Social norms and normal vs. deviant (was "so this chick said that for $20, she'd...")
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crono1224
So, this chick said that for $20 she'd...
Nice, clearly didn't actually read my post and while two things can be in the same category it doesn't mean that they have been given the same weight or even defined as the same thing, but its cool that you feel like insulting me without actually debating.
Only Crono, so no, not really.[/QUOTE]
Nice, clearly didn't actually read my post and while two things can be in the same category it doesn't mean that they have been given the same weight or even defined as the same thing, but its cool that you feel like insulting me without actually debating.
So, this chick said that for $20 she'd...
Nice, clearly didn't actually read my post and while two things can be in the same category it doesn't mean that they have been given the same weight or even defined as the same thing, but its cool that you feel like insulting me without actually debating.[/QUOTE]
What's to debate? You're the one who grouped them altogether without saying "While torture is one thing, sex parties are another." Someone asked if they were grouped together, and according to this:
You don't state your views one way or the other, but you get defensive when you're quoted on what you did say? Nice. If you look, Tin asked if they were put in the same category. You even say that you did put them in the same category.
Only Crono, so no, not really.[/QUOTE]
Nice, clearly didn't actually read my post and while two things can be in the same category it doesn't mean that they have been given the same weight or even defined as the same thing, but its cool that you feel like insulting me without actually debating.[/QUOTE]
What's to debate? You're the one who grouped them altogether without saying "While torture is one thing, sex parties are another." Someone asked if they were grouped together, and according to this:
someone named Crono1224 did.Crono1224 said:
You don't state your views one way or the other, but you get defensive when you're quoted on what you did say? Nice. If you look, Tin asked if they were put in the same category. You even say that you did put them in the same category.
So, this chick said that for $20 she'd...
Yeah, that genocide, cannibalism and jaywalking are just all sorts of fucked up right there.
Yeah, that genocide, cannibalism and jaywalking are just all sorts of fucked up right there.
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crono1224
So, this chick said that for $20 she'd...
More like the are all deviations of social norms, so it doesn't matter the extremes that they may be they are all on the side of deviant behavior, while some maybe down right horrible, they still fit in the same category of deviant, now if you want to qualify the deviation then that's fine but that doesn't invalidate my point. So just because you don't like the fact that some things can be grouped together it doesn't make it wrong. So good luck with that.
More like the are all deviations of social norms, so it doesn't matter the extremes that they may be they are all on the side of deviant behavior, while some maybe down right horrible, they still fit in the same category of deviant, now if you want to qualify the deviation then that's fine but that doesn't invalidate my point. So just because you don't like the fact that some things can be grouped together it doesn't make it wrong. So good luck with that.
So, this chick said that for $20 she'd...
which social norms are you referring to here, exactly? I've known groups of people where certain sexual practices are certainly the norm, whereas you label them as pretty much universally socially deviant. BTW, In none of those groups are murder and non-consensual torture considered social norms.
It's a bad analogy. So good luck with that.
which social norms are you referring to here, exactly? I've known groups of people where certain sexual practices are certainly the norm, whereas you label them as pretty much universally socially deviant. BTW, In none of those groups are murder and non-consensual torture considered social norms.
It's a bad analogy. So good luck with that.
So, this chick said that for $20 she'd...
ITT: Not all people understand that words like normal and deviant are very subjective.
ITT: Not all people understand that words like normal and deviant are very subjective.
So, this chick said that for $20 she'd...
You are all a bunch of weridos and should be in prison
You are all a bunch of weridos and should be in prison
So, this chick said that for $20 she'd...
Well, since they're apparently the same as torture and murder, they probably already are, right?
So, this chick said that for $20 she'd...
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So, this chick said that for $20 she'd...
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XD LOL
So, this chick said that for $20 she'd...
You are all a bunch of weridos and should be in prison
North_Ranger
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Social norms and normal vs. deviant (was "so this chick said that for $20, she'd.
I know for a fact that I am a perverted bastard. I just don't let normal people know that.
I know for a fact that I am a perverted bastard. I just don't let normal people know that.
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The Key of J
So, this chick said that for $20 she'd...
Depending on the location, culture, or even a group of friends that you mingle with define new and different social norms. Even with that being said, what goes on behind closed doors seems to be an anything goes grab bag of events. Hell, get yourself in the right spiritual circle and murder could be considered a social norm.
In other words: there is no normal, it's all shades of gray painted on the side of a rolling stone. What you really should have stated was that her actions deviate from YOUR perspective on what's normal.
Social norms - "the rules that a group uses for appropriate and inappropriate values, beliefs, attitudes and behaviors."
Depending on the location, culture, or even a group of friends that you mingle with define new and different social norms. Even with that being said, what goes on behind closed doors seems to be an anything goes grab bag of events. Hell, get yourself in the right spiritual circle and murder could be considered a social norm.
In other words: there is no normal, it's all shades of gray painted on the side of a rolling stone. What you really should have stated was that her actions deviate from YOUR perspective on what's normal.
Social norms and normal vs. deviant (was "so this chick said that for $20, she'd.
Same here, except normal people always find out one way or another. Not sure why.
Social norms and normal vs. deviant (was "so this chick said that for $20, she'd.
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I love my glasses...
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Social norms and normal vs. deviant (was "so this chick said that for $20, she'd.
Of course! It all makes sense! Without glasses, I couldn't ogle at all women passing by because I couldn't see them!
Of course! It all makes sense! Without glasses, I couldn't ogle at all women passing by because I couldn't see them!
North_Ranger
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Social norms and normal vs. deviant (was "so this chick said that for $20, she'd.
I wear glasses, too...
WE HAVE CONFIRMATION!
I wear glasses, too...
WE HAVE CONFIRMATION!
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crono1224
So, this chick said that for $20 she'd...
Depending on the location, culture, or even a group of friends that you mingle with define new and different social norms. Even with that being said, what goes on behind closed doors seems to be an anything goes grab bag of events. Hell, get yourself in the right spiritual circle and murder could be considered a social norm.
In other words: there is no normal, it's all shades of gray painted on the side of a rolling stone. What you really should have stated was that her actions deviate from YOUR perspective on what's normal.[/QUOTE]
So the definition of normal varies between micro and macro scales? Thats fine I never was arguing that, but lets use this forum as the group, and I would even say sex parties is out of the norm for most of us, so I fail to see how its not deviant behavior when its put in the context of halforum members.
Social norms - "the rules that a group uses for appropriate and inappropriate values, beliefs, attitudes and behaviors."
Depending on the location, culture, or even a group of friends that you mingle with define new and different social norms. Even with that being said, what goes on behind closed doors seems to be an anything goes grab bag of events. Hell, get yourself in the right spiritual circle and murder could be considered a social norm.
In other words: there is no normal, it's all shades of gray painted on the side of a rolling stone. What you really should have stated was that her actions deviate from YOUR perspective on what's normal.[/QUOTE]
So the definition of normal varies between micro and macro scales? Thats fine I never was arguing that, but lets use this forum as the group, and I would even say sex parties is out of the norm for most of us, so I fail to see how its not deviant behavior when its put in the context of halforum members.
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JCM
So, this chick said that for $20 she'd...
Depending on the location, culture, or even a group of friends that you mingle with define new and different social norms. Even with that being said, what goes on behind closed doors seems to be an anything goes grab bag of events. Hell, get yourself in the right spiritual circle and murder could be considered a social norm.
In other words: there is no normal, it's all shades of gray painted on the side of a rolling stone. What you really should have stated was that her actions deviate from YOUR perspective on what's normal.[/QUOTE]
So the definition of normal varies between micro and macro scales? Thats fine I never was arguing that, but lets use this forum as the group, and I would even say sex parties is out of the norm for most of us, so I fail to see how its not deviant behavior when its put in the context of halforum members.[/QUOTE]Speak for yourself, instead of generalising for an entire forum?
I myself have had no problems with sex parties, and even have participated in a few in different countries. Like K of J said, her actions deviate from YOUR perspective on what's normal.
Social norms - "the rules that a group uses for appropriate and inappropriate values, beliefs, attitudes and behaviors."
Depending on the location, culture, or even a group of friends that you mingle with define new and different social norms. Even with that being said, what goes on behind closed doors seems to be an anything goes grab bag of events. Hell, get yourself in the right spiritual circle and murder could be considered a social norm.
In other words: there is no normal, it's all shades of gray painted on the side of a rolling stone. What you really should have stated was that her actions deviate from YOUR perspective on what's normal.[/QUOTE]
So the definition of normal varies between micro and macro scales? Thats fine I never was arguing that, but lets use this forum as the group, and I would even say sex parties is out of the norm for most of us, so I fail to see how its not deviant behavior when its put in the context of halforum members.[/QUOTE]Speak for yourself, instead of generalising for an entire forum?
I myself have had no problems with sex parties, and even have participated in a few in different countries. Like K of J said, her actions deviate from YOUR perspective on what's normal.
Social norms and normal vs. deviant (was "so this chick said that for $20, she'd.
For what it's worth, I never participated in sex parties, nor am I ever planning to because it just seems weird to me.
I think it's actually quite safe to assume that most people don't, else there'd be posters everywhere announcing the hottest sex parties tonight. So going from the entire earth's populace, it's probably viewed as deviant behaviour by a majority.
It is of course not a crime and should never be put in the same category. Whatever floats your boat.
For what it's worth, I never participated in sex parties, nor am I ever planning to because it just seems weird to me.
I think it's actually quite safe to assume that most people don't, else there'd be posters everywhere announcing the hottest sex parties tonight. So going from the entire earth's populace, it's probably viewed as deviant behaviour by a majority.
It is of course not a crime and should never be put in the same category. Whatever floats your boat.
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JCM
Social norms and normal vs. deviant (was "so this chick said that for $20, she'd.
a)The definition of "deviant" is - adj. Differing from a norm or from the accepted standards of a society, not differing from the taste of the majority, otherwise eating with a spoon and fork would be deviant behavior, as most people in the world eat with their hands or chopsticks, so the "is most dont do it = its deviant" isn't quite true.
b)People who participate in them dont announce every time when they are going to one.
c)However, if we go by some society and their rules and what they consider normal, yes, it can be considered deviant behavior, and sadly, in some societies, a crime punishable by death (see Iran and the Middle East)
Just a few observations-
a)The definition of "deviant" is - adj. Differing from a norm or from the accepted standards of a society, not differing from the taste of the majority, otherwise eating with a spoon and fork would be deviant behavior, as most people in the world eat with their hands or chopsticks, so the "is most dont do it = its deviant" isn't quite true.
b)People who participate in them dont announce every time when they are going to one.
c)However, if we go by some society and their rules and what they consider normal, yes, it can be considered deviant behavior, and sadly, in some societies, a crime punishable by death (see Iran and the Middle East)
ElJuski
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Social norms and normal vs. deviant (was "so this chick said that for $20, she'd.
So this one episode of Chowder right, the're all like, "ewww ugly woman has a dirty picture of somethig" and it was her eating toe jam with a fork. The punchline was that the fork was the gross part; eating toe jam with a spoon was way not bad.
HEE HEE
So this one episode of Chowder right, the're all like, "ewww ugly woman has a dirty picture of somethig" and it was her eating toe jam with a fork. The punchline was that the fork was the gross part; eating toe jam with a spoon was way not bad.
HEE HEE
So, this chick said that for $20 she'd...
Depending on the location, culture, or even a group of friends that you mingle with define new and different social norms. Even with that being said, what goes on behind closed doors seems to be an anything goes grab bag of events. Hell, get yourself in the right spiritual circle and murder could be considered a social norm.
In other words: there is no normal, it's all shades of gray painted on the side of a rolling stone. What you really should have stated was that her actions deviate from YOUR perspective on what's normal.[/QUOTE]
So the definition of normal varies between micro and macro scales? Thats fine I never was arguing that, but lets use this forum as the group, and I would even say sex parties is out of the norm for most of us, so I fail to see how its not deviant behavior when its put in the context of halforum members.[/QUOTE]
Any sex is deviant behavior for most of the members.
Social norms - "the rules that a group uses for appropriate and inappropriate values, beliefs, attitudes and behaviors."
Depending on the location, culture, or even a group of friends that you mingle with define new and different social norms. Even with that being said, what goes on behind closed doors seems to be an anything goes grab bag of events. Hell, get yourself in the right spiritual circle and murder could be considered a social norm.
In other words: there is no normal, it's all shades of gray painted on the side of a rolling stone. What you really should have stated was that her actions deviate from YOUR perspective on what's normal.[/QUOTE]
So the definition of normal varies between micro and macro scales? Thats fine I never was arguing that, but lets use this forum as the group, and I would even say sex parties is out of the norm for most of us, so I fail to see how its not deviant behavior when its put in the context of halforum members.[/QUOTE]
Any sex is deviant behavior for most of the members.
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Kitty Sinatra
So, this chick said that for $20 she'd...
That's mean, man. Why you gotta be so mean?
North_Ranger
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Social norms and normal vs. deviant (was "so this chick said that for $20, she'd.
Show me a person who nobody thinks is deviant in some fashion, and I'll show you a person who is dead.
Show me a person who nobody thinks is deviant in some fashion, and I'll show you a person who is dead.
Social norms and normal vs. deviant (was "so this chick said that for $20, she'd.
If anyone is dead and still posting here, that may be considered deviant.
If anyone is dead and still posting here, that may be considered deviant.
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