK. Maybe I start letting my own views get a little more extreme, and over the top. Maybe I make mistakes, like Sarkeesian and the SJW tumblerinas do.
I think it would be a positive if we, the traditionally privileged, could use this event to develop a deeper understanding of the traditionally marginilized position.
KUMBAYA MY LORD, KUMBAYA....[DOUBLEPOST=1414416309,1414416201][/DOUBLEPOST]Also, fwiw, I'm not really talking about you in particular. I think a lot of us share your feelings, and I thought your comments were a good jumping off point for talking about the deeper significance that may be there.