North_Ranger
Staff member
Touché.View attachment 6462
Also, NR, I have no intention or responsibility to treat someone who uses gay in the pejorative nicely.
Touché.View attachment 6462
Also, NR, I have no intention or responsibility to treat someone who uses gay in the pejorative nicely.
Too true. Most laughable example I've ever heard: "Your mother is gay." *eyeroll*Sounds like typical teen speak.
Not saying that is all right, quite the opposite. I just know that's how teen boys talk...with very little thought to what they are actually saying.
Leviticus states that crustaceans are an abomination.... kinda like homosexuality.... If one is no longer a big deal, why is the other so bad too?Oh HELL no, you honey-sucking kodiak! You did not just bring shrimp into the argument! They're worse than lobster, having to crack open the shells and shit.
Shrimp is bad and you should feel bad for liking it!
Pfft.Oh HELL no, you honey-sucking kodiak! You did not just bring shrimp into the argument! They're worse than lobster, having to crack open the shells and shit.
Shrimp is bad and you should feel bad for liking it!
In that case the word has changed. I had never known it to be used as a derogatory until that whole campaign started and I believe I can say the same of the rest of my `class`.This is a generational thing. The current "foolish or dumb" usage evolved from using it as an insult. IE, you're so gay, being gay is a horrible thing, therefore calling you gay means that you are inferior. It is the same way that retarded developed as a descriptor.
That's still no excuse to sound like an ignorant douchebag, but this boy entertains me, so this one, I keep. Besides, it might be one of Yoshi's buddies, so we can find out how Yoshi is doing.Sending him a PM. Don't go all nuclear on the guy. I am around a lot of teens with my daughter in high school and this is just how they talk. I'd be willing to bet that this person is not homophobic and would probably be mortified at our reactions. But I'll find out.
if we had a kid, ours would respond with "which one?"Too true. Most laughable example I've ever heard: "Your mother is gay." *eyeroll*
I think everyone's just trying to say this kid doesn't have this filter yet, and doesn't have the understanding the rest of us do. For him, the etymological root of fag is as obscure as imbecile is to us. No one is saying you should 'take it,' they are saying it is better to adopt the charitible interpretation that he doesn't know, than it is to take offense. Nobody here is going to back up homophobic slurs or play down the fact that such things are used to bash and marginalise gay people.I for the same reason try to avoid the word retarded in the pejorative. I don't always succeed, but I try.
Yeah, people who use exaggerations to defend a point say some pretty stupid stuff, I agree."No, it's okay, he didn't literally mean fag as "a subhuman homosexual worse than a heterosexual", so it's alright"
Oh, we've missed you."no, it's okay, he didn't literally mean fag as "a subhuman homosexual worse than a heterosexual", so it's alright" - an idiot
West Philadelphia, born and raised.What part of Africa America are they from?
Dude, we're backing you up here in that it's not a good thing to say. What I'm saying is that the person in question did not necessarily mean it as you took it. I'm trying to bring a little calm to the situation. The dialogue may be what keeps him from using it in the future as he may not have realized the seriousness of the pejorative. We have always here been very tolerant of our LGBT brothers and sisters and that's not going to change. But before we go all pitchforks on the guy we need to show him understanding as well. If it turns out he is a homophobe I'll grab a fork and be right there with ya. Until then he's just a high school kid talking like a high school kid.I think it's time for a little vacation from the boards before I go truely nuclear.