I think your fiancée might be a bit too jealous.I'll also happily stare at a cute doggy with a smile and think about petting it. And I'll do neither.
I think your fiancée might be a bit too jealous.I'll also happily stare at a cute doggy with a smile and think about petting it. And I'll do neither.
It's pretty bad form to pet strange dogs witohut permission.I think your fiancée might be a bit too jealous.
It's okay, you can drink Diet Pepsi if you want.Arg! The thirst is real!
And totally inappropriate - I'm in a relationship, my eyes and mind should not be wandering this much!
How do I make it stop?!?
Just redirect that energy, go bang your partner's brains out.Arg! The thirst is real!
And totally inappropriate - I'm in a relationship, my eyes and mind should not be wandering this much!
How do I make it stop?!?
Normally, yes. But I'm barely talking to my partner right now because of a massive recent fight. I don't even want to be in the same room as them, let alone rage banging.Just redirect that energy, go bang your partner's brains out.
Oh, well that's why you're having these feelings. This is all normal mad at partner what if fantasy stuff. Time to love yourself instead.Normally, yes. But I'm barely talking to my partner right now because of a massive recent fight. I don't even want to be in the same room as them, let alone rage banging.
Oh, I've been doing "self care". A. Lot.Oh, well that's why you're having these feelings. This is all normal mad at partner what if fantasy stuff. Time to love yourself instead.
The newness, which is the majority of the reason it feels so intense, will wear off. In the meantime, like others have said, allow yourself the occasional self love fantasy, but keep in mind that if you really care about your partner, don't take it to a point that it will negatively affect your feelings or relationship. That threshold is different for everyone, so I can't tell you where the line is. But you know where it is, so keep it within those boundaries.Arg! The thirst is real!
And totally inappropriate - I'm in a relationship, my eyes and mind should not be wandering this much!
How do I make it stop?!?
Try not to let it turn into “wound care.”Oh, I've been doing "self care". A. Lot.
Yeah, thoughts are harmless, until they cross a line where they aren't. The reason I mentioned redirection of energy is because if I was in a relationship and my girlfriend jumped me because the nextdoor neighbor that looks like Chris Hemsworth was mowing the lawn with his shirt off, I'm not going to be upset about it. I'm going to be sneaking into his yard at night to spread grass feeder, he's gonna have the best lawn on the block.The newness, which is the majority of the reason it feels so intense, will wear off. In the meantime, like others have said, allow yourself the occasional self love fantasy, but keep in mind that if you really care about your partner, don't take it to a point that it will negatively affect your feelings or relationship. That threshold is different for everyone, so I can't tell you where the line is. But you know where it is, so keep it within those boundaries.
I hate that "coulda/woulda/shoulda" feeling I get after I don't take a risk on something (like the stock market... or Bitcoin!) and then watch other people reap amazing benefits because they were willing to take a risk where I wasn't.I am such a fucking coward.
Huh. I didn't realize anyone thought RBY was a thing.RGB and CMY as primary colors is based on human biology and the way human eyes work. Red, Blue and Yellow as primary colors is antiquated and inaccurate, and has no basis in science. It is a social construct and the resulting color theory only applies in regards to that social construct.
The triadic color wheel has been around for a loooong time, and there are people who still swear by it as THE model of color theory. RBY are primary; green, orange, and purple are secondary colors.Huh. I didn't realize anyone thought RBY was a thing.
I think that's stretching things mighty far. Depending on what definitions you use, color might be considered a psychological construct*, but not a social one. I know there are theories that language impacts our ability to differentiate between colors, but I don't think that's ever been conclusively proven, and it's pretty clear that animals who never communicate about color still differentiate between colors.Galaxy brain: color is a social construct
It's the (imperfect) color model usually taught to children, probably because blue/red roll off a 6yr-old's tongue more easily than cyan/magenta.Huh. I didn't realize anyone thought RBY was a thing.
This was the second time my mind was blown about color. I'd never really thought about it, but it's true...magenta does not appear on the color spectrum. It's like the 1/x of colors, since if it did exist, it would be the bridge connecting both ends of the visible light spectrum.Magenta is a psychological construct. There is no single wavelength of light that is magenta. It only exists as the way the human brain interprets multiple wavelengths of light at the same time.
That, and RBY is an older color theory, dating back to the 18th century, at least. I'm not sure how long, but for a century or so RBY was the standard for color theory in Europe, and I think that's never fully gone away as a standard for how color is thought about in art. It's never been fully supplanted by CMYK, or any of the other methods of defining colors (there's also YCrCb, La*b*, CMYKOG, CIE 1931 XYZ, CIELUV, and more.) Oh, and Wikipedia is severely deficient in even mentioning color theories from non-European countries.It's the (imperfect) color model usually taught to children, probably because blue/red roll off a 6yr-old's tongue more easily than cyan/magenta.
It's not really "bunk," though. I mean, unless you're a tetrachromat (or maybe a mantis shrimp). That's exactly how human eyes work, synthesizing color based on the excitation level of three different types of cone cells. I don't remember the exact story, but I seem to remember that being a tetrachromat mainly increases your discrimination of different yellows, I think?the idea of primary colors, and being able to reproduce all colors from just three, is kinda bunk.
It's not that simple though. First, my declaration of "bunk" was mainly in reference to pigments, and subtractive color mixing in paints, dyes, etc. CMYK isn't good at creating purples and oranges, among other limitations of various color systems.It's not really "bunk," though. I mean, unless you're a tetrachromat (or maybe a mantis shrimp). That's exactly how human eyes work, synthesizing color based on the excitation level of three different types of cone cells. I don't remember the exact story, but I seem to remember that being a tetrachromat mainly increases your discrimination of different yellows, I think?
Rods are most sensitive at ~500nm, which could explain it, since your brain doesn't interpret rods as "green" so much as "level of vibrance."the Opponent Process theory of how humans interpret color says that rods influence color perception, and I don't even understand enough of the summaries I'm reading to know how that impacts the theoretical limits of RGB color reproduction.
RBY being primary is what I was taught in elementary school. Like 45 years ago. It may not work for printing, but it seemed to work for crayonsEven though this theory of color is not accurate in terms of how to mix colors for printing...
The old laser light shows would synthesize color from 8 wavelengths of multiline Ar/Kr gas lasers. Some of this was done to expand the color space as much as possible and some of it was done to try and compensate for the lower power in some of the wavelengths. The dominant lines were typically 488nm (cyan), 514nm(green), and 647nm(red). To get a bluer blue, a lower power blue 476nm, technically an indigo 465nm, and a violet line at 457nm were used. The red was augmented with the 676nm line and the 568nm line could be brought in for yellow and orange.Could the RGB colorspace be improved by using three lasers that aren't RGB, but slightly different wavelengths? Or would such purity of color even make a difference? Would you still need more than three colors, despite most humans having three types of cones? I need a good documentary on the subject.
hey at least it isnt 103 with 100% absolute humidity. I feel like a crawdad boiling in the pot for dinner!Yeah well back when I traversed the Sahara on foot, we would've killed to have a nice chill like what you have.
(That's the shit we mean when we give you crap for talking about Arizona)