how many sexual partners?

how many sexual partners?

  • 0

    Votes: 19 15.7%
  • 1

    Votes: 32 26.4%
  • 2-5

    Votes: 38 31.4%
  • 6-10

    Votes: 10 8.3%
  • 11+

    Votes: 22 18.2%

  • Total voters
    121
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Cajungal

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For the record, I have never had an STD even given the large number of partners. If you're safe, the odds of getting one are very slim.
That's great. :) I have a friend that I worry about a bit. She's had multiple partners, can NEVER tell a guy no, and refuses to use condoms because they feel weird... which they do, but I don't want her to catch anything. :\
 
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TotalFusionOne

That's great. :) I have a friend that I worry about a bit. She's had multiple partners, can NEVER tell a guy no, and refuses to use condoms because they feel weird... which they do, but I don't want her to catch anything. :\

Errr... I could give her a talking to if you'd like. Where's she live? ;D
 
For the record, I have never had an STD even given the large number of partners. If you're safe, the odds of getting one are very slim.
That's great. :) I have a friend that I worry about a bit. She's had multiple partners, can NEVER tell a guy no, and refuses to use condoms because they feel weird... which they do, but I don't want her to catch anything. :\[/QUOTE]

ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS use protection when engaging in sex with someone that you don't know for a fact is clean. I mean blood tests and all.

As the AIDS epidemic shock of the 80s and 90s is wearing off, people seem to be engaging in risky sexual behavior much more often nowadays. It's really scarry what I hear people say about unsafe sex.

Also, let your friend know that getting pregnant isn't the worst thing that can happen from unprotected sex. You can live through an unwanted pregnancy, you can't live through some diseases.
 

Cajungal

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I tried to tell her that, Bowie, but she won't listen. She even told me she doesn't like sex, she just hates disappointing her boyfriends. That's pretty much how she got pregnant in the first place. :\ I hope she's changed her tune. We haven't spoken about it in a long time, But believe me, I've tried to convince her to be safe for years.
 
Sounds like your friend needs some counciling.

I'm being deadly serious on that. Self esteem issues that bad really need to be addressed and can lead to all sorts of self destructive behavior.
 
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TotalFusionOne

CG I'M GETTING BLUE BALLS OVER HERE HELP A BROTHA OUT or at least play me a song :\ We'll Meet Again? or I Believe I can Fly ala Me First and the Gimmie Gimmies?
 

BananaHands

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I tried to tell her that, Bowie, but she won't listen. She even told me she doesn't like sex, she just hates disappointing her boyfriends. That's pretty much how she got pregnant in the first place. :\ I hope she's changed her tune. We haven't spoken about it in a long time, But believe me, I've tried to convince her to be safe for years.
Your friend's situation reminds me of this song:

 

Cajungal

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Sounds like your friend needs some counciling.

I'm being deadly serious on that. Self esteem issues that bad really need to be addressed and can lead to all sorts of self destructive behavior.
She does need counseling. That's actually why we barely speak anymore. she often joked about me being her "therapist," and finally I told her to see a real one who could actually help her. She's a sweet person with many good qualities, but she's always had issues like that. Her mom didn't help. She was always telling her at a young age how to dress to attract men and how much better she'd look if she lost more weight...

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CG I'M GETTING BLUE BALLS OVER HERE HELP A BROTHA OUT or at least play me a song :\ We'll Meet Again? or I Believe I can Fly ala Me First and the Gimmie Gimmies?
They're right there in my thread, you goober. Watch em, just don't tell me what you do with em.
 
The average for single males here is around 1 new partner a month... give or take. That's 12 a year.
I just don't see myself ever being able to do that, sure I haven't had sex yet so my viewpoint may change after.

I view sex as a very emotional intimate thing and I couldn't just go find a random girl every month and fuck her. But hell maybe after I get some I will become some sex crazed maniac like kamehameha.
 

ElJuski

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I view sex as a very emotional intimate thing and I couldn't just go find a random girl every month and fuck her. But hell maybe after I get some I will become some sex crazed maniac like kamehameha.
Your post drips with desperation. It's delicious.

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so, what do you all like to do in bed?

or anywhere it happens to happen?
There's a thread somewhere that needs a bump
 
Well, my reasons for not exactly being a manwhore are entirely due to my being a chubby nerd until my mid 20's and being in nothing but long term relationships since grade 10 so nyah!
 
Well, my reasons for not exactly being a manwhore are entirely due to my being a chubby nerd until my mid 20's
^This... And I'm in my mid 20 :p

Also, I have trouble speaking to people, and creating an intimate relationship with people I talk to, so I have everything ready to cockblock myself...

EDIT: I mean, I like all kinds of women, and some kinds of men, so I think finding a partner I like shouldn't be a problem...
 
I'm sure my number could have been a lot higher, but I got a late start in high school, then met my wife-to-be when I was 20. That's 15 years of man-whoring I missed out on. I'm sure I can convince her she owes me birthday hookers, right?
 
By the poll options, I am a complete slut.

24, statistically more than one a year for each year that I've been sexually active. Then add that 5 year stretch in my 30's where I did not get any.

Half that number occurred during my years in college.
 
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Armadillo

I have all kinds of women friends who love to flirt with me, hug me, and all that good stuff, but they won't sleep with me. It's frustrating as hell.



They all say it's because I'm married. Fuckin' prudes.
 
I have all kinds of women friends who love to flirt with me, hug me, and all that good stuff, but they won't sleep with me. It's frustrating as hell.



They all say it's because I'm married. Fuckin' prudes.
By your first sentence I was going to reply with... "Welcome to the nice guy club." then you pull that carpet out from under me.
 
It looks like a decent bell curve distribution except for 6-10. 6-10 is seriously lacking numbers. It's like once you screw 6 people, you say "fuck it, I know I'm slutty" and jump straight to 11+
 
All of the following is SeriousJay, personal opinion.


Getting "laid" isn't hard. Getting sex from the same person multiple times is the trick.

If you got breasts in general it isn't hard. Women (who aren't exceeding fugly or fat) can get sex pretty much whenever, wherever they want and usually with little to no effort. Usually, it’s this very mentality that makes them poor lays and they don’t get “call-backs”. Shamelessly, I’ll admit to have had more than say… 20-25 sexual partners (when I mean sexual, I don’t mean standing idiotically on bases, I only crit home-runs) and ¾ of them have been mediocre to poor lays. The better looking they are, they worst they are in the sack. The hottest I’ve been with has been the worst in the sack. Unlike UPS, gorgeous women don’t deliver. They best by far have been average to cute looking girls with nice assets who work it and make the experience memorable.
 
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Armadillo

I have all kinds of women friends who love to flirt with me, hug me, and all that good stuff, but they won't sleep with me. It's frustrating as hell.



They all say it's because I'm married. Fuckin' prudes.
By your first sentence I was going to reply with... "Welcome to the nice guy club." then you pull that carpet out from under me.[/QUOTE]

Would it change your opinion if I casually mentioned that my wife would ALSO want to sleep with them? Eh heh heh heh heh...
 

BananaHands

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I have all kinds of women friends who love to flirt with me, hug me, and all that good stuff, but they won't sleep with me. It's frustrating as hell.



They all say it's because I'm married. Fuckin' prudes.
By your first sentence I was going to reply with... "Welcome to the nice guy club." then you pull that carpet out from under me.[/QUOTE]

Would it change your opinion if I casually mentioned that my wife would ALSO want to sleep with them? Eh heh heh heh heh...[/QUOTE]

It would make me want to give you a high-five.
 
Luckily, though I've been monogamous these past 15 years, I seem to choose close female friends who whip out their boobs at the slightest pretense. It helps to ease the pain.
 
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Armadillo

Luckily, though I've been monogamous these past 15 years, I seem to choose close female friends who whip out their boobs at the slightest pretense. It helps to ease the pain.
I have a similar situation, and MAN, does it depend on the boobs. A couple of them I'd gladly pay to see, and a couple I'd gladly pay to keep those things hidden.

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I have all kinds of women friends who love to flirt with me, hug me, and all that good stuff, but they won't sleep with me. It's frustrating as hell.



They all say it's because I'm married. Fuckin' prudes.
By your first sentence I was going to reply with... "Welcome to the nice guy club." then you pull that carpet out from under me.[/QUOTE]

Would it change your opinion if I casually mentioned that my wife would ALSO want to sleep with them? Eh heh heh heh heh...[/QUOTE]

It would make me want to give you a high-five.[/QUOTE]

 
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TotalFusionOne

Would it change your opinion if I casually mentioned that my wife would ALSO want to sleep with them? Eh heh heh heh heh...
Welcome to my world. My girlfriends always want to hear who I'm sleeping with :\ It actually gets a little tiring.

I am sad that I didn't celebrate 42 better
Had a kid with 20. 50 was jailbait. And 75 was on a pinic table in a park in the middle of a storm. I'm pretty much on target.
 
Yes, that should have been a geek fest celebration!!

I should like write them down or something, I don't keep count until someone asks me and I have to go back and count in my head. Stupid system robbed me of my 42 celebration :(


(i am kidding, sensitive people)
 
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TotalFusionOne

^ THIS.

I hate that shit. I would have loved to have done something for 42 and 37.
 
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Armadillo

Would it change your opinion if I casually mentioned that my wife would ALSO want to sleep with them? Eh heh heh heh heh...
Welcome to my world. My girlfriends always want to hear who I'm sleeping with :\ It actually gets a little tiring.
No it doesn't. I never get tired of instantly becoming King Awesome whenever I bring up that little nugget.
 
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TotalFusionOne

Would it change your opinion if I casually mentioned that my wife would ALSO want to sleep with them? Eh heh heh heh heh...
Welcome to my world. My girlfriends always want to hear who I'm sleeping with :\ It actually gets a little tiring.
No it doesn't. I never get tired of instantly becoming King Awesome whenever I bring up that little nugget.[/QUOTE]

Really? Really. I thought it would be this awesome at first... But I'm only four month in and I'm thinking "When can we just be us?"
 
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Armadillo

Would it change your opinion if I casually mentioned that my wife would ALSO want to sleep with them? Eh heh heh heh heh...
Welcome to my world. My girlfriends always want to hear who I'm sleeping with :\ It actually gets a little tiring.
No it doesn't. I never get tired of instantly becoming King Awesome whenever I bring up that little nugget.[/QUOTE]

Really? Really. I thought it would be this awesome at first... But I'm only four month in and I'm thinking "When can we just be us?"[/QUOTE]

Ah...see, I've got "us." I've been married for eight years, and we're rock-solid. I can see how it would get tiring if your primary relationship isn't cemented yet.
 
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