[Rant] Minor Rant III: For a Few Hollers More

Don't pull "manager said I could," if you don't want me checking with him. Especially at 1 in the morning when you're not supposed to be here in the first place. There's a reason I've been here three years and people like you barely last three weeks.
"Kid, I make two night auditors like you in the toilet every morning."
 
Note that nobody in this thread actually implied that "bitches be crazy." Just bitch, singluar, be crazy.
And at no time would I ever refer to her as a bitch, either. Just a little clingy, especially getting 2 AM texts that say "It's easier for me if you just say "I'm not interested" then to just ignore me".

Yes I recognize that I said I would text you tonight, but it was midnight by the time I got home and that it would be nicer just to text in the morning. Which I responded with and then she said "Midnight? That sounds like a good date!" I was at a coworker BBQ.


The very fact that I have to explain my personal activity is a huge red flag after a weekend of hanging out. And so I've explained that this isn't going to work and while she's very nice and I enjoy her company a lot, and she's super hot, this is no go.


And she had already started leaving stuff at my place so she's coming by after work to take it all.
 
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And at no time would I ever refer to her as a bitch, either. Just a little clingy, especially getting 2 AM texts that say "It's easier for me if you just say "I'm not interested" then to just ignore me".

Yes I recognize that I said I would text you tonight, but it was midnight by the time I got home and that it would be nicer just to text in the morning. Which I responded with and then she said "Midnight? That sounds like a good date!" I was at a coworker BBQ.


The very fact that I have to explain my personal activity is a huge red flag after a weekend of hanging out. And so I've explained that this isn't going to work and while she's very nice and I enjoy her company a lot, and she's super hot, this is no go.


And she had already started leaving stuff at my place so she's coming by after work to take it all.
WOW, that is super clingy for such a new dating relationship. You've known her for what, a week? I don't blame you one bit for hitting the eject button.
 
WOW, that is super clingy for such a new dating relationship. You've known her for what, a week? I don't blame you one bit for hitting the eject button.
Since Friday. Yeah, things probably got a little too hot too quickly and that's my fault.
 
Yes I recognize that I said I would text you tonight, but it was midnight by the time I got home and that it would be nicer just to text in the morning. Which I responded with and then she said "Midnight? That sounds like a good date!" I was at a coworker BBQ.

And she had already started leaving stuff at my place so she's coming by after work to take it all.
Yikes.
 
God damn. My GF just got scammed about winning a "Free" vacation. Apparently they've hit quite a few people in the area. They charge you for the plane tickets during the call, and then when you get the package details in the mail you realize the restrictions are set up so that very few can actually take advantage of it.

It's not the money that hurts. I mean, it does. She's a single mom working part time trying to finish her degree. So she has very little money, but that will get disputed and she'll get it back. It's that she got hit a bit of a low point. She was so excited to actually have something good happen. Hearing her voice when I told her what it was broke my heart. :( She has wanted to bring her kid to Disney for so long, and she thought this was her chance.

This feeling sucks. :mad:
 
Since Friday. Yeah, things probably got a little too hot too quickly and that's my fault.
Was the speed a sort of burrowing, "barb" tactic that is designed to insinuate her into your life and make her harder to dislodge?
Or was it a nestling, a rush to hurry up and get "safe and comfortable" as quickly as possible?

--Patrick
 
Was the speed a sort of burrowing, "barb" tactic that is designed to insinuate her into your life and make her harder to dislodge?
Or was it a nestling, a rush to hurry up and get "safe and comfortable" as quickly as possible?

--Patrick
Without stroking my ego too much, I think it was a barb tactic designed to prevent me from disappearing more than to keep her insinuated. She kept asking how the hell I was single. And then would talk about how she was deleting her POF account because she's good to go. hint hint Adam should do the same. And then just kept complimenting me on anything and everything.

And I know her whole life story start to finish, her ex-husband, her two kids that got given up for adoption, etc. She was a really nice girl, just operating out of a different book than I was.
 
I just interviewed for a job that I don't really know if I want. But I take all interviews seriously. So I spent about $100 on a new shirt and slacks. I can't really afford this!

I also tanked on the interview. I was expecting a technical job with some management. But it was a management job with a lot of inventory processes involved. I did not learn that this was a management position until 20 minutes before the interview. So I was not ready for management theory questions.
 
I just interviewed for a job that I don't really know if I want. But I take all interviews seriously. So I spent about $100 on a new shirt and slacks. I can't really afford this!

I also tanked on the interview. I was expecting a technical job with some management. But it was a management job with a lot of inventory processes involved. I did not learn that this was a management position until 20 minutes before the interview. So I was not ready for management theory questions.
I had another interview for for a better paying position. But I did not know about the interview until a few hours before. So I was at work wearing a Polo shirt I should have retired a year ago... But the interviewers knew me already, so I was not making a first impression.

I think the interview went well enough that I'll be considered on my merits, not on screwing up the interview like I did the day before.
 
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