It's the same concept behind finding out Lindsey Graham allegedly hires callboys. Shaming him for using prostitutes, or for being in the closet is just a slap in the face to people who are gay, or do work in prostitution. You are attacking them as much as you are attacking the person you intend to attack. Attack their actions, not their traits. Unless you are attacking their evilness, which is fine.
Much like slut shaming is enforcing a double standard that it's ok for men to sleep around, but if a woman doesn't dedicate herself to one man, she's less of a person.
Much like slut shaming is enforcing a double standard that it's ok for men to sleep around, but if a woman doesn't dedicate herself to one man, she's less of a person.