Ooo, Snuffle heaven!
Ooo, Snuffle heaven!
He’s being kind and only showing a fewOoo, Snuffle heaven!
Today I learned that the above tapas restaurant did not close ten years ago or whatever. Instead they just moved to a new location. But I discovered this by reading the notification that now they are officially closing, and for good this time.Sliders. Hmph. I miss the tapas restaurant we used to have around here. They were awesome.
I am glad I have teenagers, one who has autism and doesn't really leave the house unless I make him anyways, and one who is in the full bloom of her teenage emo phase and doesn't really want to leave the house either. She is on Discord with her friends every night and they play Roblox and stuff, so that's good enough for her. One of my friends with a 5 year old daughter started a Minecraft Bedrock server for her to play with other kids on the Switch, but I don't know how viable online playtime is for your kid.I had to remind my mother that we absolutely would NOT be attending her family reunion around the 4th of July. Not only because, hey, there's still a pandemic and a number of attending people would be flying in from CA and FL, but given the currently national climate, there is a not a group of people I'd want to be with less right now. Certain people are "white-privileged ignorant" at best, and straight-up bigots at worst, and I am exhausted of trying to talk any sense into them. No amount of swimming and games could make me put up with 5 minutes of that at this point. So that was a fun conversation.
Oh, and today we had to bite the bullet and cancel Li'l Z's summer camps (the ones that weren't already cancelled by the state). I hate doing it, which is why we put it off until the last possible day, but people around here are playing hit-and-miss with masks and social distancing, and we really weren't comfortable sending him. It breaks my heart because he just wants to play with other kids, and the other day he was in tears because he felt like the Covid restrictions were a punishment and he didn't do anything wrong. So I feel like a shit parent. No sleep for me tonight.
We have a PS4 and a Switch, but he hasn't had anyone to play with except me. However, one of the families down the street that we are friends with is getting a (used) PS4 later this week, so once school is out we're setting up games they can play together. This will help, but he's also a really social kid who loves to run and do any kind of physical play/activity, so I know he really misses just being able to go to a playground.I am glad I have teenagers, one who has autism and doesn't really leave the house unless I make him anyways, and one who is in the full bloom of her teenage emo phase and doesn't really want to leave the house either. She is on Discord with her friends every night and they play Roblox and stuff, so that's good enough for her. One of my friends with a 5 year old daughter started a Minecraft Bedrock server for her to play with other kids on the Switch, but I don't know how viable online playtime is for your kid.
I had to have a toenail removed (my big toenail) about 10 or 11 years ago. They can give you a shot that makes your entire foot go numb as a block of wood (I forget what it was... cortisol or cortisone maybe), and then just rip the sucker out and you don't feel a thing.Update: not too bad right now. But, I have not yet needed to change the bandage.
@Cheesy1 - if you hear a piercing scream coming for the east, you'll know it's me.
Also about ten years ago for me. Fun fact, some people have an extra nerve in their big toe that makes it difficult to numb. Guess who falls into that category?I had to have a toenail removed (my big toenail) about 10 or 11 years ago. They can give you a shot that makes your entire foot go numb as a block of wood (I forget what it was... cortisol or cortisone maybe), and then just rip the sucker out and you don't feel a thing.
However, make sure they prescribe something GOOD for the pain once that shot wears off. If not for hydrocodone I don't know how I would have made it through the following 36 hours.
It took me about 33 years to figure it out... though I got some help in the form of medication towards the end of that run. I wish I could tell you there's a secret way to achieve it.I really have a hard time understanding the concept of "self love". I'm too aware of my own flaws and toxicity, and wanting something for myself makes me think I'm being selfish. Which I'm told I'm already way too much of.
It's not really a "secret," but neither is it easy, because it depends on you putting your wants/needs aside in favor of someone else's... sorta. It's been six years since I saw this post on reddit, and not a week goes by I don't think about how I still have room to improve.I wish I could tell you there's a secret way to achieve it.
--Patricku/RobbieGee said:Research has recently shown that we consider our future self as an entity other than ourselves. I figured why not use this effect and reframe it in such a was as to benefit us to prevent procrastination and continuing bad habits. Usually "the now" counts so much more in our reptile brains so every trick we can use to suppress that is likely to benefit us in our modern society.
The trick would be to imagine your future self as someone you love, a dear friend you want everything good for, [a friend that] lives far away and you're going to see soon. Attempt to make a habit of considering all actions you perform and in which way they would affect this friend. [...] Try to imagine it strongly and attempt to do "the right thing" instead of leeching off your friend.
Nah, my future self is talking shit about me right now, fuck that guy.It's not really a "secret," but neither is it easy, because it depends on you putting your wants/needs aside in favor of someone else's... sorta. It's been six years since I saw this post on reddit, and not a week goes by I don't think about how I still have room to improve.
Here are the most important parts of that post, just in case it ever gets removed.
--Patrick
With that attitude, can ya blame him for blaming you?Nah, my future self is talking shit about me right now.
Is he bucking for a cabinet position?The primary motivation of my boss seems to be to break/remove as many working systems as possible.
And then blame the staff for the problems.
And then insist on half-assed workarounds which don't do the job nearly as well as the systems he demanded be removed.
You should accumulate a bunch of debt, that’ll teach him!Nah, my future self is talking shit about me right now, fuck that guy.
I have doomweasels ready to deploy, should you require them.Work is trying to break me with all of these IT issues. They have to be.
I think I'm coming down with a sore throat, myself. Greeeeeat.Just got diagnosed with conjunctivitis. Great.