I'm not sure if I call this a victory, but it's something and I want to tell somebody.
So recently, after being single for 7 months now and finally out of my depression and into a much happier, more confident state of mind, along with working out a lot and changing my look a bit, I'm getting some decent female attention.
I went on a date with one girl, mentioned here before, and she messaged me later for more possible dates.
I'm basically dating another girl (but we're not official/exclusive yet) and things are going well there.
I've been complimented by several female friends, which is cool, BUT
Here's what my post is actually about--
One of my good female friends, who is dating someone, started texting me from across the table at a friendly get-together sort of thing while we were all drinking, basically being like "If I were single I'd really want to make out with you." I, in my mildy drunken but intrigued state, sent back, "Well, I hate that you're not single then!" She was like, "Wait.. so you wouldn't be against that?" to which I responded, "I would be so for that, jesus christ." It kind of went from there and ended with a "... Let's talk later."
Which ended up with making out a bunch.
After an initial bit of making-out, she just says, "I have been wanting to do that for MONTHS," which completely took me by surprise, so I was like, "Really? Why?" to which she responded, "Because you're funny, and fun, and so god damn attractive."
So, again, completely taken by surprise and quite frankly very flattering. I've never gotten anything close to that kind of attention, especially latent urges that tempt a girl to cheat on her boyfriend.
We talked a bit and established that it was a one-time thing, just some fun, that it helped her figure some stuff out, that kind of stuff.
So again, it's not a victory per se, but I got to make out with one of my very attractive friends, got a huge ego boost, and yeah. She did make it very clear that she wanted to do a lot more but just couldn't, which is GOOD AND THAT SHOULDN'T HAVE HAPPENED, but my guy brain is just like, ".... Damn it!"