I don't know who Chris Rufo is and the fact that he's appearing in a....barn? Shed? With Tucker Carlson almost instantly makes anything he has to say crap, BUT:
If you're ignoring who he's probably implying and what his idea of "proper" looks are and all of that,
there *is* a sensible conversation to be had somewhere underneath. I absolutely approve of the idea of everyone being allowed to express themselves through their looks, if you want tattoos all over your forehead and paint your skin blue and red, have at it... The idea that we have to accept that is a-okay. The idea we all have approve and applaud every choice made by everyone, is not, and sometimes some of the more extreme voices really do seem to insist/imply that. same with body positivity: people don't need to be made to feel bad about how they look, be it with one foot, (a) different skin color(s), proportions that deviate from the common, etc. However, again, some of the more extreme voices make it sound like absolutely every body shape or type has to be celebrated and applauded, which is just BS. Being overweight is great if you feel good about it, being underweight is fine if you don't mind, but there does come a point where either can be dangerous - the amount of girls who developed anorexia or bulimia based on unrealistic beauty ideals is impossible to count; morbid obesity is called "morbid" for a reason. Certainly in young children, this is not the child's fault - there's genetics, possible diseases or hormonal issues, bad eating habits learned from parents, and so on. We shouldn't be calling those children grotesque and ugly, and the random guy passing by in the street should more than probably just keep their mouth shut, but it can be ok to say "hey, this is unhealthy, and you should get this checked out before it gets worse or affects your life permanently".
Of course Tucker goes for "hatred of the beautiful and elevation of the ugly" which is just an absolutely moronic take and a deliberate fun-house-mirror misrepresentation of pretty much anyone's opinion or view on this.
I think there IS a potentially somewhat interesting discussion to be had about the dangers of the pendulum swinging too far from "only this one semi-anorexic photoshopped ideal standard is good" to "we need to celebrate and applaud every type of body". This isn't the way to go about it and just makes everyone who might even think in that direction look like fascist paternalistic backwards idiots.