Dogs too...as well as anything in the onion family (allium--onions, shallots, leeks, and chives) .FYI - Garlic is toxic to cats.
Dogs too...as well as anything in the onion family (allium--onions, shallots, leeks, and chives) .FYI - Garlic is toxic to cats.
Yeah.. I debated replying "I probably won't do anything of the sort, and if I do, I definitely won't phrase it like that." It's almost freakin ghoulish.But please don't say RNG can be harsh. :|
That's because for most people, it's a thing that comes naturally, so it's like trying to explain how to breathe. I am so socially awkward penguin, and have been so trained to not say the wrong thing, that a lot of the time I sit around in awkward silence when confronted in a physical social interaction. I don't know how quickly you made the RNG comment, but that's one of those things that you should have maybe read back to yourself a few times while reading the initial post to imagine how you would feel if it were said to you in a moment of grief.I'm not arguing that your complaint is without merit. Independent of tragic grandma-ness, I'm reeeally getting tired of it lately when people (Online, IRL, wherever) tell me, "You're doing it wrong/You should do better next time" but then giving me absolutely squat to go on. No advice, no resources, not even an explanation of what it was I did wrong. Just a vague, "You should have known better/should be able to figure it out on your own/should be obvious."
Well it isn't.
So I guess that's my 500% more drama rant today.
--Patrick
im sorry you are getting that pat, we all get what you are saying, and I dont take them to hard, other people on here have done similar things to me. its a known fact you have your own way of saying things, and I dont even bat an eye when you say something off key as you are not a malicious person.I'm not arguing that your complaint is without merit. Independent of tragic grandma-ness, I'm reeeally getting tired of it lately when people (Online, IRL, wherever) tell me, "You're doing it wrong/You should do better next time" but then giving me absolutely squat to go on. No advice, no resources, not even an explanation of what it was I did wrong. Just a vague, "You should have known better/should be able to figure it out on your own/should be obvious."
Well it isn't.
So I guess that's my 500% more drama rant today.
--Patrick
I'd say, when people are grieving, it's best not to try to translate it or explain it or couch it in other terms (especially not video game terms - that comes to close to making it sound like trying to turn it into a joke). Best instead to state sympathy as plainly as possible, as I did in this situation:I'm not arguing that your complaint is without merit. Independent of tragic grandma-ness, I'm reeeally getting tired of it lately when people (Online, IRL, wherever) tell me, "You're doing it wrong/You should do better next time" but then giving me absolutely squat to go on. No advice, no resources, not even an explanation of what it was I did wrong. Just a vague, "You should have known better/should be able to figure it out on your own/should be obvious."
Well it isn't.
So I guess that's my 500% more drama rant today.
--Patrick
I dont think "RNG can be harsh." was meant to be contained in his condolences, more as a post-thought on the matter.That's because for most people, it's a thing that comes naturally, so it's like trying to explain how to breathe. I am so socially awkward penguin, and have been so trained to not say the wrong thing, that a lot of the time I sit around in awkward silence when confronted in a physical social interaction. I don't know how quickly you made the RNG comment, but that's one of those things that you should have maybe read back to yourself a few times while reading the initial post to imagine how you would feel if it were said to you in a moment of grief.
It's from Daredevil Season 3. Minor spoilers:I honestly don't know what that's from (or if I do, I don't recognize it).
--Patrick
You can always rely upon my pedantic impulses.I deleted it because I didn't have the energy to explain, only to be ninja'd by Gas.
Except the latter is meant to be a source of comfort, that there's a bigger meaning to the tragedy (whether or not you believe that to be true is another thing entirely). Saying RNG can be cruel is saying "yeah life sucks" without an aknowledgment of the pain the person is going through. Not to mention it sounds incredibly flippant since you're making something of a joke out of the situation.to me, "RNG can be harsh" carries the exact same emotional value and content as "God's ways are inscrutable". They both just state "you can do everything right and still get horrible bad shit happen to you"
Because you associate RNG with games. It's a perfectly fine logical term, though. That all just ties back to De Saussure if you really want to get philosophical.What. The. Fuck? Imgur, are you high? That is NOT the picture I got the source for.
I know! I even put the link into the url bar before I posted it. Went from a meme picture to hamsters. Have no idea why.Also, I just spent two minutes trying to work out what two hamsters had to do with any of this, and if I was missing an animation or something.
Perhaps it's Imgur AI trying to take over for @BananaHands ' old habit of trying to defuse arguments by posting cute pics?I know! I even put the link into the url bar before I posted it. Went from a meme picture to hamsters. Have no idea why.
This gets me boiling mad. I mean what "plan" requires you to randomly delete a three-year old kid by dropping a security gate on them? FUCK THAT NOISE.Never EVER tell someone grieving that it was "God's plan" or that "He's in a better place".
Fuck. You.
I will say that, in some cases involving euthanasia, it can be. Painful, sad, unfair, and so on, but also for the best, if the person in question was reduced to suffering/agony with no hope of improvement.Or telling you that it was for the best.
Trust me, you don’t want to hear that one. It’s never for the best.
Two guinea pigs? Double cavies? A "little piggish?"To me it came across like this:
...oh.What. The. Fuck? Imgur, are you high? That is NOT the picture I got the source for.
edit: It was a screen print of the time a guy talked about his brother died on the WoW official forums. The first response was, "Did he drop any good loot."
Believe it or not, there is a (highly religious, of course) subset of our population which WOULD genuinely be comforted by the suggestion that something like this may have been part of some sort of divine plan. I mean, it's the sort of thing you had better be 100% sure of before you made such a comment, but then we're back to the tailoring based on "how well do you know the recipient?" thing again.Never EVER tell someone grieving that it was "God's plan" or that "He's in a better place". Fuck. You.