Agreed; let's skip the argument and head straight to analysis!
- If you mispronounce AND put the emPHAsis on the wrong sylLAble
(Professor QP says a comma here would've solved some of the initial confusion) onigiri becomes a highly offensive word....
But that's only if onigiri must be in the final part of the sentence for dramatic effect. Alternatively and clearer:
- Onigiri becomes a highly offensive word if you mispronounce it AND put the emPHAsis on the wrong sylLAble.
But the comma version is less boring and skips the unnecessary pronoun.
The impetus of understanding lies with the communicator.
On the one hand, I refuse to accept this because that would mean the people who fail to understand my instructions are right and it's my fault.
On the other hand, I must accept this because otherwise I'm simply failing to understand what my wife says and it's my fault.