Some folks at work were making Cannabis jokes. Medical is not legal here in the KY state and I can't stand the smell. So edibles/oils of quality won't be on the table when that time comes around.
How long and what was your downtime?Cataracts suck, especially at a young age.
But cataract surgery was probably the fastest and easiest procedure I've ever had done. The weirdest part was seeing everything with a red haze in that eye for a few days.
Surgery itself lasted 15 minutes or so. The worst part was getting the shot in the eye cavity to numb the eye. It's a local, so you can get up and immediately resume your life, though you might wanna have someone drive you.How long and what was your downtime?
Meanwhile, since I'm a redhead, they always just assume that's the case for me.Surgery itself lasted 15 minutes or so. The worst part was getting the shot in the eye cavity to numb the eye. It's a local, so you can get up and immediately resume your life, though you might wanna have someone drive you.
My downtime was atypical because I'm highly resistant to anesthesia. I only had to wear the gauze and plastic dome over my eye for 30 minutes, because I could already blink again before she was done with the surgery. Typically, you have to wear it for 6 hours until you get enough movement back in your eye/eyelid to be able to blink and clear your eye of any potential debris.
I was worried about the anesthesia, but the doc told me that they do it in some countries without any drugs at all, so I figured I'd be ok.
(so, side note: No doctor ever believes me when I say numbing drugs only last a few minutes on me. Twilight drugs don't work at all. They always think I'm trying to get extra doses--but extra doses don't help me once I've over-produced whatever enzymes my body uses to break down the drugs. Cataract surgery was no different. Immediately after surgery, when she went to tape the gauze over my eye, I blinked out of reflex. She totally lit into the anesthesiologist about why I was able to do that. He said "He said he was resistant to anesthesia," and shrugged as if to say "wtf am I supposed to do about it?")
Will that make @GasBandit all hot and bothered or just confuse him?Maybe Tin needs to dye his hair red prior to any visits?
—Patrick
yesWill that make @GasBandit all hot and bothered or just confuse him?
It will inform him that any anaesthesia plans should be discarded.Will that make @GasBandit all hot and bothered or just confuse him?
Will that make @GasBandit all hot and bothered or just confuse him?
I don't think the pop culture thing is really an issue. You're telling your story; worrying about how others would tell it isn't productive.I tried working on my memoir tonight for the first time in ages. For the record, it's a memoir about my long-time, ongoing battles with depression. Before I stopped working on it, I had about 15,000 words. And I just...I just can't. The writing itself isn't terrible, I guess, but I have no clue what to actually do with it in terms of the overall big picture.
I can't figure out how to break down the story or the chapters, or how everything works. I thought I'd try brainstorming it using a program for such a process, but I only got as far as one brainstorm bubble for the character names. Even the format I started with feels forced or maybe I'm trying to do too much with it.
I just don't know what to do with this thing. It feels so fucking narcissistic in a way I don't think anyone would want to read it. Like, I get it; it's a memoir, so it kind of has to be narcissistic. But it's littered with pop-culture references of the things I grew up on or influenced me or my writing and less on actual personal relationships. I can easily see people criticizing that, laughing at it, or rolling their eyes at it.
I don't know. I've ranted many times already about how my spark for writing feels dead. I don't know why I keep trying to get back into it when it's not there.
DAY 2:I guess what I'm saying is, it sounds like what you are experiencing is well within what I would consider "expected behavior" for a writer
I decided to purge those chapters entirely, two of which were already written, cutting about 2,000-3,000 words.
But suddenly I felt much better about what that left. Without those interruptions in the narrative flow, I could focus on what was meant to be the meat of the book. I realized those chapters, while a good idea in theory, would kill the narrative pacing.
Yeah, that's really how I felt until I quit working for the government in my former career. I just couldn't do it anymore.I haven't been this deeply unhappy with my life in a long, long time. I feel like I'm just going through the motions of my day, trying not to fall apart crying or screaming.
And I'm not in the mood for some pithy "hurr hurr hurr welcome to my life everyday!" type joke. So please, if that's all you're going to say... just don't.
[EDIT: That’s] Not...really [what I was going to say]? I was going to say that I think I’m hearing this now from more people (a larger quantity of people, that is) than at any other time in my life, and I’m kinda concerned more because I don’t think it’s confined to any specific population. GenXers, Whites, Poor, Americans...age/race/income/nationality/etc don’t seem to matter, that gloom just seems to be everywhere.I haven't been this deeply unhappy with my life in a long, long time. I feel like I'm just going through the motions of my day, trying not to fall apart crying or screaming. And I'm not in the mood for some pithy "hurr hurr hurr welcome to my life everyday!" type joke. So please, if that's all you're going to say... just don't.
The data certainly shows a trend upwards, if (if) suicide is a symptom of that societal "gloom" in the U.S.: Suicide Mortality in the United States, 1999–2017 (CDC)Not...really? I was going to say that I think I’m hearing this now from more people (a larger quantity of people, that is) than at any other time in my life, and I’m kinda concerned more because I don’t think it’s confined to any specific population. GenXers, Whites, Poor, Americans...age/race/income/nationality/etc don’t seem to matter, that gloom just seems to be everywhere.
—Patrick
I don't know if we can say for certain it has increased, it could simply be that mental health is more openly talked about now, and so its rate of reporting could have increased.[EDIT: That’s] Not...really [what I was going to say]? I was going to say that I think I’m hearing this now from more people (a larger quantity of people, that is) than at any other time in my life, and I’m kinda concerned more because I don’t think it’s confined to any specific population. GenXers, Whites, Poor, Americans...age/race/income/nationality/etc don’t seem to matter, that gloom just seems to be everywhere.
—Patrick
Survey Finds Millennials and Gen Z Are Increasingly Pessimistic About Their LivesThe data certainly shows a trend upwards, if (if) suicide is a symptom of that societal "gloom" in the U.S.: Suicide Mortality in the United States, 1999–2017 (CDC)