Ya, those people should be their parents. Not the government. Government should only step in when a threshold of abuse is crossed, and that should be very clear and obvious. Beyond that, they're your kids, they're your responsibility, not the government. There is room for some other accommodations, like Public School, vaccinations, etc, but it should be NARROW. It is the Parents' job to keep track of and regulate their kids, not the government's.Like it or not, most Americans (and most people) like protecting children from things they feel they are not adult enough to address, including drugs, sex, and eating habits. People want to have some licensing system for cars. They overwhelmingly like the Civil Rights Act.
Chad, absolutely everything you cited there is their parents' responsibility to oversee, not the government's IMO. There's a reason that "Nanny State" is seen as a bad thing by a lot of people. And that even applies to children too!