Since you're being so helpful Chibi, and know the abilities a bit better, what kind of template should I be looking at for in a \"crowd control, charm commanding with slight dps\" Witch (wizard)?
Hmmm.. Pure Wizard can do pretty much all of that. The only difference is race. Since you are using free account, I would say human for the extra feat. the reason I chose wizard mainly it will give you the freedom to switch out your spells on the fly and EASIER to play than a sorcerer. Sorcerer DOES have faster casting speed and more mana BUT you can only switch one spell per 3 days which can get fustrating. Once you find the spells you like, I would let you decide which one you want to keep.
Starting spells (your 7)
Charm Person (works on kobolds and many humanoid creature, but not undead)
hynotism (this is just great everyone just stop and I'll get to you in a moment spell)
feather fall (this is handy at misery's peak but remember it is 1 target per caster's level)
you can choose your own attack spells like
summon monster I - this is a great spell to have another target for them to chase
niac's cold ray - this is an awesome spell to use to fight with
burning hand/acid spray - your choice, this is cone base attack spell. This is GREAT when you have a fighter tanking everything and you just burn/acid them all at once
good times.
magic missile is nice in the future since they always hit (but can resist via spell resistance but that can be overcome in higher levels)
another class to think about is Bard. They are good Crowd control via songs AND spells (you get 3 song usage to start) later have great party buffs which are insane. They are CHA base and have a tons of skills to choose from. they can also cast charm spells and such but their magic is mix with divine and arcane.
Both classes above is better to be pure for most effectiveness, but if you want to splash a little rogue in (for the skills and evasion) it won't hurt since both would need high int (bard use cha also)
Races:
Human is best to get extra feat (3 in all for a wizard) I would suggest get extend and enlarge if you are planning to just crowd control ALOT. It does suck up the good ol mana since it cost +20 for both, but it is awesome when casting hypnotism. (they are activate feats) I would say toughness is another to take. Don't take mental toughness, you get a little boost in your mana but in the long run you need HP to survive since con might be dinged for points spend in int or cha (which ever you play)
Elf - you would get only 2 feats, but do get immunities like charm and sleep. This is handy plus bonus to dex (good since you will be wearing robes)
halfling is good
Warforge (paid) is good for a mage. You just need to pick up "Repair light" spell and guess what? self heal!!!
it is awesome. If we have all warforge party, at higher level there are AoE version of this spell. They have tons of immunities (paralyze, poison, disease, energy drain) good stuff. but it is paid can be purchase via Turbine point or VIP sub.
Drow - this is essentially 32 point built in character. It is unlockable with 400 favor (which most people can get it when they hit around 7-8 level. They have good stats and good for bard or wizard and other classes. You can also buy this via turbine point.
http://ddowiki.com/page/Races - gives you an idea.
Stats
If you are going pure wizard, I would say either 16 or 18 Int. if you planning to splash in some other classes you might need some stats for that too.
main stats to think about
int - this is your mana pool AND how effective your spells. 18 is good if you are going pure.
Con - hp = good. (12 or 14)
Dex - you need this for dex bonus on armor and reflext save (12 at least for +1)
will - this is good for will base save spells (12 at least for a +1)
Cha - this is optional if you want to use diplomacy. It is a skill to tell the mob, "hey attack someone else" they can fail the check and randomly attack someone else... once every 6 second (activate skill not passive)
Str = this is essentially your "dump" stat, but remember, you need at least 10 str so you can carry all that loot you get from runs
having 8 str sucks.