American exceptionalism means that we don’t even try to stop them and just keep on suffering massacres.
This statement, from my perspective, is not logically true.
We are working on them, in many fronts,
Just because we haven’t made progress on the front you want to attack doesn’t mean that we aren’t trying to stop them.
Just because we keep having them doesn’t mean that they are acceptable losses.
They are, however, a very effective lever and people will use them to emotionally manipulate others into behaving a certain way. If it wasn’t gun control they’d be using the massacres as leverage for some other goal.
This is why we all talk about it and work on it together, and why we vote. You may have the solution, and if everyone in the US was exactly like you with your needs, experiences, and emotions, then we’d move in your direction.
But we are diverse and we must accept that because you and I have different needs and experiences we may want to attempt different solutions, and sometimes our individual solutions cannot be enacted without taking rights from another, and we must set those solutions aside or compromise.
I’m sure I could find someone who would gladly make abortion Illegal if it also made guns illegal, both by constitutional amendment. But I doubt this could be done because many people wouldn’t be willing to make that trade, and at this point both would have to be done by constitutional amendment.
So we both have to work on other aspects of each - providing better mental health services, locking the schools down a bit more, active shooter training, better women’s healthcare, better adoption options, better sex education, more available birth control, etc.
Getting rid of guns or even controlling their distribution, like getting rid of abortion or controlling the timing, is simply a non starter.
The question is: where are you going to spend your lobbying voice, time, resources, votes? If it’s towards an impossible change, it’s probably wasted.