I called her today, and was so shocked to hear her describing him as an arrogant, incompetent buffoon. I would have never imagined her having that opinion, no matter what stupid shit he's done. I think him and the repubs are very much underestimating how people are viewing his handling of this crisis. Every day supporters--not the super vocal magatards that get all the news.
I have noticed a change too. Not to that level, but more subtle. Usually when I picked up my kids from my mothers house, my mom and step-dad would be watching Judge Judy, or once that was over, Fox News. My step-dad was fully on the CV is a hoax train when it first appeared, and my mother mostly just followed along with him.
As things dragged out my mother seemed scared to have the kids over, and would always go to the store wearing a mask and carrying hand sanitizer. They stopped really talking about it at all other then to make sure I watched the kids so they didn't bring the virus with them to their house. The last two times I picked up the kids, the TV has been off, something that I have to stress is VERY WEIRD for my mother and step-father. This was a week after my mother argued with me that the numbers were likely inflated, which I countered by saying if we can't trust the official numbers given by Trump, then I can just as easily say they are being under-reported, and if she really wanted to go down that discussion. She gave up instantly.
I know in the end they will likely still vote for him, because I can't see either of them ever voting for Biden, but it's been weird seeing them so deflated these last few weeks.