Whine like a baby, now with 500% more drama!
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GasBandit
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Absolutely speak up if you need help.
Fucking hell. Woke up in the middle of the night and I haven't been able to back to sleep.
Sorry, dude. I had an eye exam recently, too. First one since I was 12 years old. They only confirmed what I already knew: I'd need reading glasses going forward.
I also learned my funny tick of crying when it's cold is actually not so funny. It's a sign of dry eyes and my tear ducts overcompensating. So I have a prescription for eye drops now.
Getting old sucks.
I have myopia, especially in my right eye.
Edit: And reading my prescription, the reason my right eye is worse is because it also has astigmatism. yay.
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If it makes you feel better, I've been dealing with a similar condition. But my problem is that my tear ducts have collapsed. Yes, there is a surgery for it, but I dunno if the side effects make it worth it.
Dave
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Reading glasses? AMATEUR! I have three pairs. A normal pair for driving & stuff - bifocals - a pair for just being at the computer, and a pair that I use when I work since they have to be safety rated.
Reading glasses. Pfft.
I know having glasses for the first time sucks, but you are by no means alone, @Cheesy1 . I would say, in fact, that I know more people who have glasses than don't. Plus it's just part of getting older.
Reading glasses. Pfft.
I know having glasses for the first time sucks, but you are by no means alone, @Cheesy1 . I would say, in fact, that I know more people who have glasses than don't. Plus it's just part of getting older.
I am there with you. I have astigmatism and need bifocals. Driving at night sucks.
Had lasik in one eye, wear a lens in the other one; I currently wear lenses that are slightly stronger than my actual prescription to help counter the astigmatism but it's not keeping up. Next eye doctor appointment in January and I expect I'll be either wearing 2 lenses or glasses again. *sigh*
I just got home from a first date. I think it went well overall, but...I get the feeling she won't be interested in a second date.
I've realized something about myself recently: I don't feel like an adult. I've joked about it for years, saying I'm [insert current age] going on 4 or some nonsense like that. I used to pride myself on being a big, playful goofball. But lately, that's feeling more and more like a detriment. If I'm in a room full of fellow adults close to my age, I don't feel like I can relate with them at all. More often than not, I relate more with the kids or young adults, largely because I can talk to them about various nerd stuff or TV shows or video games. Even when I volunteer at Kidical Mass, I never feel like I'm equal with the adults who are all married and with kids.
This past year, I've been trying to date women closer to my age. I've realized the majority of my dating over the years has been with women younger than me (my last major ex was in her mid-20s, while I'm in my 40s). As I'm meeting these women, it feels like there's this gap, as if I'm still mentally and emotionally still in my 20s, if I'm lucky. I never feel like the adult in a room full of adults.
And I...really don't know what to do about it. I don't know if therapy can help with that. How can therapy help someone become more emotionally mature? I don't know. I'm still stuck in the mindset that I'm just going to die alone. It's probably better I live a life alone, instead.
I've realized something about myself recently: I don't feel like an adult. I've joked about it for years, saying I'm [insert current age] going on 4 or some nonsense like that. I used to pride myself on being a big, playful goofball. But lately, that's feeling more and more like a detriment. If I'm in a room full of fellow adults close to my age, I don't feel like I can relate with them at all. More often than not, I relate more with the kids or young adults, largely because I can talk to them about various nerd stuff or TV shows or video games. Even when I volunteer at Kidical Mass, I never feel like I'm equal with the adults who are all married and with kids.
This past year, I've been trying to date women closer to my age. I've realized the majority of my dating over the years has been with women younger than me (my last major ex was in her mid-20s, while I'm in my 40s). As I'm meeting these women, it feels like there's this gap, as if I'm still mentally and emotionally still in my 20s, if I'm lucky. I never feel like the adult in a room full of adults.
And I...really don't know what to do about it. I don't know if therapy can help with that. How can therapy help someone become more emotionally mature? I don't know. I'm still stuck in the mindset that I'm just going to die alone. It's probably better I live a life alone, instead.
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I'm having a hard time figuring out why having a more immature/innocent outlook on life would be considered a bad thing. Having fun in a relationship should always be more important than bragging about how successful you are or what school you went to. But then perhaps I am biased.
I know there are people who look at a dog who comes up to them with a toy in its mouth and irritatedly ask it, "And just what are you expecting me to do with that?" and these people just do not deserve dogs. In an ideal world, that dog would just ignore that person for the rest of its life.
--Patrick
I know there are people who look at a dog who comes up to them with a toy in its mouth and irritatedly ask it, "And just what are you expecting me to do with that?" and these people just do not deserve dogs. In an ideal world, that dog would just ignore that person for the rest of its life.
--Patrick