Video games are being blame for high rate of divorce?

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Some people will blame anything they can for any failing they have, rather than take an ounce of responsibility for themselves or their actions. It's sad, but it's true.
 
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Chibibar

I post this on my facebook.

If your spouse wants to play more than spending time with YOU, then there might be some underlying issue going on. My wife and I play games. Sometimes we play days on end, and sometimes we play together. We do set aside some "alone time" since we work together (same office) we carpool, we eat together and of course live in the same house.

We communicate with each other a lot (it is about 30-40min commute to work together each way) so we don't let video games "split" our marriage.
 

figmentPez

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I post this on my facebook.
Speaking of which, I thought that Facebook was the reason for the high divorce rate.

Well, that and:
televisions in the bedroom
teh Takei
Hollywood and Madison Ave promoting unrealistic standards of beauty
no fault divorces
internet _____ (porn, dating sites, forums, etc.)
 

GasBandit

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I blame the institution of marriage itself for the high rate of divorce. Marriage is an unnatural, archaid, artificial social construct.
 
Why blame video games? Why not go after the true culprit, WORLD OF WAAAAAAARCRAFT.

Not really, but I do know a couple that divorced because SHE would not stop playing, lost her job, etc.

Edit: I obviously did not click the link before posting this. I see now that they are laying the blame squarely in Blizzard's lap.
 
Well, in Jay's defense you do sound like a bitter old curmudgeon. Then again, I'm pretty sure you are a bitter old curmudgeon.
 

GasBandit

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Well, in Jay's defense you do sound like a bitter old curmudgeon. Then again, I'm pretty sure you are a bitter old curmudgeon.
Not that I'm NOT a bitter old curmudgeon, but I don't think this particular argument is one that bitter old curmudgeons are prone to make. If I was going for curmudgeonly, I would have probably blamed "the MTV" or "the kids and their music these days" or parenting or some such. The culture cheapening what used to be an ironclad lifetime commitment or whatever.

But that's not what I believe. I believe that marriage is an archaic social construct from a period in which women were no more than property and monogamy was perpetuated by unworthy males fearful of alphas monopolizing all the breeding. Really, if I had to criticize my own position, I'd be more apt to say it sounds something some smelly Berkeley hippy feminazi might espouse.
 
Just like large amounts of any chemical can cause death, even water, too much of an activity can cause the death of a relationship. My own experiences are proof of that enough, and they revolved around WoW as well. It's not rocket science, and i don't blame Blizzard for it, but humanity in general is becoming stupider and sometimes needs to be reminded of this obviousness.
 
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Not really...video games must never bear the burden of the high rate of divorce happening everywhere. Why don't we blame the couples themselves who fail to live up to the challenges of a married life. Marriage is not for the coward and the unprepared. Marriage is a serious matter to get into.
 
Not really...video games must never bear the burden of the high rate of divorce happening everywhere. Why don't we blame the couples themselves who fail to live up to the challenges of a married life. Marriage is not for the coward and the unprepared. Marriage is a serious matter to get into.
Why do you write like you're answering a question on an SAT exam?
 
Not really...video games must never bear the burden of the high rate of divorce happening everywhere. Why don't we blame the couples themselves who fail to live up to the challenges of a married life. Marriage is not for the coward and the unprepared. Marriage is a serious matter to get into.
Spoken like a true unmarried person. Marriage isn't some kind of magic lasso that binds two people together. It requires a lot of work, a lot of time and a lot of conscious effort to succeed at. But that's no different than any other relationship, whether it's boss -> employee or parent -> child. Marriage has always been for the unprepared, and it's only through the tempering of that relationship through time and hardship that familial steel is produced.

Divorce rates have actually been dropping to their lowest level since 1970. And 40 years ago, if George smacked Sally for not having dinner ready when he got home from work, no one would bat an eye. Would you say that Sally was "failing to live up to the challenge of a married life"?
 
I always wondered why the "Defense of Mawwage Act" did not ban Divorce...
Surprisingly, the areas of the country where divorce rates are lowest are the blue states, which include any state leaning towards the Democratic ticket, while red states, which lean towards the Republican ticket, have the highest divorce rate. For example, Kentucky, Mississippi and Arkansas, voted overwhelmingly for constitutional amendments to ban gay marriage, but those three states had the highest divorce rates in 2003, based on figures from the Census Bureau and the National Center for Health Statistics. In one of the reports from the same group, a survey of 7,043 people stated that residents of the Northeast and West are commonly noted for their more liberal leanings in politics and lifestyle. However, the region of the nation in which divorce was least likely was the Northeast. The state with the lowest divorce rate was Massachusetts. In 2003 the rate in Massachusetts was 5.7 divorces per 1,000 married people compared with 10.8 in Kentucky, 11.1 in Mississippi and 12.7 in Arkansas.
 
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AmazingP

Spoken like a true unmarried person. Marriage isn't some kind of magic lasso that binds two people together. It requires a lot of work, a lot of time and a lot of conscious effort to succeed at. But that's no different than any other relationship, whether it's boss -> employee or parent -> child. Marriage has always been for the unprepared, and it's only through the tempering of that relationship through time and hardship that familial steel is produced.

Divorce rates have actually been dropping to their lowest level since 1970. And 40 years ago, if George smacked Sally for not having dinner ready when he got home from work, no one would bat an eye. Would you say that Sally was "failing to live up to the challenge of a married life"?
Are you a psychic then? I have been married for 5 years already with 3 kids -- 2 girls and 1 boy. Your viewpoint of marriage and divorce might be a little different from the way we view it here in my country. I am not based in USA. When we don't own responsibility, that's when society will get upside down. Being responsible does not mean living your life with guilt, it just means that you are willing to correct mistakes and if not possible then accept that you are also a human being definitely not perfect.
 
Are you a psychic then? I have been married for 5 years already with 3 kids -- 2 girls and 1 boy. Your viewpoint of marriage and divorce might be a little different from the way we view it here in my country. I am not based in USA. When we don't own responsibility, that's when society will get upside down. Being responsible does not mean living your life with guilt, it just means that you are willing to correct mistakes and if not possible then accept that you are also a human being definitely not perfect.
Do you live in whatever country we outsource fortune cookie writing and hallmark cards to?
 
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AmazingP

Do you live in whatever country we outsource fortune cookie writing and hallmark cards to?
What about you? Do you live in a country already cursed by nature because it is so ungrateful for all the blessings it received thru the centuries? A country whose people are not really happy with all the abundance it got?

Be thankful that you live in a prosperous country and don't mind people who are not of the skin color as you have.
 
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Fantastic post.
I agree, it's delicious.

What about you? Do you live in a country already cursed by nature because it is so ungrateful for all the blessings it received thru the centuries? A country whose people are not really happy with all the abundance it got?

Be thankful that you live in a prosperous country and don't mind people who are not of the skin color as you have.
I'm sorry, I can't hear you over all the imperialism and oppression I'm creating.

'Merica! Fuck yeah!
 
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